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No matter when the education of children is an important topic for parents, parents in the current new era circulate a saying, "sons must be poor, daughters must be rich", the widely spread of educational concepts have a certain truth. Parents are seated according to their family situation, and the social status of sons and daughters seems to have changed, and in the past, the older generation was bent on wanting sons, but now many families think the opposite.
Modern times can always hear some men especially want to have a daughter, the daughter is the parent's intimate little cotton jacket, the family has a daughter of the old father's face a little more light, of course, there is a layer of people to maintain the traditional concept. The social status of the daughter is gradually improving, and the parents also want to pursue the education of their daughters, but many parents in the real sense of the rich do not understand, and the different angles of the rich will have different endings.
First, the two main directions of rich daughters
It is not difficult to see from the literal appearance of rich daughters that the two main directions of rich support are the material and spiritual aspects, and material wealth is respected by most parents, and even some parents think that materially satisfying their daughters is rich. Material enrichment is very direct, for the daughter with good family conditions is easy to be satisfied, buying things will always buy the most expensive, as long as the daughter looks at the material aspects are satisfied.
Some local tycoon parents are more exaggerated in material terms, buying limited edition bags and hair accessories for their daughters, clothes and shoes are brand-name, unconditionally meeting their daughters' material needs. Under the influence of this concept, the parents of ordinary families will also do their best to satisfy, hoping that their daughters will have sufficient control over materials, but will bottomless material enrichment be good?
From the perspective of Chinese parents' education, it is not impossible to pay attention to spiritual prosperity, but for many families, they do not understand the real meaning. To put it bluntly, parents do not know how to cultivate, how to raise their daughters at the spiritual level, some parents understand in their hearts but do not know how to weigh it, each family is so rich in accordance with their own conditions and wishes to raise the girls in the family.
Spiritual enrichment is actually to cultivate a knowledgeable, confident and brave girl, so that girls feel insight and pattern in the material satisfaction within the scope of their parents' ability, rather than blindly pursuing material expansion, spiritual enrichment is a delicate process. Different directions of enrichment will have different endings, if you do not grasp the direction of wealth, I believe that the values and outlook on life of girls when they grow up will be deviated, and it is very likely that it is not what their parents think in their hearts.
Second, the different endings behind the two directions of enrichment
Material and spiritual direction of the rich will have different endings, parents should carefully refer to the ending before deciding how to choose, the general material level of rich girls generally have two kinds, one is the local tycoon style of wealth. One is the girl whose parents do their best to provide for material wealth, and in both cases the wealth will be extreme, or the girl has a serious princess disease, and even at the age of marriage, she is accustomed to relying on her parents.
Accustomed to the bottomless satisfaction of parents, girls grow up with values that are easily biased, and unearned gains and suffering are the most intuitive manifestations, whether in school or in society, they still feel that they are princesses. Enjoying all the treatment that a princess should have, completely disregarding the cruelty of reality and the hardships of parents, endlessly nibbling on the old and amplifying dependence, this is undoubtedly a tragic case of material wealth.
There is also a kind of ending is not good, parents to the girl to provide the girl with a local tycoon-style material foundation, from a young age to eat and clothing is not short of money, grow up do not need to consider chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea. Such a girl with thick financial support is easy to be deceived in the face of love and marriage, what we commonly call "sucking slag" physique, even if you meet your favorite boy, you will walk more bumpy on the road of love.
Finally, look at the ending of girls who pay attention to spiritual enrichment, and girls who are rich in spiritual direction are generally confident and optimistic, have their own opinions and independent consciousness in learning life, and have clear plans for different stages of their lives. Exuding temperament from the inside out, rather than the material foundation given by the parents, I hope to obtain it through my own efforts, and after the effort, I give the parents the cultivation of kindness, so the true sense of wealth is actually the spiritual direction.
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summary:
It is not wrong for parents to follow the educational concept of their daughter's rich support, it is important to see through the direction and ending of the rich, choose the ending they want at the beginning of the rich, and pay attention to observing the changes of girls in the process of enrichment. Timely and appropriate through practice to change the theoretical points, different personalities of children's progress are different, suitable for children's enrichment methods can harvest good results, rather than blindly going astray and finally appearing to the extreme.