At 11:08 on December 10, the reporter of the general station learned from the relevant departments of Shenyang City that the "Shenyang 9-year-old boy disappearance incident" that has attracted much attention in the past two days has made new progress. In the waters of the HunHe River in Shenyang, rescuers found the body of a 9-year-old boy suspected of being missing and have salvaged it ashore. The public security department has identified him. On the afternoon of December 10, Shenyang Hunnan Public Security issued a notice saying that the parents of the lost boy identified and confirmed that the deceased was a lost child, Jin Moumou.
The Jimu News reporter found that the location of the salvage of the remains was about 3 kilometers away from the fourth phase of the celebrity impression community where the boy's family was located. Surveillance video shows that at 15:42 on December 8, Yang Yang bounced past the street, which was the last image he left. The children's remains were salvaged, the dust settled, the search and rescue team evacuated the scene, and there were still many people who drove the live broadcast to interact with the audience in the live broadcast room by the Hun River. When looking for children, I don't say anything when I open the live broadcast, it's over, and what does it mean to open the live broadcast to let people give you some attention? This is a small thing, I just mentioned it by the way, if everyone can work together to help every time, even if there are many people who fish in muddy waters, they will not hide it.
Unexpectedly, in just two days, between life and death, everything was reversed. I don't know how the mother defines nothing unusual, the video footage shows the child running, but it's slow motion, it looks like it's bouncing, it's actually speedy. A boy, who said he was happy when he ran? Some people also say that the purpose of changing the mouth is to push the responsibility to the school and ask the school to compensate. Others say that the child's mother has been hit so hard that she subconsciously does not want to admit this fact because she cannot accept the consequences. Only in this way can she find a reason for herself not to follow the child downstairs, which is also the point that everyone says the most, such a small child is in a bad mood and runs away from home, how can parents not follow, how to let the child go? Perhaps, she really couldn't afford such a question. I don't want to speculate on this.
There should be many parents who often say these words to their children, and these sentences with "authority", "oppression" and "threat" may not be intentional when they blurt out, after all, many parents have grown up listening to these words. But it is very likely that these words that were once painful and itchy for themselves will cause great harm if they are heard by others. Some people will definitely rebuke a "glass heart", but if there is less evil words and one more healthy growing child, isn't it a good thing? We often talk about ways to educate our children, but perhaps making parents better parents is the first step in science education. Let the adults who are also parents for the first time learn to be patient, learn to be reasonable, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and learn to listen.
Indeed, a child will grow up with too many things to make parents feel unsatisfactory, make parents feel angry, even if it is a small matter such as writing homework. But if parents first learn to deal with negative emotions, is it not that children can also learn a little, and then they can slowly generate the ability to resist blows, be able to accept setbacks in life, and no longer have a glass heart.
Schools and parents circle around the child every day, think about the child every day, but they do not think that the child is also dignified. Schools and parents have been demanding that students comply with the rules of the collective, whether reasonable or not, forgetting that education should follow the child's nature and psychological growth. Why not show respect? To put it bluntly, because the child is never treated as a person with an independent personality. Treating children as pets, stocks, and the brushing machine needed for education is not suitable for people.
They cannot be trampled on on their dignity because of their low scores, because they are not financially independent. They cannot be dismissed because they did not follow the rules and did not meet our expectations. We do all kinds of things, always saying that it is for the good of the child, but many children do not feel that we love him at all. Love is the best education, and how to love is the most important educational theme that parents and teachers should think about.
In the case of tragedies of this kind, changing the way parents are educated is the most direct and effective. How can we motivate them to change? Tongue-in-cheek, morally scolding them for not being worthy of being human, the voice is loud enough and very relieving, but it is not necessarily useful. The person who can hear these words in his heart, you don't say it, he won't do that kind of thing; the parents who will do that, the more they point fingers, the more stubborn they are: "I have raised this child for more than ten years, and it is the turn of netizens to teach me?" So, accusations can be angry, but they don't necessarily help things.
If parents really don't have the strength to improve themselves, that's it. Think about what else you can do. Another remedy is the education of the child, so that the child understands what is happening to the parents. That is to say, we can design some science for children, to tell us what adults are: your parents are not perfect, they may get out of control. If they become angry at some point, not because you have done something wrong, mainly because they have injuries to themselves (such as seeing their disappointment in themselves since they were young to the national congress) from your test scores on one of the tests), their reaction to being poked in the wound is to jump at you like thunder. Although it makes you feel uncomfortable, it is an adult's problem, don't deny your own value because of the adult's problem.
Yesterday on the streets of Shenyang, I saw a father starting a battery car while cursing and grinning at his child. Guess what the child is doing???? He put his hands on his dad's right arm at the side of the car and said something. Dad said what you don't want to follow me, don't want you, turned the car to the main road, the child held his arm and followed. The child gets in the car and rides away while being trained? The car rode away, and the child ran with the car in the posture of holding his father's arm... After a while, I rode out to visually see thirty meters, and the child was still running.
He should feel like he's holding on to his own life-saving straw... After that, it was time to cross the street, I couldn't see the Big Northeast, it was dark, I wore a lot of clothes and should be very laborious to keep up with the speed of this car... The child's height is almost to the height of his father's shoulder sitting on the small battery... Northeast mothers are also very common, what don't you follow me, what are you still following me for... This is light and common on the streets. And mixed-doubles... I was trembling as I passed by. Who has not had a grudge in their hearts, has not had the idea of running away from home, if they are not affected by a good family, self (ask) salvation (more) redemption (blessing)...
And when I was 20 years old, because I was sick, my mother kept scolding me for several hours, and this situation lasted for a week, and one day I had a big argument with my mother in the continuous scolding, very intense, and the emotional rage was ignited, and I slammed the door in anger. The thought was that I had to die now, because I was sick and it was my damned fault. In front of my house, the Muddy River flows through, because of the wild bath, suicide has to hear a few times a year. There is a bridge above the Hun River, and under the bridge is a beautiful green landscape along the river. I cried and hurried, completely ignoring the strange eyes of passers-by, because I was anxious to find a relief. I couldn't stand being abused and accused by my mother because I was sick. I don't understand, why do I get sick and my mom hates me so much?
The hun river is really beautiful, and the endless river flows from east to west. It was around 3 p.m., I stopped by the river, and suddenly I lost my mind completely, there were many people around, walking, and children playing, but I couldn't hear their voices or feel them, I was just crying, the grievances in my heart, it seemed that this muddy river could not fit. I don't know how many people look at me or not, I just look down at the river, my feet are on the rocks of the river, there is a guardrail in front of me, to my waist, as soon as I turn over, I will immediately fall into the gushing river, there are undercurrents and beaches under the Hun River, I wonder how long I will die? Does it hurt?
Will it hurt more than I do now? I'm sick, I can't be cured, I'm terminally ill, even if I live, my whole life is ruined, what am I doing alive? But my mom, why do you hate me so much? I suddenly remembered that one year, a female corpse was salvaged from the Hun River, 15/6 years old, soaked up to be no longer human-like, she must have been a good-looking girl before she was born, so what about me, will I become like that? I fantasized about what my mother would look like when she saw my body. Will she cry, will she be white-headed, will she go crazy, will she not survive? Thinking of this, I suddenly had a strong sense of revenge. Until now, I still want to die in my mother's arms. There was nothing in my eyes, only tears and the river that Naci went to. I only need to take one step, be brave, and cross the first few points of purgatory suffering, and I can get eternal peace. There will be no more pain.