Analyze the phenomenon of inequality and being pinched in love

Do you believe that a scumbag with a deep heart can make you die in three sentences!

First sentence: Oh, I want to eat strawberries

Second sentence: But this month's salary is spent

The third sentence: You said before that you would always be good to me, are you serious?

Adapt the same words:

First sentence: Honey, I love that set of aquamarine mysteries

Second sentence: But I have just paid off my credit card with my salary, and I plan not to spend money indiscriminately in the future

Third sentence: I know you are very good to me, but I can't spend your money all the time, this is guaranteed to be the last time

Seeing this, do you have a feeling of being manipulated, obviously you don't want to do this, but you have to do it with some restrictions?

This is the most basic pinch in the relationship between the sexes, generally the party who is pinched, can also feel the truth of their own pinch, but can not think of a solution, really can not accept, just a few times of temper struggle, for an acceptable condition to continue to be pinched.

If you don't give it, the scumbag will put on a face-to-face attitude and be cold and violent

Here are a few more examples:

1. He and his wife know each other on a blind date, after marriage just began to have a beautiful life, the only small problem is that the wife is not allowed to drink with his brothers every day, he is from, and then, the wife complains that the marriage is too casual, did not buy a diamond ring for her without proposing, he gritted his teeth, ate a long time of steamed white porridge, also from, and then, her wife complained that honest people get up early and greedy to affect the sleep of children and wives, to move to the factory to sleep, he thought about it, and from it! Then, the wife ran away with the people, and the children didn't care!

2. He is more tough, when getting married, first get on the bus and make up the ticket, the wife gives him a baby with a child, the two people go out to work together, the honest people think about getting married to live a good life, let the wife point, the wife as long as a trouble, he will all obey, behind his wife's requirements are more and more excessive, when the honest people gradually can't do it, the two people also get divorced!

Continuous pinching will indeed cause the other party to have a feeling of eating you, and this feeling is very unfavorable to the relationship between the sexes, the freshness will be lost in love, and the opportunity to choose a mate will be directly lost in the ambiguous.

So today's article, the main purpose is to clarify the essence of pinching, teach everyone how to protect themselves, and help everyone talk about healthier and better quality love.

First of all, the essence of pinching, everyone does not have to have any beautiful illusions, this matter is actually an unequal treaty in love, representing the unequal strength of the two sides in some aspects, resulting in unilateral status crushing.

Take money as an example, if you are a married man with superior material conditions, and your wife is a general family, in order to ensure that your marriage lasts and the quality of life does not decline, then she is very likely to be pinched by money, in order to maintain the quality of life and do some things that you do not want to do, such as cooking, washing clothes, and taking children.

At this time, many people will ask, then why am I being pinched by girls who are poorer than me, and there is no resistance at all? Because the other person has more courage than you and dares to challenge the stability of the relationship.

Most of the boys are pinched point, in fact, is a common thing, do not want to lose the relationship, although girls do not want to, but in today's marriage market, a relationship, boys bear more sunk costs.

Losing this ambiguous relationship, or romantic relationship, for girls, means that the previous screening has lost its meaning, and if you want to get off the list, you need to make another choice, but making another choice may even be possible to find a better boyfriend.

But for the boy, all the costs paid to chase this girl have lost their meaning, and then if they want to fall in love, they need to pay again, and they may even pay without return, such as a pile of pits for rice and wine.

In such a comparison, boys will feel in their hearts that it is not so difficult to accept being pinched by the current girlfriend or ambiguous object!

Therefore, in ordinary people, the most common love relationship is that boys are pinched, boys pay more, and boys are more passive.