It is better to be together than to be together, and it is better to be together than to think of each other. - Cangyang Gyatso
Rene Liu's "Later" is often hummed, she is not only a singer, but also a famous actress, director and writer.
Rene Liu can have these achievements, the most inseparable of which is the parents and relatives who raised her. Her father was a retired soldier and loved literature; her mother was an overseas Korean, with a fetish for cleanliness and perfection.
The union of parents is the result of the emotions of hundreds of romantic love letters as a carrier, but the truth is that such a combination is exchanged for a sentence of "it is better to stay together than to miss each other".
It turned out that after the parents got married, due to the personality factors, there was little communication between each other, and the mutual attraction before marriage was gradually cold after marriage, and after having Liu Ruoying and her sister, only two years later, the parents divorced and were single.
Due to the reasons of the two daughters, the parents have contact with each other and become friends, Liu Reuying brokered the remarriage of her parents, and after getting along, she understood that it was better to be relatives, and her parents became eternal friends. In 2020, her father died of illness in Taipei, and Rene Liu has been accompanying her mother.
Rene Liu's grandfather was a general in the Army of the Republic of China, and after his grandfather's death, his father also retired from the army and later met his mother Shulan.
When she was young, Rene Liu's father loved literature and spoke humorously, and met her mother by chance. Rene Liu's mother is an overseas Chinese returning from South Korea, Chinese is not good, the two exchanged through envelopes, gradually evolved into love letters, hundreds of love letters contributed to the marriage between the two.
After the parents got married, they had two daughters, the eldest daughter Liu Ruoyu, and the second daughter was Liu Ruoying. Because the father's company is close to home, often go home to work, the mother in order not to disturb the father's work, and the two sisters when bathing is also careful not to open the water, for fear of affecting the father's work. The two get along with each other like guests, never quarreled, and the sisters' childhood was the happiest at this time.
Over time, contradictions arise. My mother had a cleaning habit by nature, and the house was cleaned up. Because he was a soldier, my father did not have the habit of taking off his shoes when he returned home, and often left footprints.
Although the mother pursues perfection, she never has a direct conflict with her father, and has evolved into a relatively wordless, and the two sisters have also felt the cold field caused by the slow non-speech of their father and mother, and they have a bad premonition. Sure enough, a few years later, her parents divorced, and Rene Liu followed her mother.
Because the mother did not work for a long time, she had to go out to a long place to find a suitable job, leaving her daughter to be cared for by her grandmother.
Without the company of her parents, Rene Liu's childhood was not happy, and in order to prevent this child from growing up to be idle and sad, Grandma taught her to read, practice calligraphy, play the piano, etc. from an early age, which also laid the foundation for Liu Reuying to become an almost all-round talented woman.
After becoming an adult, Rene Liu had some achievements in her career, but found that her father and mother were single. Because of his own reasons, his parents often came and went, so he asked his parents if they could get back together, and his mother said that he could try it, and his father agreed.
So the family spent a lot of fun. But in the end, parents have said that it is suitable to be friends and relatives, but they cannot be husband and wife. Subsequently, the parents have maintained friendly contacts.
For the fact that her parents cannot be reunited into a complete family, Liu Reuying is not comfortable in her heart, but her parents' decision is the result of calming down, and she also accepts it.
Later, when she returned home, she often saw that her mother often went to her father's house with tools to help her father repair the miscellaneous things in the family, but the relationship was getting better and better, more or less making up for the regrets in her heart. Rene Liu often eats with her sister and father and mother, and laughs.
Many years later, after emotional things, Rene Liu gradually understood the mood of her parents, treated the two elderly people more and more filial piety, and expressed filial piety to her parents during the New Year's Festival, and did not distinguish between each other, and the two ends were even.
Later, Rene Liu married Zhong Xiaojiang and learned the lessons of her parents, her marriage object is the same as her own three views, and she usually gets along with each other, relatively harmonious, suitable for life. Parents also wish and wish their daughter happiness.
In August 2020, Liu's father died of illness in Taipei, so far, the relationship between father and mother has always been very good, and the mother has left tears because of her father's death, but she can never go back.
epilogue:
It is not easy to stay together, if you are separated because of a momentary impulse, there is still a chance to reunite; if you are separated because of the difference in the three views, there is no room for looking back.
All in all, before we are together, we must first polish our eyes, and when we have results, it is too late to regret it. Neither side was wrong, what was wrong was an unwise choice in the first place.
bibliography:
The Power of a Father