Now there are more and more men who are complacent because they have achieved a little achievement, and even many people will look down on their original mates and completely forget that in their own difficult times, the original mates are not abandoned, and the care of the family.
What's more, they will dislike the original match, Lao Zhuhuang, and only want to enjoy the worship and pursuit of the young third outside, but they have never thought that a woman who becomes a housewife will one day be turned into a yellow-faced woman by housework. In the face of such a husband, there are many wives who choose to cry twice and hang themselves three times, and there are also many choices to deal with it calmly.
But if the marriage has reached this point, there is no need to think about redeeming it, because in the face of such a husband, no matter how much you pay, it is futile. Therefore, as a woman, as a wife, you still have to learn to think for yourself, and in a marriage, you should not blindly pay, but learn to take, so that you can be guaranteed.
Netizen Liu Miao just paid for the family for ten years, found that her husband had already cheated on him because he hated himself, Liu Miao also collapsed, but finally calmed down, chose to retaliate against her husband and Xiao San in the most brutal way, and finally made her husband regret it, but Liu Miao did not choose to forgive. Let's take a look at her story.
The cheating husband proposes divorce
Liu Miao and her husband Xu Kang have been married for ten years, and at the beginning, Liu Miao was also a strong woman in the workplace. Later, pregnant, under the persuasion of her family, she chose to resign and become a housewife, at first, Xu Kang was considerate of Liu Miao, and the salary card was also handed over to Liu Miao for safekeeping.
However, as the marriage time is getting longer and longer, as Xu Kang's position is rising higher and higher, Xu Kang's complaints and dislikes for Liu Miao have increased, usually only occasionally talking about Liu Miao's appearance, saying that Liu Miao is like a yellow-faced woman, Liu Miao also knows that couples who have been married for a long time cannot avoid this fate, so they do not pay attention to it.
Until xu kang returned home from a social trip, Liu Miao wanted to help him go back to the bedroom to sleep, but was pushed away by Xu Kang in a dizzy way, "You look at the way you look now, I feel ashamed to see it, can you maintain yourself, I earn so much money, is it difficult to make myself face a yellow-faced woman every day?" ”
Xu Kang's tone was full of disgust, Liu Miao was stunned at once, but the next second, Xu Kang went to sleep, leaving a small person there to think about things, and the next day Xu Kang woke up, and he didn't remember what he said at all. However, Liu Miao reflected on himself, thinking that he really should take care of it, after all, his children are now in school.
As a result, before Liu Miao made one last effort for marriage, a young girl found the door, and the moment she saw Liu Miao, Liu Miao saw the same contempt as Xu Kang in her eyes, and the meaning of the little girl coming to the door was also very simple, that is, to let Liu Miao divorce and make room for her.
Liu Miao was unexpectedly calm, only said a word to let Xu Kang talk to her, he blew the little girl away, and Liu Miao did not wait long, but half a month, Xu Kang took a divorce agreement to Liu Miao, and then said the reason for the divorce, but it was extra grievance, "I know that you have worked hard all these years, but I am also very hard, I don't want to go home every day to face a dirty wife, I have no feelings for you, you let go." ”
Live with your lover
Liu Miao felt very ridiculous, obviously he was cheating, but Xu Kang could take the divorce so naturally, as if everything was Liu Miao's fault, and Liu Miao did not pretend with him, directly threw away the divorce agreement and said to Xu Kang, "The little lover does not have to hide, take it back and let's live together." ”
Xu Kang was stunned at once, obviously did not expect Liu Miao to know, but Xu Kang thought that Liu Miao was just dying and struggling, and said strongly, "No matter what, I will not change my mind, I will share your property, I will give you money every month, and the custody of the child will also be given to you, but this marriage is divorced, she is my true love." ”
Liu Miao smiled and said to him calmly, "You can rest assured, I will not force you to live with me again, but this is my last request before divorce, take your little lover and live with us for half a year, after half a year if you are still as loving as ever, I will come out of the house." ”
Xu Kang was shocked and felt that Liu Miao was simply crazy, but Liu Miao was very insistent, and Xu Kang could only reluctantly agree in the end, but he still let go of a cruel sentence, "You can only be so sad about yourself." ”
Liu Miao didn't care at all, found an excuse to entrust the child to the care of his parents, and the next day let Xu Kang take the little girl over. However, after they moved in, Liu Miao set a rule again, "I am not trying to meet you, I just want your true love to adapt to the days after you marry you in advance, so from now on, you will do as if there is no me at home, of course, I will not do this business and meals again." ”
Xu Kang and Xiao San did not think so, and even seemed to be specifically to let Liu Miao quickly divorce, every day in front of Liu Miao to show love, Liu Miao did not care at all, but began to use this half a year to maintain themselves and improve themselves, and Xu Kang also because the two are still a legal couple, did not stop Liu Miao from spending his own money.
The husband changed his mind
As a result, less than a month after the three people passed like this, Xu Kang and Xiao San began to quarrel, because even if Xiao San lived in, he did not do a little housework, and only knew how to spend money every day, go shopping, and sometimes quarreled because of Liu Miao and Xu Kang.
Xu Kang was naturally willing to coax her at first, but when he came back to look at the home that was getting more and more chaotic day by day, and there was no hot meal at home, only a beautiful little girlfriend waiting for him to coax or even wait to quarrel with him, Xu Kang was gradually unhappy.
When the contradiction between the two people just appeared, it would also hinder Liu Miao's existence and choose to argue privately, but as time passed day by day, the two could not take care of Liu Miao, one day Xu Kang returned home, originally because of a day of work is very tired, the result of the little girlfriend came up to buy a bag, Xu Kang did not hold back, directly scolded her, "Can you learn how to live?" Tidy up the house, learn to cook, you know how much money I earn to support you? ”
As a result, the little girlfriend did not back down at all, and finally the two quarreled more and more fiercely, and the little girlfriend even scratched Xu Kang's face with a few marks. Xu Kang was completely angry, and the next day he blew his little girlfriend out of the house, and then the two broke up completely, even if the little girlfriend lived in less than three months.
After the little girlfriend left, Xu Kang seemed to have found something, his attitude toward Liu Miao improved, and even proposed to continue the marriage, but Liu Miao was unwilling, "You think she is younger than me, beautiful, and interesting, you let her serve you to take care of the family for ten years, you see she didn't even insist on three months, but if she insisted, she would become the same person as me." ”
Xu Kang completely regretted it, but Liu Miao still proposed divorce, taking away more than half of the property and custody of the child, and Xu Kang did not dare to find any more young and beautiful little girls after that, watching Liu Miao get better and better, Xu Kang found that his wife was so vicious and thorough in the face of love.
Liu Miao paid for the family for ten years, but finally became Xu Kang's wife who could not get his hands on it, when the beautiful Xiao San came to the door to humiliate, Liu Miao calmed down, to retreat into the advance, let Xiao San and Xu Kang live for a while, Xu Kang knew who was more precious. However, Liu Miao only retaliated, still firmly divorced, and made himself back.
Many women will give selflessly in marriage, on the one hand, they feel that they must support their husband's career, and on the other hand, because they are mothers. However, most husbands have difficulty in appreciating the difficulty of their wives at home, and even because their wives do not have time to maintain, they feel that their wives are old and yellow, and even look for Xiao San outside. However, if you let young and beautiful little girls also be housewives for a few years, they will eventually become yellow-faced women.
Therefore, as a husband, you must learn to understand the difficulties of your wife, who is gradually no longer young, becoming more and more nagging, all because of the pressure of life, and part of these pressures comes from husbands who feel that they have contributed a lot to the family. And if you don't cherish it, your wife can also be beautiful alone, because when there is no burden of life, anyone can be young and beautiful. As a woman, you must also learn to make decisions for yourself, only when you really have value and security, you have the right to speak in marriage.
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Do you have a husband like Xu Kang by your side?
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