Introduction: Generally, the daughter will be much closer to the father, saying that the daughter is the father's little lover, and the father's love for the daughter is also from the heart. Beckham's daughter Little Seven is spoiled by her father from childhood to adulthood, and in public, the sons walk in a row, and the daughter is always held by her father. Walking, watching the game, Little Seven is sitting on his father's leg in the crook of his father's arm.
However, not all daughters are intimate with their fathers. This father wanted to kiss his daughter, but the daughter showed a look of resistance and disgust, and all her expressions were saying "stay away from me." Dad kissed it, and her little hand immediately wiped Dad's kissed face, and the disgust was overflowing. Netizens have also left messages, "This father is miserable, disliked by his daughter", "Heartbroken, dad", "A look is the lack of communication, the relationship between parents is cold".
The little girl's divine operation sounded a wake-up call to the fathers, who were usually busy earning money or socializing, and always had no time to accompany the children. Fathers have to communicate their feelings with leaders, communicate feelings with cooperative companies, and communicate feelings with colleagues, but they forget alone and communicate feelings with their families.
1. Personality influence
We say "father's love is like a mountain", and the father has a great influence on the character of the daughter. My daughter grew up with my grandmother when she was a child, and my grandmother took care of her very carefully, and she was afraid that she would fall and touch her, so she was forbidden to do any dangerous movements. Later, because of the change of work, the father had more time to take care of his daughter, he took her to jump the steps, climb high, walk the swaying rope bridge, the daughter became more and more confident, more and more cheerful.
Dad uses his reason and bravery to purposefully cultivate his daughter's abilities, which has many positive effects on his daughter's growth. Just like my daughter's change, from the previous timidity, fear, and rejection, to the current enthusiasm, confidence, and willingness to try, it is the result of my father's company. I hope that fathers must take more time to accompany their daughters, who are becoming more and more excellent.
2. Insight into the impact
Traditionally, men are the main force in the social field, so the social division of labor determines that men have more insight, more experience, and broader vision. Male thinking is more rational, strong logical thinking ability, daughters in listening to their fathers, absorb the knowledge conveyed by their fathers, will also be affected by the father's thinking concepts, from the parents' speech and behavior to get the power of example.
The most important inheritance of parents to their children is the inheritance of the way of thinking. The father becomes the daughter's yardstick for evaluating the opposite sex and learns how to interact with the opposite sex.
There was a girl whose father was temperamental and a well-known writer who was methodical and gentle. And her mother is a warm-hearted, hot-tempered, high-voiced ordinary factory worker. The daughter is deeply influenced by her father, intellectual, and studious.
The most important thing she learned from her father was to choose from the truth of things. She had always felt that her mother was not worthy of her father. But Dad told her that he was in love with Mom at first sight and had been married for more than thirty years.
Dad said that although mom has no culture and has an urgent personality, she is kind, enthusiastic, cheerful and outgoing. Relatives and neighbors, factory colleagues, who have difficulties, the mother will lend a helping hand. Introduce people to people, regulate family disputes, and contribute money and efforts. In the world of the literati, in fact, there is some sour rot, and it does not matter to themselves and hang high. However, because of his mother, he was closer to life and became a person with temperature.
He warned his daughter not to choose a spouse because of her age and because of the wealth of the other party, but to really like it. With the influence of her father, the daughter finally chose a man she really liked to marry, and was very happy after marriage.
3. Aesthetic influence
Encouragement from the opposite sex will make people more and more confident. Aesthetically, the father is the benchmark. The first time a daughter sees the opposite sex, she often contrasts with her father. Taller or shorter than his father, fat or thinner than his father, handsome or weaker than his father, talkative or silent than his father. The height of the father determines the height of the daughter, the taste of the father determines the taste of the daughter, and the aesthetic of the father determines the aesthetic of the daughter.
The influence of fathers on their daughters is very large, and they all play a leading role in the development of children's personality, getting along with the opposite sex, life guidance, rational thinking, etc. A study in the United States showed that fathers accompany their children for more than 15 minutes a day, and the IQ of children is significantly higher than that of children without fathers.
Children who are accompanied by their fathers, live independently, have a more personality, are willing to work in teams, have a brave and adventurous spirit. Fathers, you are very important, I hope you will spend many years with your children and take on the responsibility of education!