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On May 31, 2012, a strange thing happened in the Chinese Cultural Celebrity Sculpture Memorial Park near Badaling, the tombstone of the famous writer Bing Xin and her husband, the famous sociologist Wu Wenzao, was maliciously damaged, and the 8 characters of "godson has no direction, and he is a vain person" was written in red paint.
It is said that the dead are great, how deep is this hatred, so shameless that it deliberately destroys the tombstones of the two old men? What's more, these two old men are also highly respected cultural celebrities.
Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao tombstones were destroyed
After investigation, it turned out that the perpetrator was Wu Shan, the grandson of Bingxin's concubine. Due to the unfair division of property, Wu Shan's parents' divorce lawsuit has been fought for 6 years, and now that her mother is seriously ill, her father has not even called to comfort her.
In Wu Shan's view, the father is the wrong party in the marriage, not only cheating, but also always being bad for the mother. As a son, he is distressed by his vulnerable mother, hoping that this move can attract social attention and let the mother who is suffering from cancer get the protection she deserves.
Bingxin's daughter-in-law was interviewed
Originally it was his father's fault, but Wu Shan vented his resentment on his grandparents, no matter how irreconcilable their family conflicts were, even such acts of graffiti public property and destruction of the people's common property should also be condemned.
Mr. and Mrs. Bingxin have made great contributions to the motherland and the people in their lives, especially Bingxin herself, as the founder of Chinese children's literature, her words have warmed the hearts of countless children, and are affectionately called the grandmother of the composition world by readers.
Wu Shan may be thinking that his grandmother is praised by thousands of people and educates countless people, but he can't teach his son well, which makes him angrily comment that "the godson has no way, and he is a vain example."
Ice heart old age
It is also strange to say that Bing Xin has been releasing warmth and love for the world all her life, and should be a very cute and popular person, but she not only suffered the insult of her grandson destroying the tombstone after her death, but also hated by many literati of the same era before she died.
Zhang Ailing once satirized her, and unabashedly said in public: "If the female author is specially divided into a column to comment, comparing me with Bingxin, I really can't be proud, only if I am compared with Su Qing, I am willing." Such relentless contempt is rare in the literary world.
Zhang ailing
If Zhang Ailing is arrogant and arrogant, it is a true temperament, except for friends, no one can enter her eyes, which is ruthlessly attacking Bingxin, but the strange thing is that Lu Xun, Lin Huiyin and other literati have also mocked Bingxin.
It is accidental not to be liked by a person, after all, no one can make the whole world satisfied, but if in a circle, many people do not like, do not like a person, then this person more or less has unbearable problems.
So why not be liked by contemporaries with such a warm and loving ice heart?
Ice heart
In fact, the main reason Zhang Ailing has given the answer, that is, to look down on her, to despise her, to use an idiom is that the literati are light.
Lu Xun once mentioned in a letter to Xu Guangping: "In the evening, I gave a lecture at Yenching University for one o'clock, and many people listened. As usual, I scolded Xu Zhimo from Cheng Fangwu to Xu Zhimo, and Yanda is mostly a modernist believer... Probably because the ice heart is here... Give me a scolding, very surprised..."
Later, when writing a letter to Zheng Zhenduo, Lu Xun also mentioned: "Recently, I heard that more than ten writers in Hangzhou have been banned, including Bingxin. ”
Lu Xun
At that time, the banned writers were all literary warriors who had influence in society and fought with the tip of their pens, but Bingxin's writings always belonged to the soft and weak like a girl's ivory tower, without fierce anger or clear comments, obviously, Lu Xun believed that Bingxin was not eligible to be banned.
Lu Xun has always led the literary world with his advanced ideas and ideas of struggle, and is a model and idol in the hearts of young people who strive for innovation under his contemporaries.
Lu Xun strives to use words to reveal the darkness of society and use the tip of his pen to penetrate the ignorant eyes of the people, but at the same time, Bingxin uses words full of spring breeze, sunshine, cuteness and warmth to whitewash Taiping, which is stupid and deceptive in Lu Xun's view.
Although Lu Xun never attacked Bingxin in public, and the two did not make any evaluations of each other, lu Xun's naked dislike for Bingxin could still be seen from Lu Xun's personal letters to his wife and friends.
If Zhang Ailing and Lu Xun did not like Bingxin because they did not like Bingxin's literary style, then Lin Hui's dislike of Bingxin was completely a personal grudge.
In the early years, when Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng studied in the United States, they also traveled with Bingxin and his wife at Cornell University, and because Bingxin and Lin Huiyin were fellow countrymen, the relationship between the two was not bad.
Bing Xin and Lin Huiyin took a group photo
Why did two talented women develop into a bad relationship that later resented each other? This involves the amorous romantic poet Xu Zhimo.
Xu Zhimo once said to Bingxin: "My heart, liver and five internal organs are broken, and I want to go to your holy place to repent!" From this point of view, Xu Zhimo has a good relationship with Bingxin, and Xu Zhimo trusts Bingxin very much.
First of all, not involved in the chaotic relationship between men and women, Bingxin should be the existence of a friend like Zhixin's sister for Xu Zhimo, and he should tell her a lot of his own thoughts, including nostalgia for his first love Lin Huiyin.
Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo took a group photo
In 1931, Lin Hui was recuperating in Beiping Xiangshan due to illness, and Xu Zhimo, who traveled to and from Beijing and Shanghai all year round, often went to visit. The two had an old relationship in Britain, and Xu Zhimo had a precedent of cheating with his wife Lu Xiaoman in Beiping, so he caused a lot of gossip.
Bing Xin has heard about this, I don't know if it is the heart of the Virgin or some other reason, wrote a poem "I Advise You" published in the "Big Dipper" publication, although there is no name, but the clear-eyed people look at it, "persuasion" is Lin Huiyin. Advise her to "not forget that he is a romantic poet" and advise her not to "lose your good man".
In Bingxin's pen, the heroine in "I Advise You" is a beautiful woman who is favored by God's creation, but "she" is vain and arrogant, needs a man to hold, and sweetly talks to her, even if she has a husband, she still maintains intimate relationships with other men.
Although the full article seems to be a loyal persuasion, it is published in the journal for everyone to see, and it is suspected of mocking the heroine.
Ruo Bingxin sincerely wanted to admonish this woman, write this poem, and give it to her privately, sincerely, but to publicize it so high-profile is undoubtedly a scandal against Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo on the side.
Because there was no name, Lin Huiyin did not pay attention to this, but it is a coincidence that the same journal of "Beidou" also published Lin Huiyin's poem "Excitement", expressing Lin Huiyin's heroic ambition to pursue ideals without fear of hardships and dangers.
A complaint full of love and love, a fiery ideal feeling, a high opinion, a coincidence, Lin Huiyin can also be regarded as a clever counterattack against Bingxin.
In the same year, Xu Zhimo unfortunately crashed and died because he flew to Beiping to listen to Lin Huiyin's lecture, after which Bingxin said a sentence "The harm of a woman makes him sacrifice", a plain and plain sentence, there is no lack of complaints about Lin Huiyin.
Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao held a wedding ceremony at Yanda Linhuxuan
No matter what Bingxin said and acted, Lin Huiyin never responded, until the second year after Xu Zhimo's death, Bingxin wrote an article "Our Wife's Living Room", in which the wife openly flirted with Xu Zhimo and described his wife's delicate work as almost disgusting.
At that time, Lin Huiyin liked to invite some cultural celebrities to her home to hold salon gatherings and exchange literature and ideas together, but I don't know if it was because of the song "I Advise You", she never invited Bingxin.
Mr. and Mrs. Bingxin and a son and two daughters
Bing Xin wrote "Our Wife's Living Room" I don't know if it was jealousy or justice, anyway, everyone thought that Bing Xin was ironic of Lin Huiyin, and since then she has called her cultural salon "Mrs. Huiyin".
This time it really angered Lin Huiyin, the backhand sent a bottle of Shanxi old vinegar to Bingxin, don't you Bingxin like to eat jealousy, then let you eat enough.
In her later years, Bingxin responded to this question, but she said that the protagonist of "Our Wife's Living Room" is not Lin Huiyin, but Lu Xiaoman, who is it, only Bingxin himself should know.
Bing Xin was with the children
True and false, false and true, everything has gone with time, we just need to remember that they have promoted the progress of history, made great contributions to the motherland, and left valuable spiritual wealth to the people. Whether the literati are light or jealous, this can only prove that they are all living as a person.