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Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan
In November 2020, Yu Qiuyu, a famous writer and scholar, posted a photo with his wife Ma Lan on his personal social platform. The couple in the photo has a large age gap at first glance, but the happiness and love between the eyebrows cannot be concealed.
Yu Qiuyu is a well-known cultural celebrity, and Ma Lan is a radiant Huangmei opera performance artist, and the combination of the two can be called a classic match in the entertainment industry. For many years, the couple has been showing kindness and sweetness. Behind their happiness, however, is a woman's heartache and tears. She is Yu Qiuyu's ex-wife Li Hong...
Born in 1946 in Qiaotou Town, Yuyao County, Zhejiang Province, Yu Qiuyu graduated from the Department of Drama and Literature of the Shanghai Theater Academy and later stayed on to teach.
Childhood Yu Autumn Rain
Due to the reasons of the times, coupled with the fact that he is not a native of Shanghai, Yu Qiuyu's marriage has become a major difficulty, and he is still unmarried and single at the age of more than 30. In 1974, Yu Qiuyu was in charge of the school's enrollment and met the candidate Li Hong. Li Hong was born in 1951 and is a native of Shanghai. She was tall and beautiful, and she applied for the Drama and Literature Department at that time, but she was not admitted for various reasons.
Yu Qiuyu sympathized with Li Hong, but could do nothing. At that time, Li Hong was working as a worker in a cotton spinning factory in Shanghai, and Yu Qiuyu loved her purity and beauty and pursued her.
Yu Qiuyu is a poor boy, and he is not a native of Shanghai, and the Parents of the Li family do not approve of their daughter's association with him. Yu Qiuyu looks good and is very talented, and Li Hong likes him. Eventually, she broke through the family resistance and started a family in Shanghai with Yu Qiuyu in 1979.
After marriage, the couple rented a cubicle in Shanghai and could not cook. Li Hong and Yu Qiuyu both ate in the canteen of their respective units and never drove a gang.
Yu Autumn Rain
In 1984, Li Hong gave birth to a daughter. Perhaps it was his daughter who brought good luck to Yu Qiuyu, and in 1986 he was promoted to vice president of the Shanghai Theater Academy, and later to dean.
In 1989, the efficiency of Li Hong's unit was not good, and he was very distressed. Because of the bad mood, the couple stumbled a bit. It happened that one of Li Hong's colleagues was working in Shenzhen, earning three times as much as before, and invited her to come over. Li Hong's heart was moved, but Yu Qiuyu did not approve of the separation of the two places.
Li Hong handed over her daughter to her parents and insisted on going south to Shenzhen to work in a garment factory. What Li Hong did not know was that Yu Qiuyu met The Huangmei Opera Performance Artist Ma Lan at this time. Malan is unique and popular all over the country. Yu Qiuyu is personable and talented, and the two leave a good impression on each other.
Stills of Maran
Only because of the wall of marriage in the middle, Yu Qiuyu has been suppressing his feelings. In the spring of 1992, Li Hong returned to Shanghai to visit relatives, and while helping her husband tidy up her desk, she accidentally found a letter written by Yu Qiuyu to Ma Lan. Although the whole text does not have the word "love", there is admiration and appreciation between the lines.
Only then did Li Hong understand that Yu Qiuyu's heart had another belonging. She quietly put the letter back in its place and shed tears all afternoon. She had thought that Yu Qiuyu would explain this to herself, but who knew that he didn't even mention it. A week later, Li Hong returned to Shenzhen, and Yu Qiuyu filed for divorce on the phone. The reason is that the long-term gathering is less and more, and the feelings of husband and wife have disappeared.
At this time, her daughter was only 8 years old, and Li Hong played the emotional card of her daughter, hoping to keep her husband. She called her in-laws again, and the parents of the Yu family did not want their son to divorce, but Yu Qiuyu could not give up Ma Lan at this time, and the attitude of divorce was very firm.
Li Hong is also a self-respecting and self-loving woman who does not want to kneel and beg for love. This summer, she tearfully agreed to divorce and her daughter followed her.
Soon after Yu Qiuyu divorced Li Hong, he married Ma Lan into the family. After marriage, Ma Lan left the Huangmei Drama Theater in Anhui Province and came to Shanghai with Yu Qiuyu to live.
After Yu Qiuyu remarried, it triggered a storm of public opinion, and many people accused him, saying that he liked the new and disliked the old, and abandoned his wife. Some say that Ma Lan admired Yu Qiuyu's fame and fortune and broke up his family.
In fact, Ma Lan's admiration for Yu Qiuyu's talent is not fame and fortune. Because in 1991, Yu Qiuyu resigned from all administrative positions, which is one of ordinary people. He had no power, no power, not even a house.
Malan
It is undeniable that Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan are like-minded, raising eyebrows, and can be called true soul and spiritual companions. In 1993, Yu Qiuyu went to the northwest alone to investigate important sites of Chinese culture. Malan earns money from her performances and covers her husband's expenses.
Yu Qiuyu left for two or three years, and Ma Lan had no complaints. Good marriage is a career booster, with the support of Ma Lan, Yu Qiuyu created a number of best-selling essays such as "Millennium Sigh", "Millennium Year", "Walker Without Frontiers" and so on, which made him famous throughout the country.
Ma Lan also immersed himself in performances, participated in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times, and won the Most Outstanding Artist Award in Asia. In addition, she has also served as an adjunct professor at Shanghai University, Zhejiang University of Communication and other universities.
The combination of Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan is called the most classic entertainment match by the media.
Li Hong
In stark contrast to their happiness, in the years when she first divorced, Li Hong has been immersed in the pain of family breakdown. She felt that she had hurt her daughter, did not give her a complete home, and often washed her face with tears.
In the days of working in Shenzhen, Li Hong thought crazy about her daughter, and when she called, she cried here and her daughter cried there. However, due to the difficult situation, Li Hong could not take her daughter to her side, so she had to endure the tearing of her heart and stay away from her daughter. Who can understand the battered heart of her single mother?
In those years, in order to earn more money, Li Hong frequently jumped jobs, she worked as a car worker, worked as a tour guide, sold bottled water, and her life was uncertain.
Friends saw that she was too difficult and persuaded Li Hong to start a family again. Li Hong refused: "I am going to take my daughter to my side in the future, if my stepfather is not good to her, why should I be embarrassed?" I have brought misfortune to my daughter and must never bring her any more pain. ”
There are also people of the opposite sex who take the initiative to pursue Li Hong, and she feels that the other party is good to her now, which does not mean that she will be good to herself in the future. Moreover, in the future, as soon as the daughter comes to her side, the relationship will become very complicated. Li Hong, who was heartbroken by marriage, feared love and feared marriage, and closed the floodgates of feelings tightly.
During the period, Yu Qiuyu took the initiative to contact Li Hong and expressed his willingness to give financial support, but Li Hong refused. She put it this way: "You paid your daughter's maintenance and were under no obligation to help me again. ”
In 2005, Li Hong cooperated with others to operate fitness equipment, and the business was booming. In 2008, she bought a house in Shenzhen, took her parents and daughter to Shenzhen to live together, and she and her daughter have not been separated since then.
Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan did not have their own children for various reasons, and the relationship between husband and wife has always been stable. Although Yu Qiuyu is 16 years older than Ma Lan, Ma Lan does not dislike her husband. The media has been paying attention to the marriage of the two, and every once in a while rumors of their divorce have broken out.
Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan have been "divorced" many times, and the couple is very angry, but there is no way to take the rumors.
In an interview with the media, Ma Lan said helplessly: "Yu Qiuyu has no power and no power, that is, ordinary people, please let him go, don't stare at us anymore, don't create rumors anymore." These words sound a little bitter and helpless.
In November 2020, Yu Qiuyu was 74 years old and entered his old age, while Ma Lan was only 58 years old. Looking back on his emotional experience, Yu Qiuyu has a lot of feelings and helplessness. He also invested his true feelings in his first marriage and truly loved Li Hong, but the two eventually broke up. He feels ashamed of his ex-wife Li Hong and has love for his current wife, Ma Lan.
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