Speaking of the name Ma Lan, I believe many people are not very familiar with it, she once played the mother of Tang Monk in "Journey to the West", "Man Tang Jiao", and was once an excellent Huangmei opera actor.
But when it comes to her husband Yu Qiuyu's words, I believe that almost everyone knows that many of his famous sayings have become classics and still have profound philosophies.
However, what many people may not know is that Ma Lan and Yu Qiuyu are not the original couple, and when the two met, Yu Qiuyu still had a family, and in order to be with her, he did not hesitate to bear the insult of abandoning his wife and daughter.
Incredibly, the original match that was tragically abandoned actually said that he did not blame Ma Lan, so what is the charm of Ma Lan?
【The encounter between Ma Lan and Yu Qiuyu】
Ma Lan was originally born in a literary and artistic family in Taihu County, Anhui Province, his mother was a Huangmei opera actor, and his father was a stage designer and screenwriter.
Under the influence of her parents, Ma Lan has been outstanding and versatile since childhood, and when she grew up, she was successfully admitted to the Anhui Academy of Arts and became a Huangmei opera actor after graduation.
Because her appearance belongs to the beautiful one, she just debuted in the 86 version of "Journey to the West" as the mother of Tang Monk "ManTang Jiao", with a classical and dignified temperament to make a deep impression.
After that, Ma Lan's career developed smoothly, and he was on the show and acting in a TV series, and soon became a well-known actor at that time, and won the award.
As for her fate with Yu Qiuyu, it was all fate. When he was a student, Ma Lan loved to read Yu Qiuyu's books and was deeply attracted by his wisdom and knowledge.
Later, after becoming a well-known actor, once a teacher lent her a book called "Art Creation Engineering", Ma Lan was once again impressed by Yu Qiuyu's talent and had the idea of knowing him.
It happened that soon after she was going to Shanghai to perform huangmei's play "Remote Finger xinghua village", she wrote a letter to Yu Qiuyu, who was the director of the Central Academy of Drama at the time, hoping that he would come to see her performance.
Yu Qiuyu had also heard of the famous Ma Lan and admired her for a long time, and after receiving her letter, he gladly agreed and specially dressed up.
Ma Lan's performance was very successful, and she was looking east and west at the end of the curtain, but suddenly heard Yu Qiuyu shouting her name. The moment the two looked at each other, they knew what love at first sight was.
【Yu Qiuyu's Family】
Not surprisingly, the two fell in love at the first meeting. But this relationship is not so glorious, in addition to the age difference of 16 years old, Yu Qiuyu has a family is the problem.
As early as Ma Lan's age when he was still in middle school, Yu Qiuyu had already entered the palace of marriage with his original wife Li Hong, and became a loving couple in the eyes of the outside world.
The picture shows Li Hong
When the two met in a small way, Li Hong's parents, who were originally rich, did not look at the poor boy Yu Qiuyu at all, or Li Hong was determined to be with him, which touched his parents.
Not long after the marriage, the two gave birth to a daughter. But it just so happened that not long after the birth of the child, Yu Qiuyu was unemployed and also suffered from pneumonia, and finally Li Hong, who was spoiled and habitual, could only carry the burden of the family alone and work in Shenzhen to earn money to support her family.
It was also during the time when Li Hong worked in Shenzhen that Yu Qiuyu could not bear the loneliness and developed feelings with the young and beautiful Ma Lan.
But on the one hand is his wife who is in love with him, and on the other hand is a gentle and considerate confidant with a red face, he is a little undecided for a while, so he does not show his wife a showdown.
It was not until once when Li Hong was sorting out books for Yu Qiuyu that she accidentally discovered his and Ma Lan's love letters, which exposed this extramarital affair.
Li Hong is a proud woman, she knows that her husband's heart has been biased towards Ma Lan, so she did not keep him too much and chose to leave with her 8-year-old daughter.
【Ma Lan and Yu Qiuyu love for 28 years】
After the divorce, Yu Qiuyu felt sorry for his ex-wife and young daughter, so he took on all the tuition and living expenses of his daughter. If his ex-wife had any difficulties, he also extended a helping hand as much as possible.
However, Li Hong's personality is sensitive and stubborn, even if a person raises her daughter no matter how hard and tired she does not say, let alone look for help from her ex-husband, the big things are carried down by herself.
Compared with Li Hong, Ma Lan is much happier. Not long after divorcing his ex-wife, Yu Qiuyu couldn't wait to marry her into the door and spoil her as a "princess".
Because she is 16 years older than Ma Lan, Yu Qiuyu always spoils her like an older brother and lets her, not only takes care of all the housework, but also never quarrels with her.
In daily life, the two are also full of love, often holding hands to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, watch foreign theater performances together, prepare Valentine's Day gifts for each other, and still feel like a couple in love after so many years of marriage.
Therefore, when it comes to her husband, Ma Lan has always been full of praise, praising him as a wonderful man in the world, and saying that he is the best gift from heaven to himself.
For the original match who was "squeezed" away by her, Ma Lan was also very guilty in his heart, often expressing his guilt in front of Yu Qiuyu, and also regarded Yu Qiuyu's daughter as his own.
Perhaps to make up for his mistake, Ma Lan did not give birth to a son and a half daughter for Yu Qiuyu, but instead gave all his mother's love to Yu Qiuyu's daughter.
And so many years have passed, Yu Qiuyu's ex-wife has lived a good life by her own efforts, and her resentment towards her ex-husband and Ma Lan has also disappeared, and Ma Lan is generous and does not blame Ma Lan.
I believe that after hearing Li Hong's words, Ma Lan can finally be relieved. Even if she has no children in her life, she has no regrets.