On October 26, in a conference room of the Public Security Bureau of Daying County, Sichuan Province, Chen Xiuqun, 56, finally met his son who had been "lost and recovered." This son is Chen Xiuqun's third son. 33 years ago, Because the family was destitute, Chen Xiuqun, who already had two sons, discussed with her husband to give her third son, who was just 40 days old, to others. She heard that the other family ran a truck, and her heart was a little more solid, "The family with a car is many times better than our family." But she wasn't sure, "Maybe the middleman lied to me." ” She has had many bad guesses about whether her son will be broken by others, sent to the street to beg, or poor, and life is difficult... Every time she thought about this, she would quietly cry, be so frightened that she was restless, and then blame herself that she should not have given her son away in the first place. She has always been full of guilt, thinking about her third son who does not know where he is, but once she did not dare to recognize him. After meeting her third son on October 26, the mother and son spent 3 days together, but she was always cautious and did not dare to ask more, and it was still unclear what work her son did, but she was already satisfied with the current answer: her son was doing well.
The son is given to someone else 40 days after birth
The mother has been living in regret and guilt
33 years ago, in a remote village in Tianbao Town, Daying County, Chen Xiuqun and his wife, who already had two sons, were very distressed and gave birth to a son.
"At that time, there was not enough to eat, and a family of five was crammed into an adobe-walled house." So decided to give the third son who was only 40 days old to others to raise, Chen Xiuqun heard that the other party had a car at home, and his heart was slightly steadfast, "In that era, there was a car at home, and the conditions were already very good, at least many times better than our family." ”
But more information, Chen Xiuqun is not clear. She later inquired in many ways, and she did not know where her son was sent, "Although I regret it, I can't send my son back, I just want to know how he is doing." ”
Chen Xiuqun's life did not change much, and two years later she gave birth to another daughter, but soon her relationship with her husband came to an end. Divorced, re-established a family, and worked in Xinjiang for many years.
The eldest son and the second son lived with their husbands, and the daughters were raised by her. Daughter Xiaofei told the Red Star News reporter that at the beginning of the memory, she knew that she had a third brother, because her mother always nagged about this brother.
"It's full of self-blame and guilt when I think about it." Chen Xiuqun said that she sometimes thinks about some terrible questions, whether her son will be broken and sent to the street to beg, whether he will live in poverty... Although she had heard that the other party's family conditions were good, she suspected that the middleman had deceived her.
Until the eve of this year's Mid-Autumn Festival, the police asked her to go to Shandong to recognize her relatives, but she did not dare to go, she did not dare to face her son. Chen Xiuqun had just fallen ill and had an operation at the time, and she said that she was afraid that her son would not have a good life, "If this is the case, I can't forgive myself, and I may not be able to come back." ”
Chen Xiuqun once told his daughter that he wanted to know the situation of the third son, if he had a good life, his heart would be solid, if he did not have a good life, he was willing to come back, and the family could help each other.
I finally saw my son after 33 years
The mother was too careful not to ask more
On the morning of October 26, in a conference room of the Daying County Public Security Bureau, Chen Xiuqun saw her third son walk in, and she stood up and walked towards her son, and she had long been unable to cry.
For the past few years, with the help of the Daying County Public Security Bureau, Chen Xiuqun has been trying to find the son. The second son, who works in Guangdong, also posted online to find out the whereabouts of his brother.
Mo Wenbin, deputy captain of the criminal investigation brigade of the Daying County Public Security Bureau, told Red Star News that since 2019, the British police have visited and inquired about it according to the clues provided by Chen Xiuqun. When the police learned that some insiders had moved to Xinjiang, they took advantage of the opportunity to go to Xinjiang to handle other cases, and in 2019 and 2020, they went to search twice, and finally learned that the intermediary who was adopted lived in Lezhi County, Sichuan.
However, after the British police rushed to Lezhi County, Sichuan, they learned that the middleman had died for many years, and the clue was broken.
After the "reunion operation" began this year, the British police turned the case over again, and finally on the eve of this year's Mid-Autumn Festival, good news came, and Zhao Jun's DNA in Liaocheng City, Shandong Province, was successfully compared and passed the review.
"Dna comparison was done in 2019, but it was not successful." Mo Wenbin said that Zhao Jun's DNA information was only collected in 2020, so this time it was compared.
At 11:00 a.m. on October 26, Zhao Jun, 33, rushed from Liaocheng, Shandong Province, to Daying County, Sichuan Province, and met his biological mother at the Daying County Public Security Bureau. Zhao Jun's eyes were filled with tears, Chen Xiuqun couldn't cry, and there were a lot of words that he didn't know where to start...
With the help of the police in Daying County, the family was finally reunited.
After spending 3 days with his son, Chen Xiuqun said that the family had a reunion dinner and returned to their hometown together. Knowing that her son was doing well, getting married, having children, and doing business, her heart was immediately solid.
The family has a reunion dinner.
In the hotel room, mother and son chatted.
The family returned to their hometown together after being reunited.
But in front of this "lost and recovered" son, she still seemed cautious and still felt guilty in her heart. She did not dare to ask too much about her son's past, what hardships he had suffered, and what difficulties he had experienced. She still doesn't know what kind of work her son does.
Son: I think I'm lucky
"After meeting my mother, I finally slept soundly"
"After meeting my mother, I slept soundly." Zhao Jun told the Red Star News reporter that after learning of his own life, he has been thinking about where he came from and how he came to his adoptive parents, so he always has insomnia and can't sleep well for a long time.
Zhao Jun introduced that when he was a child, he heard other children say that they were "picked up", but his adoptive parents were very kind to him, and he did not have too many doubts. The family had an older sister who was 8 years older than himself, his adoptive father died when he was 17 years old, and his adoptive mother also died of illness 3 years ago.
"My adoptive mother had cancer, and during the treatment, the doctor needed me and my sister to do DNA matching." Zhao Jun told the Red Star News reporter that at this time, the sister told the secret that the two were not parents' own children.
The adoptive mother was treated in the hospital for several months, and Zhao Jun was cared for in the hospital for several months. After his adoptive mother died, he suddenly felt that his roots were gone. He began to inquire about the news of his biological parents, returned to his hometown to ask the local elderly to tell his origins, and went to Chengdu and Deyang in Sichuan many times to look for them, but in the end there was no result.
Zhao Jun told the Red Star News reporter that the hometown of Guo Zhen, the prototype of the movie "Lost Orphans", is only three or four kilometers away from his hometown. After seeing Guo Zhen return home, his desire to find his biological parents was even stronger, and he often couldn't sleep all night. He once told his wife that if he couldn't find his biological parents in this life, "he would die without a look." ”
"But they are all quietly looking for it, only my wife knows." Zhao Jun said that because his adoptive parents regarded him as if they were their own, and other relatives were particularly kind to him, he was worried that his search for relatives would hurt their feelings. "I still treat them as my relatives, and this feeling will never change for the rest of my life." Afraid that they would suddenly know this fact, it would be difficult to accept. ”
Zhao Jun felt that he was lucky to meet such a good adoptive parent, so that he could grow up in a good environment. And now, being able to be reunited with your biological parents is also a kind of consummation. (Except for Mo Wenbin, the rest of the text are pseudonyms.) ）
Red Star News reporter Yang Ling pictured according to the interviewee
Edited by Peng Jiang
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