The day before yesterday, I wrote an article about my son's feelings about going to vocational high school to study, there are many friends and friends who leave messages to discuss, thank you for your concern, support and understanding!
A friend said, "You're doing publicity for vocational high schools, right?" Some friends also said that they had been to a vocational high school, saying that smoking and playing mobile phones to sleep during class was very confusing to hit the teacher!
First of all, I declare that I am not a vocational high school teacher, nor have I worked in a vocational high school, to tell the truth, in the past, for our vocational high school, subconsciously it was rejected, you think: after the middle school examination, the order of application is the county one middle school, two middle schools, three middle schools, four middle schools, and finally where can not go to the vocational high school, what kind of student group must it be?
So there is nothing I do for the vocational high school to do propaganda and lie stories, I am talking about the real feelings of our family, I also hope that parents and children who have the same experience as my children can calmly analyze, make rational choices, and avoid blindly comparing to choose those key high schools, and finally there are many problems that lead to dropping out of school.
I want to share my son's changes, how to say it? I now look back on these years, and it is really emotional!
When he was a child, his son was also a lively and cute boy, promoted to junior high school, studied in the key class for more than a year, not that the key class was not good, but the son could not withstand that pressure, plus entered adolescence, and finally collapsed! Every day in the house, do not talk to you, calm face, more than two years have not seen him smile! Parents who have experienced it will understand that kind of pain, at this time I think not about what kind of university my son will go to in the future, but that the child can be cheerful, happy, able to communicate with people normally, and live a normal life!
After my son went to vocational high school, the most obvious thing is to talk more, every day when he comes back from school, he tells me what happened in school, happy, angry, activities in school, interactions between classmates, everything to tell you, this time of day is the happiest moment I feel!
Son's view of the teacher is different, when he came back from school in junior high school, he complained all kinds of complaints, the teacher was not good at that thing, and now the most he said was: our teacher is not easy, especially our class teacher, managing a group of such students is too hard, managing a class is equivalent to managing several classes in other schools!
Become confident! I often come back from school and say, "I won again today!" "Today I went to the podium again to teach math problems to my classmates!" "The teacher asked me to go to her office and memorize the words, and I memorized them in a moment!" When I talked about this, my son was full of energy, and my tears were about to fall!
Every morning, my son picked up his school bag and went to school happily, which I didn't dare to think about before!
Whether it is a heavy high school, a general high school or a vocational high school, as long as he can go out of the house and return to the campus, what does it matter what school is!
Are those nine-eight-five, two-one-one good? It must be good, but my child may not be able to go, as long as he can get out of the haze, confident, cheerful, a handsome boy of eighty meters, I think that no matter what profession he is engaged in in the future, he can live happily!