In 1926, there was a wedding that attracted the attention of celebrities from all walks of life, the protagonists of the wedding were Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, these two names are still well known to everyone even now, the wedding held in Beijing was grand and luxurious, all kinds of political dignitaries gathered, at this time as Xu Zhimo's teacher, Liang Qichao was invited to serve as a witness, when Liang Qichao stood up to deliver the "marriage testimony", everyone was silent, because this short but sharp testimony did not have a little congratulations, but was full of warnings and oppression. The full text is as follows: "I have come to say a few unpleasant words, so that the society knows that such evil cases are not enough to be taken, and they are not worth encouraging." Xu Zhimo, you are an impetuous person, so that you have nothing to learn, you can't do learning, and you are even more a failure to be a person, and your divorce and remarriage is proof of your inattentiveness! Lu Xiaoman, you and Xu Zhimo are both people who have come over, I hope that from now on you can abide by the way of women, review your personality and behavior, divorce and remarriage are all caused by the faults of your character, I hope that you will not make mistakes and mistakes again. Don't take selfishness as the criterion for acting, don't take absurdity and pleasure as the purpose of life pursuit, don't take marriage as a child's play, think that happy can be married, unhappy can be divorced, let parents be ashamed, let friends be disdainful, let society see jokes! Anyway, I hope this is the last time the two of you will get married in your lifetime! That's my congratulations to you! ——— I'm done! ”
Everyone present was shocked by Liang Qichao's expression without leaving any emotion.
The name Liang Qichao is estimated that all people who know a little about China's modern history will not be unfamiliar, we do not mention his political ideas, in the education circle Liang Qichao is recognized by everyone as a good teacher, he not only educated all his children very well, protégés are all over the world. Liang Qichao is calm and self-sustaining, kind and popular, so what is the reason why he is so ruthless in his protégé's wedding.
Xu Zhimo became a student of Liang Qichao because of the introduction of his wife Zhang Youyi's older brother Zhang Junjie (mai sisheng). Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi also married because of Zhang Junjie's introduction, Zhang Junjie was very powerful in the political and business circles at that time, and Xu Zhimo's marriage to Zhang Youyi was the result of his parents' marriage for the sake of interests.
Xu Zhimo didn't like Zhang Youyi very much, and the first time he saw Zhang Youyi's photo, he said, "Dirt buns in the countryside!" From then on their marriage was bound to go to unhappiness. There is no doubt that Xu Zhimo is a talented man, but he is a scumbag, and there is no doubt that Zhang Youyi's misfortune in the first half of his life was mainly because of his indifference. After giving birth to his first son, Xu Zhimo felt that his task was completed, and then he went abroad to study, after Zhang Youyi followed him abroad, he proposed a divorce when Zhang Youyi was pregnant with her second child, and in order to divorce Xu Zhimo even forced Zhang Youyi to beat the fetus.
In the end, Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo divorced, although Xu Zhimo liked Lin Huiyin, but Lin Huiyin and his father Lin Changmin could not agree to the marriage of the two of them, and then Xu Zhimo met Lu Xiaoman, at this time Lu Xiaoman had a husband, and was a major general in the army, called Wang Geng.
However, the identity of a married woman does not prevent the two from falling in love, Lu Xiaoman is a person who wants to do as long as I am happy, and then she divorced and married Xu Zhimo.
Lu Xiaoman has a bad reputation, is a talented woman is not fake, looks beautiful is not fake, but she does not meet the requirements for women at that time, greatly challenging Liang Qichao's morality, as Liang Qichao's beloved disciple, Xu Zhimo's body is pinned on Liang Qichao's deep expectations, but he saw that Xu Zhimo was about to be destroyed, so he was distressed: "I love him the most, but this time I watched him fall into ruin, and I also want to save him, I also have a hard heart." My old friends all resented his actions, and I think that if he could not gain a foothold in society from now on, although he would be self-inflicted and resentful, he felt that this person was too sorry, or perhaps to the point of suicide. I watched him find such a person as a partner, afraid that his suffering would be more infinite in the future, so I wanted to give a blow to that person, hoping that she would have enlightenment, so as not to exhaust Shima in the future. ”
Liang Qichao is really a proverb, Lu Xiaoman's extravagant life after marriage has brought Great burden and pressure to Xu Zhimo, especially after she began to smoke opium in order to treat her illness, the two of them frequently quarreled and even fought.
Before Xu Zhimo died in the air crash, he was still arguing with Lu Xiaoman. Liang Qichao's marriage testimony did not wake up the two people, and I don't know if he still feels pain.