There are no couples who can't be separated, only the little three who don't work hard
Be mentally prepared, you can meet people you know anytime and anywhere, and you can't blindly run away
Are you familiar with these classic quotes? This is part of the lines in Zhang Zhihua's "The Temptation to Go Home".
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One day in 1958, a little girl was born, she had big eyes, a small nose and mouth, very beautiful, and her parents were fascinated by this child at the first sight of her.
This child is Zhang Zhihua.
When she was very young, adults often praised Xiao Zhihua and said that she looked as beautiful as a doll.
When she was in junior high school, Zhang Zhihua was admitted to the Shanghai Children's Art Theater and became a small actor in the theater, at this time, Zhang Zhihua was still ignorant, and she did not expect that she would become a big actor or star after that.
When Zhang Zhihua was 18 years old, she found herself full of interest in actors on the screen, so she entered the Shanghai Film Studio Theater Company for further study, and in the same year, she participated in the filming of "New Wind Road", in that era without beauty, the generous, beautiful and beautiful Zhang Zhihua was easily remembered.
In 1980, Zhang Zhihua co-starred with Guo Kaimin in the movie "Good Things and Many Mills".
The film presented to the audience is only a short 102 minutes, but when shooting, it requires the actors to repeatedly deliberate and carefully ponder, in the process of getting along day after day, Zhang Zhihua looks at Guo Kaimin's handsome and dashing appearance, and Guo Kaimin is also impressed by the classical temperament around Zhang Zhihua.
After the filming of the film, the two were also together.
Soon after, the two got married, and when the two of them announced the news, people were surprised, because at this time, Guo Kaimin had just filmed "Lushan Love" with actor Zhang Yu, becoming the first screen CP, in people's minds, Guo Kaimin and Zhang Yu were a couple, not Zhang Zhihua.
After marriage, the two are still working hard for their careers, and Zhang Zhihua has filmed many film and television works such as "Can't Forget You", "Qingshui Shop", "Exile University" and so on.
In 1986, Zhang Zhihua became pregnant, and since then, she has gradually reduced her travel and stayed at home to give birth, while Guo Kaimin went out for further study.
A year later, their son Guo Cheng was born.
At this time, Zhang Zhihua's fame is far less than Guo Kaimin due to the delivery at home, although she feels pressured, but for the sake of her children and for the sake of family considerations, she did not choose to make a comeback, but became a housewife at home, but she did not expect that the family that she sacrificed a lot to maintain only lasted 6 years and disintegrated.
Guo Kaimin needs to go out to shoot often, and Zhang Zhihua with a child cannot run with Guo Kaimin in the south of the sea. Zhang Zhihua longs for stability, and Guo Kaimin has a momentum in his bones, due to the different concepts of the two, coupled with the gathering of less and more, the contradiction between husband and wife is getting bigger and bigger, and soon after, Zhang Zhihua, who can't stand it, filed for divorce.
Because Guo Kaimin has been running around for many years, in the eyes of little Guo Cheng, his father is just a vague shadow, so when the two divorced, Guo Cheng followed his mother and left the home where he had lived for a long time, but Guo Cheng, who was only three years old, did not cry, for him, whether his parents divorced or not, as long as his mother was around.
For this marriage, Zhang Zhihua said this:
Since you don't love anymore, why be in one piece? I am a person who can suffer, but I cannot hurt my dignity. I looked very honest, but I was very stubborn
And Guo Kaimin is very guilty of Zhang Zhihua, he said this:
Zhang Zhihua is a good woman and very family-oriented, but I love to toss too much.
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Divorce is very decisive, but Zhang Zhihua's divorced life is very difficult.
Zhang Zhihua's parents cried bitterly when they saw the young Guo Chengcheng, Zhang Zhihua did not dare to go home to face his parents, after his divorce from Guo Kaimin, his home was gone, so for a period of time after the divorce, Zhang Zhihua was in a state where he could not return to his home, and could even be said to be living on the street.
Coupled with the fact that it has not appeared on the screen for a long time, the audience has almost forgotten Zhang Zhihua, and naturally there is no director looking for Zhang Zhihua to shoot works.
No works means that there is no source of livelihood, and zhang Zhihua, who is alone, has a very difficult life with his children.
In order to earn a source of livelihood, Zhang Zhihua even thought of "going to the cave" to make money. She could sing Peking Opera, and she went to many troupes to make cameos, but when she found that Peking Opera was no longer so popular, she changed her strategy and sang.
However, the money earned from these activities is very limited, and it does not provide better living conditions for children.
To make more money, she also did dubbing, moving back and forth between multiple recording studios, sometimes in a hurry, and sometimes she needed to string five studios at a time.
At the New Year that year, Zhang Zhihua got a bag full of money, and after she went home and opened it, she smiled happily.
At this time, Guo Cheng was already 4 years old, he already had his own thoughts, and he had already remembered things.
Seeing that other children have the company of their parents, while their mothers run for life every day, but their fathers have never appeared, little Guo Cheng is full of resentment towards his father.
Zhizi Moruo's mother, soon, Zhang Zhihua found that the child was wrong, through talking with the child, Zhang Zhihua, who understood Guo Cheng's thoughts, was very panicked and guilty, she did not expect that divorce would bring so much harm to the child, but in the future time, she had to take more time to take care of Guo Cheng, and Zhang Zhihua at that time only hoped that time could change the child's idea.
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Although life is always a chicken feather, it will also surprise you inadvertently.
Zhang Zhihua did not expect that the director of "Children's Love" would actually find her and let her play the role of mother in the play.
The once beautiful girl, but now to play a middle-aged woman, the gap is not small, but after carefully studying the script, she still gladly accepted.
When shooting, in order to cover up Zhang Zhihua's own brilliance, the director tried his best to dress her up in a tacky way, and when shooting, Zhang Zhihua said, I will not look in the mirror, let's directly act.
In the play, the second sister Tong Jianmei, played by Zhang Zhihua, is hot and irritable, and worships Jin stubbornly. In order to portray this role well, Zhang Zhihua often quarreled on the shooting scene and was dizzy, and his brain lacked oxygen.
But the effort is always proportional to the gain.
The drama "Children's Love" won the six major awards of the 15th China Television Golden Eagle Awards, and with this drama, Zhang Zhihua also returned to the screen again.
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Zhang Zhihua, who has achieved success in his career, has also ushered in his second spring.
In 1997, after being introduced, Zhang Zhihua met Zha Guojun, a 16-year-old painter who was 16 years old, and after a period of getting along, the two got married.
Although Cha Guojun is an outsider, he is very supportive of his wife's deductive career.
Whenever Zhang Zhihua's career development reaches a critical period, Cha Guojun will accompany her, and Zhang Zhihua will also take a period of time to accompany her husband to settle in the United States every year.
For Zhang Zhihua's son Guo Cheng, Zha Guojun is also very fond of, whether in daily life or in work and study, will give Guo Cheng enough care and love, in Zha Guojun here, Guo Cheng experienced a deep fatherly love.
What surprised Zhang Zhihua was that Guo Cheng slowly grew up, he was able to understand his mother's suffering, and under the joint enlightenment and companionship of her and Zha Guojun, the knot in his childhood was finally unraveled, and now, in his heart, his mother is his mother, his father is his father, and that's all.
Now Zhang Zhihua has a happy family and a happy life, and his career has not been abandoned. In 2020, Xu Zheng's Year of the Rat New Year film "囧Mom" has Zhang Zhihua's figure.
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It is often said that the greatest revenge against a person is not insults, hatred, but oblivion.
For her ex-husband Guo Kaimin, who failed to provide him with happiness, Zhang Zhihua neither insulted him nor cursed him, but educated his children with peace of mind, slowly forgotten him under the wash of time, and slowly found his own happiness in the journey of time.
Compared with the curse of insults, forgetting is her greatest revenge against Guo Kaimin.