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Author: Dream Deer
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In marriage, the most important thing is to be loyal to each other, not only to keep a promise, but also to practice a kind of respect from the perspective of the other party.
However, there will still be many women who will choose to forgive after a man cheats, thinking that in order to have a complete family for the sake of her children, she cannot be so willful, let alone impulsive.
Of course, there are still many women who choose to divorce because they are afraid, afraid that their own ability alone will make their lives more unsatisfactory, it is better to compromise in marriage, at least the quality of life of themselves and their children can be guaranteed.
But in fact, cheating is the same as domestic violence, only 0 times and countless times.
When you choose to forgive when he first cheats, he can take the weakness of your heart, challenge your bottom line again and again, and make you regress repeatedly in compromise.
During this time, the Japanese entertainment industry is probably well known that Higashi Chanda cheated on His wife during his pregnancy, and Watanabe Apricot, as a wife, had to make the biggest choice in life for her husband's cheating.
It's too cruel for women.
Higashi Izumi Masada and Watanabe Have always appeared as loving couples in public, especially after Higashi Izumi Masada got married, with the image of a good husband and a good man, he received a lot of endorsements and dramas.
Because of the explosion of the derailment door, all his previous efforts had to be put into practice, not only to face the termination of multiple companies, but also to face huge liquidated damages.
Many people think that Watanabe Apricot will definitely be the same as Ma Yili and Xie Xingfang, and after a short period of consideration, a few fluttering words will forgive the cheating husband.
After all, in the entertainment industry, many times couples are not only marital relationships, but also have many entanglements of interests.
What's more, the unfortunate Watanabe apricot in childhood will certainly not let his children repeat their mistakes, but the original family owes you, and you have to rely on yourself to get it back.
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Watanabe's father was Ken Watanabe, who divorced her mother for cheating when she was very young, and from an early age she was deeply affected by her father's marital infidelity and grew up in her mother's bad mood.
Also because of her father's irresponsibility, she had no choice but to take a break from school to work, and took up the burden of the family early, not only to provide for her brother Watanabe's studies, but also to pay for the cult that her mother was addicted to.
Many people may think that she has a superstar father who has successfully broken into Hollywood, how can she not afford to go to school, how can she be a little girl to carry the whole family?
However, when her father and other women enjoyed the wind and snow, they completely forgot that he still had two children, not only did not give child support, but also ignored them, helplessly she could only debut early, but also because of her mother's ignorance to bear hundreds of millions of debts.
She is also one of the most tragic representatives of the second generation of stars!
Despite this, she did not have distorted or extreme ideas about her personality, and she was always the girl with both backbone and ambition.
She seized the opportunity in a model recruitment, entered the modeling circle, and later returned to China to participate in the Miss Japan beauty pageant under the stage name of "Apricot".
She wanted to prove herself through her abilities and strengths, and wanted to make the best cut with her father with practical actions, but the media quickly dug up her relationship with Ken Watanabe.
After her identity was revealed, she chose to quit the competition.
Three years later, in 2007, she turned to the film and television circle, and soon had a series of masterpieces such as "Monster Bem", "Thank You for Hospitality", "What is Dating and Love" and so on.
Her acting skills were recognized by everyone, and she became a representative of the ratings guarantee at that time.
When her career reached its peak, she suddenly felt that she had completed her mission and should live for herself.
At the age of 29, she gave up her career and entered into marriage with the male protagonist of "Thank You for Your Hospitality", Higashi Izumi Masadae, and in May of the following year, she gave birth to a pair of lovely twin daughters, and the next year gave birth to a second child, becoming a mother of 3 children.
She used the golden period of 5 years of female star career rise in exchange for 3 lovely children and single-mindedly ran the family.
No matter what she wanted, she knew what she wanted.
When she was a student, she was forced to give up her studies and shoulder the responsibility of her family, whether it was modeling, beauty pageants, or acting, she knew that what she was doing was to get rid of the confinement of her original family.
Only after providing for his brother to study and helping his mother pay off his debts, he is the one who is free and free, and he will no longer be tied to his future because of his family.
When she wanted to harvest happiness, she met her own love, let go of everything in her original family, and bravely entered the marriage.
The family of origin can have an impact on a person's personality and even destiny, but this does not necessarily determine your future, and your future is always in your hands.
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Huang Yi, who has publicly said in the media about the reasons for the failure of her marriage, her two marriages are because of the misfortune of childhood, and she wants a marriage and a child to fill her life.
It is also such a simple purpose that her two marriages are flashed and divorced, and both husbands have poured dirty water after divorce, allowing her to spend a dark time.
Childhood misfortunes do reflect in future married life, but not everyone will.
In the original family, everyone has no right to choose, but the choice of life is in their own hands, and the misfortune of childhood may be the suffering that we cannot escape, but the happiness of adulthood must be tightly held in our own hands.
Watanabe can't choose her parents, and in the face of irresponsible parents, she has the idea of breaking free, but the sense of responsibility makes her start to pursue her own life after completing her mission.
I thought that meeting Higashi Ide Masadae would help her completely get out of the pain of her original family and move towards a brighter future, but I didn't expect him to make the same mistake as his father.
Although many people interceded for Higashi Idechang, they forgave his mistakes for his past love and for the sake of his children, and many people thought that she, who suffered the same pain in her childhood, would definitely choose to forgive.
However, the original family brought Watanabe apricot is all synonymous with strength, which can make her career smooth and allow her to find her own position in marriage.
She has her own career, not only to let the child live a good life, but also to stitch together her own strength, so that the child in the lack of father's love, more fulfilling.
What's more, not all children from divorced families will have psychological problems, and more children from such families have more mature ideas and stronger personalities than their peers.
Don't push your own cowardice and timidity to the original family, the same original family will also raise children with different personalities, as long as they have a personality that does not accept defeat, they have the courage to change their destiny, and they will definitely be able to overcome all the impossibilities.
Now, Watanabe's decision to divorce Higashi Izumi Masadae after careful consideration shows her strength and allows everyone to see a sunny girl who has come out of a bad original family.
No matter how bad life is, you know what you really want in your heart, you will not lose your heart, and you will not let yourself make wrong judgments.
For the future, I only hope that Watanabe apricot can be happy forever!
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