In the winter of 1989, Dou Wei whispered to his first love girlfriend Jiang Xin in his ear: "Remember the station and time I asked you out last time?" I'll wait for you again tomorrow, and hopefully this time you'll come."
After saying that, he threw up a long hair and rode the iconic "two-eight" bicycle of that era and disappeared into the night.
Dou Wei, who is about to become famous, far from imagining that since Jiang Xin, in the future, he will stage one emotional "tearing" war after another with Tianhou Wang Fei and photographer Gao Yuan...
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In the spring of the 18-year-old, Jiang Xin was still in the university accounting major, buried his head in books, one day, two tickets to the disco ballroom that fell from the sky appeared on Jiang Xin's bed, and in the case of asking everyone who did not know who sent it, he simply pulled his friends together to join in the fun.
It's just that she doesn't know that when she steps on the 112 bus that day, the car will be carried in another direction of life, and the most persistent love will be on the bus at the next stop.
As Jiang Xin swayed recklessly with the crowd, a boy rushed over and took her hand:
"Introduce yourself, my name is Dou Wei, let's dance together, don't object?"
"I'm afraid it's not necessary," Jiang Xin replied.
When they were separated, Dou Wei asked Jiang Xin for the first time and met at a certain location the next day, but Jiang Xin was not cold to him at this time. The next day, naturally, Dou Wei's pigeon was released.
This is the first encounter between the two.
In the following six months, Jiang Xin and Dou Wei never saw each other again, but they were very familiar with the other members of the Black Panther Band, and Dou Wei was still in the Beijing Youth Light Music Troupe at that time, often not in Beijing.
Until 1989, when the time came to see each other half a year later, Dou Wei, who was radiant on the stage, exuded the atmosphere of youth, blood, and uninhibited rock, and that night, Dou Wei became the hero in her heart...
At the beginning of 1990, Jiang Xin dropped out of school, played rock and roll, and followed Dou Wei to live in the courtyard deep in the hutong, which was three years!
In 1991, the black panthers' debut album was released, making Dou Wei a star in the spotlight.
Once, Jiang Xin inadvertently found a letter written by a fan to Dou Wei under the pillow, to the effect of how to worship and how to like.
In the "dangerous" situation of facing a great enemy, Jiang Xin began to fight back for love.
First of all, dou wei was everywhere, keeping a low face in front of him.
But the more humble the love, the more it makes the other party less cherished.
Dou Wei still enjoyed the happiness of the stars holding the moon, and did not care about Jiang Xin's feelings.
Jiang Xin had to use the excuse of "gambling gas" to move out of the warm and sweet courtyard.
When the two meet again, Dou Wei only needs a song to coax Jiang Xin to be good and reconcile again.
Just when the two were planning to get married and had even begun to choose furniture, a woman appeared between them...
A future singer diva of Faye Wong.
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One afternoon, the postman delivered a package, written by Faye Wong from the sender.
There are several CDs in the package and a line cap, and most importantly, there is a letter, at the end of the letter, Faye Wong said: "Can you stop calling me Xiao Wang in the future"?
The days passed day by day, and when winter came, Faye Wong came to several letters, and the content of the letter was still the care between friends, which also made Jiang Xin mistakenly think that it was a pure friendship.
In October 1991, Dou Wei left the Black Panther band to form "Dream", and when he left, Dou Wei said: "Bahaus and DeepOcean..." This is the music I want to make! But I don't want to force others, so I have to leave! ”
It's a beautiful lie to begin with...
On the stage scene where the "Dreaming" band debuted, Jiang Xin frantically searched for Dou Wei's shadow in the crowd, but almost all the corners were searched, and Dou Wei still did not appear.
Under the inquiry of the female companions, they got an explosive news: "Dou Wei went out with Faye Wong, and she flew back to Beijing that afternoon and went to the performance site." ”
Faye Wong mentioned in a previous letter that she likes to stay in a hotel when she returns to Beijing, and yes, Dou Wei and Faye Wong are really here at this time.
When Jiang Xin knocked on the door, Dou Wei's hair was still wet, and he had obviously just taken a shower, and before that, what happened to the two of them, everyone should be able to guess.
After that, for 3 consecutive days, Dou Wei did not go home, and when he returned, he lost weight.
More than two months later, one night, Faye Wong called, and Dou Wei said, "I'm sorry, we can be very good friends." Declined!
However, the next day, Faye Wong flew back to Beijing and accompanied Dou Wei to rehearse for an afternoon.
In September, Dou Wei and the Dreaming Band went to Shenzhen to participate in the music festival, and when Jiang Xin called again, the head only said: "I'm sorry, she came again, I..."
At this time, Dou Wei himself may not be able to let go of his feelings with Jiang Xin for many years, but he can't refuse the temptation of Faye Wong.
One day Dou Wei's grandmother and sister made dumplings together, and when the dumplings were just served on the table, the phone rang, and Dou Wei put down the phone and immediately ran out.
A few minutes later, Dou Wei returned with a large suitcase, followed by Faye Wong!
At this time, Jiang Xin, Faye Wang, and Dou Wei ate at a table, and then under the eaves, they spent late at night.
Faye Wong said to Jiang Xin, "Do you think he loves you?"?
Jiang Xin: "Why don't you love to be together"!
Faye Wong: "But that's what he said to me."
Late at night, Faye Wong wanted to go back to the hotel, and Dou Wei went to send her!
That night Dou Wei still did not come back.
The next day Dou Wei called and said, "I'm sorry, I think, or her"!
In the following years, Dou was the only one who accompanied Faye Wong, but he and Jiang Xin were still disconnected, and occasionally spent good nights together.
In 1996, Dou Wei created the "Impetuous" album for Faye Wong, which attracted international attention and appeared on the cover of Time Magazine in the United States, and in the same year, the two Werewolf married.
In the love triangle relationship, Faye Wong won, but what she didn't know was that 3 years later, she would also lose to another woman with the same experience.
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In 1994, Dou Wei launched the "Black Dream" record, in order to commemorate the band and use promotional photos, specially hired a photographer, also a Beijing big girl, the same height is also 1.72 meters, called Plateau.
Gao Yuan's personality is cheerful and lively, and he and Dou Wei soon become good friends who talk about everything, and under the introduction of Dou Wei, Faye Wong and Gao Yuan also became girlfriends.
In 1995, Dou Wei's "Sunny Days" named Gao Yuan to shoot covers and promotional photos for them.
After the listing of "Sunny Days", the response was very good, and the cover was also well evaluated, in order to thank Gao Yuan, Dou Wei specially invited her to dinner.
After that meal, the two developed a crush on each other and occasionally began dating.
The small movements of the two under Faye Wong's eyes were quickly discovered, and Faye Wong wrote in the song "Cold War": "I heard that you and my best friend are together, and I also learned that others quietly watched you two act." ”
Faye Wong's career started in Hong Kong, so after giving birth, Faye Wong shifted her focus back to Hong Kong, often staying for several months.
During this period, Gao Yuan and Dou Wei were given a lot of opportunities, and the two began to live together with Faye Wong on their backs.
When Na Ying returned to Beijing from Hong Kong again, Faye Wong decided to go home to see, but when she pushed open the door and went in, she was greeted by the "battlefield" that Dou Wei and Gao Yuan had not yet had time to clean, which completely made Faye Wong lose confidence in marriage.
In March 1999, when asked by reporters who this woman was, Dou Wei said: "Her name is Gao Yuan, and she is my lover."
Gao Principle said: "Dou Wei and I have been together since 1994 and have never been separated at all."
In the face of such betrayal, Faye Wong chose to end all this happily, how she snatched Dou Wei from Jiang Xin a few years ago, and now how she was snatched away by Gao Yuan.
On March 25, 1999, Faye Wong formally signed a separation agreement, and the two formally divorced in August.
In this love triangle, Faye Wong lost.
After kicking Faye Wong out, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan officially registered their marriage in 2002, but in 2004, the two secretly broke up, and when Gao Yuan left, he also took his daughter away, which Dou Wei could not tolerate.
So during a performance, Dou Wei said loudly to the media in front of the pain in his heart: "Plateau, you woman, the child is only 3 years old, you can't wait for her to grow up and then take it away"?
Today's Dou Wei may have already seen through the essence of life and has also begun to pursue the spiritual world.
In the face of love, there is no right or wrong, Dou Wei is not wrong, because he has the right to love or not to love, the first love Jiang Xin is not wrong, because others have the right to give up, Faye Wong is not wrong, she has the right to pursue love, Gao Yuan is not wrong, because she longs to be loved.
So love is great and selfish!