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Faye Wong brings fans the impression that it is cold, sound-like, legendary, full of fairy taste. However, this is Faye Wong's shell, the real she is sensual, delicate, and also has the feelings of an ordinary mother.
She had two failed marriages and gave birth to two daughters with two ex-husbands. Not giving her daughters a complete family, not letting them enjoy full fatherly love and motherly love, is Faye Wong's indelible guilt...
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The marriage between Faye Wong and Dou Wei was snatched from the hands of rock singer Jiang Xin. In 1994, Faye Wong gained some popularity for singing "Vulnerable Woman", and dou Wei was more popular than Faye Wong at that time.
Since ancient times, beautiful women love talents. After Faye Wong met Dou Wei in 1994, she was fascinated by his talent. In fact, Dou Wei is not tall, and he is not very handsome, but he is full of musical cells.
Jiang Xin and Dou Wei
Dou Wei had been in love with Jiang Xin for more than two years, and the two were about to enter marriage, and it was the appearance of Faye Wong that made Dou Wei waver.
At that time, Faye Wong was fashionable, cool, sexy, more attractive than Jiang Xin, and more red. The balance of Dou Wei's feelings tilted towards Faye Wong, but he couldn't bear to propose to Jiang Xin to break up, so he played the love threesome, which brought great harm and pain to Jiang Xin.
She loved Dou Wei, but she couldn't catch his heart. After shedding tears again and again, after the Spring Festival in 1996, the exhausted Jiang Xin endured the pain and proposed to Dou Wei to break up. Since then, Dou Wei's love has officially changed its flag and changed flags, and Faye Wong has become a legitimate girlfriend.
It turns out that no one is the only one. By the time Jiang Xin understood this cruel philosophy, it was already too late. In the love with Dou Wei, Jiang Xin paid a lot and directly affected his future life.
Sometimes girls love the wrong person, and the direct and indirect damage is immeasurable.
Young Faye Wong
Dou Wei and Faye Wong
In July 1996, Faye Wong and Dou Wei married in Beijing. But Dou Wei's mother did not like Faye Wong very much, and Dou Wei's mother, who had rich life experience, felt that Faye Wong was not suitable for an ordinary life.
She and her son Dou only had communication, but Dou in love only saw Faye Wong was full of aura. In fact, in her marriage to Dou Wei, Faye Wong's posture was very low.
According to media reports at the time, Faye Wong and Dou Wei lived in the old courtyard of the Dou family, and every morning when they got up, Faye Wong would put on slippers and go to the public toilet at the mouth of the hutong to pour the toilet.
When the neighbor saw her, Faye Wong did not feel embarrassed, and even smiled at the other party in a friendly way.
In 1997, Faye Wong gave birth to her daughter Dou Jingtong in Beijing. After becoming a mother, Faye Wong took her daughter to live in Hong Kong and separated from Dou Wei. She didn't return to Beijing once in two or three months, and it was difficult for Dou Wei to see Faye Wong and her daughter.
plateau
In the crevices of their marriage, a talented woman named Plateau squeezed in. Gao Yuan is a famous photographer, and his father is the famous actor Li Fei, who became famous for starring in film and television dramas such as "Wangxiang Star" and "Cold Night".
Born in 1970, Gao Yuan is 1.70 meters tall and talented. She studied photography at the Central Academy of Arts and Crafts, and the two met when dou wei photographed the album cover.
In 1999, when Faye Wong returned to Beijing with her daughter, she broke Dou Wei's love affair with Gao Yuan, and she was angry and ashamed. In August of that year, Faye Wong and Dou Wei went through divorce procedures, and Dou Jingtong lived with her.
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Faye Wong snatched love from Jiang Xin's hand, but her love was taken away by Gao Yuan. The arrogant Faye Wong could not accept this failure and vented her anger on Dou Wei.
In order to retaliate against Dou Wei, Faye Wong severed the connection between her daughter and Dou Wei and prevented Dou Wei from visiting her daughter. At that time, Faye Wong lived in Beijing with her daughter, dou wei called her, but Faye Wong did not answer; Dou Wei rushed over to ask to visit her daughter, but Faye Wong did not open the door.
Dou Wei often sat by the flower bed at the door for three or four hours, and then left in a daze.
At that time, Dou Wei had just become a father, and he missed his daughter very much, and he had several photos of his daughter when she was a child, and he often took them out to see. Looking at it, tears welled up in his eyes.
In 2000, Faye Wong met Dou Wei at a party. Dou Wei invited her to the top floor and begged Faye Wong to let her see her daughter.
Faye Wong said coldly, "Do you know how much harm you have done to me and my daughter?" I won't forgive you, and my daughter doesn't want to see you. ”
Faye wong
She did not tangle with Dou Wei and turned away. Worried about making an unpleasant scene, Faye Wong left early without waiting for the party to end.
In 2004, Dou Jingtong was 7 years old and in elementary school. Seeing that the other children had moms and dads, she asked Faye Wong, "Why don't I have a dad?" ”
Faye Wong didn't explain much to her daughter, because she didn't understand the explanation, she just said, "You have a father, but he's irresponsible." The daughter asked to see her father, but Faye Wong refused.
As he grew older, when he arrived at the New Year's Festival, he saw that other children had their parents around, and Dou Jingtong cried when he came home. Faye Wong knew that the enmity between herself and Dou Wei should not be borne by her innocent daughter.
However, she couldn't get out with a breath in her heart, she just wanted to sting Dou Wei in this way to achieve psychological balance.
Dou Wei with his mother and two daughters
In 2006, Dou Jingtong begged his mother to see his father. The longing in her daughter's eyes hurt Faye Wong's heart, and she turned her face to tears. But she did not agree to her daughter's request, and Dou Jingtong also cried.
Dou Wei thought that his daughter wanted to go crazy, and asked his sister Dou Ying to intercede with Faye Wong. Dou Ying is also a rock singer and has always had a good relationship with Faye Wong. After Faye Wong remarried with Li Yapeng, she was waiting for delivery in a hospital, and Dou Ying went to the hospital with flowers to visit Faye Wong.
Dou Ying seemed to have no intention, but in fact he intentionally said his brother's request. Faye Wong and Dou Ying had no grudge and did not want to brush her face, so they agreed.
Dou Jingtong finally met her father when she was 9 years old, and Faye Wong took care of her daughter alone for 9 years, and she also paid a lot. Since then, Dou Wei often took his daughter to reunite on weekends and sent Dou Jingtong back on Sunday nights.
Although her daughter was very happy, Faye Wong still saw that her daughter had regrets and sorrows. Because of the divorce, the daughter's psychology has been impacted. As a mother, Faye Wong has a special taste in her heart.
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Faye Wong and Li Yapeng wedding photos
As early as 2005, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng were married. Li Yapeng is two years younger than Faye Wong, unmarried and single, and Faye Wong is divorced and has a daughter, Li Yapeng is not abandoned.
In 2006, Faye Wong gave birth to Li Yan in Beijing. She suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate, which hurt the hearts of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng. The couple, who loved their daughter, began to send their daughter to the hospital for surgery when Li Yan was 3 months old.
After three surgeries, Li Yan's cleft lip and palate were completely repaired, leaving no trace.
When the gauze of her daughter's last surgery was lifted, Faye Wong burst into tears.
Li Yapeng is a responsible and broad-minded man, who not only loves his own daughter Li Yan, but also treats his stepdaughter Dou Jingtong kindly, which makes Faye Wong feel very pleased.
Faye Wong and Li Yan
In the first few years of marriage, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng had a happy and happy time. But with the fading of passion and the emergence of aesthetic fatigue, Faye Wong feels that married life is like a pool of still water, which cannot arouse the slightest wave and passion.
In fact, after the husband and wife under the heavens reach middle age, who does not live a trivial and ordinary fireworks life? Where is there so much passion and romance?
But Faye Wong is a big name in the music world, not an ordinary woman, and is doomed to live such a trivial life that is as dull as water. She needs freedom of mind, needs romance and passion, and enjoys the feeling of being a fairy floating in the air.
In 2012, when Faye Wong proposed a divorce to Li Yapeng, Li Yapeng burst into tears, not knowing what he had done wrong.
In fact, Li Yapeng is not wrong, he is responsible for family and marriage, treats his stepdaughter well, and cares for his own daughter. The fault is that he found the wrong person, and Faye Wong is a legend and is not suitable for marriage.
Faye Wong with two daughters
Li Yapeng shed tears and hoped that Faye Wong would give him half a year to consider it, and also let Faye Wong calm down. During this period, Faye Wong's determination to divorce became more and more determined.
After Dou Jingtong learned of his mother's idea of divorce, he was sad in his heart: his mother had already divorced once, and now she was living well with her stepfather, so why should she divorce?
Dou Jingtong questioned her mother, and Faye Wong perfunctorily put her daughter on the grounds that adults and children should not be mixed.
At that time, her sister Li Yan was only 6 years old, and Dou Jingtong knew that once Li Yan lived in a single-parent family, there would be many hardships in the future growth process. Dou Jingtong took his sister in his arms, and the tears in his eyes could not be stopped.
Watching her sister cry, Li Yan also cried.
In September 2013, Faye Wong calmly and friendly broke up with Li Yapeng, and Li Yapeng offered custody of her daughter, and Faye Wong agreed.
After the divorce, Wang Fei took her daughter Dou Jingtong to Hong Kong, where Li Yapeng and Li Yan lived in Beijing.
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The divorce of her parents brought a huge psychological impact to Li Yan, and she often shed tears at home. For the healthy growth of his daughter, Li Yapeng often got in touch with Faye Wong.
Knowing that her daughter had violent psychological fluctuations, Faye Wong was very sad, and she rushed to Beijing many times to visit her daughter, and together with Li Yapeng, she took her to eat and shop.
Li Yan
Faye Wong has repeatedly told her daughter that he will love her as much as ever. But no matter how eager the word is, it is difficult to resist the harm caused to Li Yan by her parents' divorce.
In order to minimize the harm to her daughter, Faye Wong often calls her daughter and contacts her by video. During the winter and summer vacations, she will also take Li Yan to Hong Kong to live together.
In 2017, Li Yan grew into a beautiful girl, and gradually walked out of the shadow of her parents' divorce, and Faye Wong shed tears of mixed feelings.
However, in 2019, the Internet broke out that Li Yapeng and model Haiha Jinxi's relationship broke out. Faye Wong is worried again, she is worried that after Li Yapeng remarries, she and her new wife will have children, and her daughter will be wronged.
But Li Yapeng has always been in love with Haiha Jinxi and has not entered into marriage, which makes Faye Wong's worries fade a little.
Li Yapeng and Hai ha Jinxi
In March 2022, Li Yapeng married Haiha Jin Xifengzi. Li Yan talked to her mother about this matter on the phone, and her voice became aggrieved and choked, and then shed tears.
Faye Wong knows the entanglement in her daughter's heart, in fact, how can her heart be relaxed? She only hopes that after Li Yapeng gives birth to a new baby, she can treat her daughter Li Yan as well as before and not let her be wronged, which is her ex-wife's biggest wish.
At this time, the eldest daughter, Dou Jingtong, has reached the age of 25 and has entered the golden age of marriage and love. Faye Wong wanted her daughter to consider personal issues, but Dou Jingtong replied to her mother, "Why do you want to get married?" Isn't it nice to be alone? ”
Faye Wong told her daughter about the benefits of being in love and getting married, as well as the problems faced by singles. Dou Jingtong scolded his mother: "Aren't you also not married now, isn't it very good to be alone?" ”
Faye Wong burst into tears and fell into deep thought. Looking back on her own vicissitudes of emotional experience, she finally understood that her two divorces had brought psychological shadows to her daughter, and this shadow may exist for a lifetime.
As a mother, she felt sorry for her two daughters, and if she could turn back the clock, she would definitely treat marriage with caution.
"Tasting Celebrity" Comments: Faye Wong is successful in her career, but emotionally some failures, she divorced twice, leaving her two daughters living in a single-parent family.
Admittedly, the first divorce was because Dou Wei cheated in marriage, which brought her harm, and her divorce was excusable. But in the marriage with Li Yapeng, the other party has no obvious mistakes, and she should not hastily divorce.
In the marriage with Dou Wei, Faye Wong was also at fault: if she did not stay in Hong Kong with her daughter for a long time and did not live with Dou Wei for a long time, the marriage would not have come to this step.
Dou Jingtong and his sister Li Yan
In the eyes of fans, Faye Wong is a legend, a fairy who does not eat fireworks in the world. However, no one can live in a vacuum, and everyone has to face the troubles brought about by trivial life.
Since they are mortals who eat grains and grains, they cannot escape reality, and there are contradictions in marriage, and they must find ways to solve them, rather than divorce to relieve themselves.
Once people are married and have their own children, they will be inextricably linked to the people around them, and they must learn to tolerate and learn to accept. There are no legends in the world, no fairies floating in the air, only real fireworks life.
Faye Wong realized that it was not too late, and hoped that she could adjust her mentality, give her two daughters a bright and brilliant life, and not let them have emotional obstacles!
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