As a much-loved music superstar, Faye Wong can be called a national idol, her singing voice is moving, her personality is independent, and she is unique.
In dealing with emotional life, Faye Wong has always dared to love and hate, and she has never concealed it, and she also has many unique opinions on the issue of educating her children.
However, when her two daughters are mentioned, one can't help but be confused. Why did Faye Wong try her best to fight for the custody of Dou Jingtong at the beginning, but gave up Li Yan? Why did these two daughters, who were both her own daughters, have such completely different experiences?
Faye Wong's married life has always been windy and rainy. In the first marriage, in the face of Dou Wei's derailment, she decisively divorced and resolutely obtained the custody of Dou Jingtong. However, after breaking up with her second husband Li Yapeng, Faye Wong did not do her best to fight for Li Yan's custody as before.
This small gesture has raised questions from many. Faye Wong once mentioned in a program that the reason why she fought for the custody of Dou Jingtong was because the child's father was not responsible enough. As for Li Yan, although there is no fight for custody, it does not mean that she does not love Li Yan, but because Li Yapeng loves Li Yan very much, and he is an excellent father.
Today, the two daughters have entered adulthood, and each has an independent growth trajectory. Dou Jingtong has shown unique insights and ideas in the field of music, while Li Yan is not bound by a special background, and has already gone abroad for further study, showing a lively and independent personality.
In fact, Faye Wong knows that Li Yan will have a better life if she follows Li Yapeng. In her first marriage, Faye Wong was actually the one who was abandoned, because Dou Wei later found a new sweetheart and married a new wife shortly after divorcing Faye Wong.
Once upon a time, Faye Wong created a song full of maternal love "Tong" when she was young, this song seems to be a love letter woven with musical notes, conveying Faye Wong's endless love and expectation for Dou Jingtong. However, when Dou Jingtong was a baby, her parents' marriage came to an end, making her a child of a single-parent family.
According to rumors, Dou Wei rarely accompanied her daughter after she was born, and sometimes she couldn't even remember her daughter's name. He is more focused on his music career and circle of friends.
Li Yan's situation is completely different. During her pregnancy, Faye Wong learned that Li Yan had a congenital cleft lip, but Li Yapeng and Faye Wong were still waiting for her arrival with great anticipation. Over the years, they have spared no effort to take Li Yan everywhere to seek medical treatment, regardless of the high medical expenses, hoping to cure their daughter's illness.
Due to the challenges of having a child with congenital cleft lip, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng specially established the "Yanran Angel Fund" in the name of Li Yan, hoping to help other children with the same disease. More importantly, in order to take care of Li Yan, both physically and psychologically, Li Yapeng chose to reduce his work and spend a lot of time with his daughter growing up.
Perhaps in the failed marriage between Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, it is difficult for the outside world to understand the merits, perhaps because Li Yapeng has suffered many business failures, his acting career is lackluster, and he is now forming a new family with Hai Ha Jinxi, which has attracted a lot of criticism. However, from a father's point of view, Li Yapeng is undoubtedly a well-recognized good father! This point was affirmed even before Faye Wong and Dou Wei gave birth to their daughter Dou Jingtong, before they divorced!
As a mother, Faye Wong naturally loves her children deeply and regards them as the meat of her heart. But why is her toil so misunderstood? After all, many things can only be experienced by those who have experienced them, and there are often many onlookers, but few people really know what is going on.
People are confused about her different attitudes towards her two daughters. She gave birth to both of these children, so why did she give her all to one and be indifferent to the other? When people see the current situation of these two children, they may understand why.
Today, the two daughters have entered adulthood, and they get along very well. Because Li Yan used to suffer from cleft lips, Dou Jingtong even got a tattoo on his chin to show companionship and support. Now Li Yan, the rabbit lips have been healed very well, and there is almost no impact, and the relationship between the sisters is also very close. Dou Jingtong has unique ideas in the field of music, and the relationship with his sister is also very harmonious.
At present, under the guidance of his mother, Dou Jingtong has transformed into a singer, showing an unrestrained demeanor, which is exactly the same as Faye Wong back then.
At the same time, under Li Yapeng's care, Li Yan's rabbit lips healed well, and her personality became cheerful and generous. She even stepped on the catwalk to show her inner brightness and sunshine.
Isn't this situation the result of Faye Wong's careful cultivation?