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Preface
Dou Jingtong, a name is a household name. She was born on January 3, 1997 in Beijing. Her mother is Faye Wong, the queen of the music world, and her father is the musician Dou Wei. In addition, she has a famous stepfather. Today, Dou Jingtong is 27 years old. She chose not to fall in love and not to get married. Her personality is avant-garde and distinctive, and she seems to carry the imprint of her mother's complex emotions.
An experience like no other
Dou Jingtong's growth process is full of attention, and she carries the emotions and expectations of many people. As the daughter of Faye Wong and Dou Wei, she naturally became the focus of public attention. From the musical talent she showed when she was a child, to now becoming a musician with a unique personality, her growth process can be said to be a legend in the Chinese music scene.
Dou Jingtong's talent in music was revealed early, which made the entire Chinese music scene look forward to it. Soon after she was born, she cried for the first time in Faye Wong's song "Only Love Strangers" and sang "Come on, baby". The entire Chinese music scene is looking forward to her growth, but she shows a different attitude towards it: "I think I may never be able to wait, I don't really want to grow up." Her bright eyes sparkled, and she didn't lose herself because of too much attention and preference.
In August 1999, Dou Wei and Faye Wong officially completed the divorce procedures. This vigorous relationship finally ended with Faye Wong leaving with her daughter. At that time, Dou Jingtong was only two years old, but when she was walking on the road with her mother and was surrounded by reporters, she knew how to protect her mother, and said to Faye Wong in a milky voice: "Mom, don't pay attention to them." ”
Faye Wong was resentful of Dou Wei's cheating, and after the divorce, she decided not to let her daughter see her father again. Whenever Dou Wei wanted to visit her daughter, she always avoided him and didn't let him see her. As a result, Dou Jingtong was sent back to Beijing to live with his grandmother and aunt in a courtyard house. Here, she received more love and companionship, spent her childhood, and received musical enlightenment here.
Aunt Dou Ying tried her best to accompany her to grow up, playing CDs to her and listening to beautiful music, Dou Jingtong spent her childhood here, and also received music enlightenment here. In the second year, Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying persuaded Faye Wong to open her heart and let Dou Jingtong meet her father. Dou Jingtong was finally able to enjoy the double warmth of father's love and mother's love.
However, soon after, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse began a striking sibling relationship. The romance has received a lot of attention and controversy. Fans on both sides have negative comments on this relationship, after all, Nicholas Tse is a well-known playboy, and Faye Wong is divorced and has a child. The romance quickly became the focus of heated discussions.
Rebellious character
Dou Jingtong's growth process is quite dramatic, she is the daughter of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, and has experienced family remarriage and reorganization since she was a child. Dou Jingtong is not Li Yapeng's biological daughter, but Li Yapeng treats her as his own and shows a broad mind. However, Dou Jingtong's academic path was not smooth. During the rebellious period of adolescence, she dropped out of school twice, which gave Li Yapeng a headache. In order to give her the best education, Li Yapeng spared no effort and did not hesitate to transfer her to a top public middle school in Beijing.
However, Dou Jingtong was unable to adapt to the new environment, and her academic performance was always only up to the passing line. Perhaps because of her adolescent troubles, she decided to drop out after only one year in a public high school. However, this does not mean that Dou Jingtong has given up his studies. Instead, she came up with a new idea: to study at an internationally renowned music institution. Resolutely, she embarked on a journey to this university in a remote town in the United States.
Although the town is remote, it is famous for its famous music school. But living here isn't easy, with only two restaurants in the town, snow all year round and little sunshine in winter. However, Dou Jingtong's determination and courage have made her determined to face these challenges, and she has engraved in her heart the determination to pursue her musical dreams.
Dou Jingtong's growth process is exemplary, showing an appropriate attitude and method of parents in their children's education. In the eyes of her parents, she received meticulous support and encouragement. After she appeared on the stage of "City of Fantasy" and showed her talent, Faye Wong did not hesitate to express her recognition, and the audience also felt this sincerity. Now, Dou Jingtong, who is only 24 years old, has gradually shown a unique personal style.
She chooses to shoot the films she loves and create the music she loves. Today, she has become the eldest sister in Faye Wong's mouth and an idol in the hearts of many fans. In the comment area below Faye Wong's songs, one of the most common comments is: "I'm here to listen to my husband's (Dou Jingtong)'s mother sing." "It's an admirable achievement. Observing Dou Jingtong's growth, I can't help but sigh: the growth of children does not depend entirely on the teachings of their parents.
If everything depends on the guidance of parents, once they are not around, children can easily lose their direction and fall into confusion. Many children's self-competence is often lost through over-teaching. Dou Jingtong is lucky. Her parents never imposed on her what she should become. She also admits that when she is with her parents, there is very little musical communication. However, she received full love and respect from her parents, as well as an excellent role model.
What is the status quo now?
In 2021, Dou Jingtong sang the theme song "Paradise" for the movie "Just an Accidental Trip", which was highly praised by the audience. However, even with certain achievements, she still bears a heavy burden on her heart. Dou Jingtong's father Dou Wei and mother Faye Wong have been separated for many years, but they have not remarried. Dou Wei's career has been in a downturn, and his life has been troubled, and the relationship between Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse has often become the focus of the media, which has put Dou Jingtong's psychology under a lot of pressure.
The unhappy marriage of her parents left a shadow on Dou Jingtong, who was full of fear of love and marriage and never thought of getting married. She is 27 years old, at an age when she should be in love, but she is reluctant to find a boyfriend, and even rumors of homosexuality are spread from time to time. This situation made Faye Wong anxious, and Dou Wei was even more worried about her daughter's situation. For Dou Jingtong, the emotional entanglements of her parents and the constant tracking of the media have become a part of her life, and her soul has been devastated.
Now Dou Jingtong is 24 years old, at the age of falling in love. Dou Wei began to show concern for his daughter's private life, and he advised his daughter: "When choosing a boyfriend, you must pay attention to his character and sense of responsibility. Due to the separation of his parents and the divorce himself, Dou Wei knows the importance of a happy and stable marriage.
After experiencing the divorce of his parents and witnessing all kinds of twists and turns in the entertainment industry, Dou Jingtong had doubts about love and marriage. Dou Wei knows that he should do his duty and warmth as a father to help his daughter overcome her fear of marriage and let her rekindle her hope for a better love and marriage.
epilogue
Dou Jingtong, as the daughter of Faye Wong and Dou Wei, is under the public eye, and her every move has attracted much attention. However, despite growing up in a family environment of music and art, she has reservations about falling in love and getting married. Perhaps because of his personal experience, Dou Jingtong knows the complexity and challenges of marriage. She may be concerned that her marriage will receive excessive media and public attention, and lack privacy and freedom. In addition, her upbringing may have shaped her idealization and criticality about marriage.
Despite having a background in a musical family, Dou Jingtong may be more inclined to pursue his career and independence than to be bound by marriage. She may be more focused on personal growth and self-fulfillment than relying on the traditional family model. Overall, although Dou Jingtong was born into a family with a musical atmosphere, her cautious decision to fall in love and marry may stem from a clear understanding of her own values and life goals, as well as a deep understanding of the challenges that marriage may bring.