<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="150" > Yishu's charm? </h1>
When you love, you are warm, and when you go, you are determined.
The writer YiShu has written many novels, and most of her heroines are beautiful, independent and strong. She said that she admired Zhang Xiaohui the most, and the most important gesture to be a person should be good-looking.
In her romance novels, you can not only see the wind and snow, but the extra points are Yi Shu's life creed.
But on the contrary, Yi Shu's own life: he gave birth to his eldest son at the age of 19, but later refused to recognize him. After the divorce, he intervened in the love affair between his girlfriend Zheng Peipei and Yue Hua. He fought a war of words with his nephew Ni Zhen and had not been in contact with his brother Ni Kuang's family for many years. No matter how you look at it, the posture is "not how".
Perhaps it is true as Yishu said: "People who are successful in art have an evil atmosphere when they raise their hands and feet, commonly known as charm." ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="133" >: Yishu's youth. </h1>
I don't mind betraying my youth. Youth will not be sold. - Yi Shu.
Yi Shu, formerly known as Ni Yishu, was born in Shanghai in 1946 and was originally from Zhenhai, Zhejiang.
This little girl with the name "A Sister" also has an older brother named Ni Kuang. A nephew named Ni Zhen.
▲ Yi Shu and Ni Kuang.
That's right, it's the bookish family in Hong Kong.
His older brother Ni Kuang was a famous science fiction writer, and his nephew Ni Zhen was also an important talent in Hong Kong, and later married the goddess Zhou Huimin.
▲Yi Shu when he was young.
At the age of 5, Yishu settled in Hong Kong with his family and was educated in a hong Kong aristocratic school.
Yishu has a stubborn personality from an early age and has his own ideas.
When she was a child, the teacher asked Yishu to answer the question, but she couldn't answer it because she wasn't ready. As punishment, she was punished by the teacher for standing in the classroom.
Consciously losing face, she memorized all the texts in one breath, and since then she has developed the habit of reading.
Several of the children of the Ni family are indeed very talented in literature, Ni Kuang began to write martial arts in 1958, and has become very famous since 1960. Ni Zhen returned to Hong Kong after graduating from the University of Florida in the United States and became the best-selling magazine in Hong Kong at that time, Yes! One of the founders of the book, he often wrote it himself.
Under the influence of his brother Ni Kuang and his brother's friends Jin Yong and Gu Long, YiShu also began to try to write.
▲From left to right: Gu Long, Ni Kuang, Sun Tanning, Jin Yong.
In 1961 (1962), Yi Shu's first novel, Summer Vacation Passed, was published by West Point magazine, and he began his career as a writer.
Because she wrote really well, and because everyone knew that she was Ni Kuang's sister, many magazines and newspapers came to her for a manuscript. Some editors who were familiar with Ni Kuang even came directly to ask Ni Kuang.
Ni Kuang was very proud of this little sister, and he "complained" to Jin Yong and Gu Long and other friends:
Our sister can now come out, and she has come to me for an appointment.
Later, Yishu was very "pampered" by this group of Hong Kong literary and art circles, and everyone liked the Ni family, a strange little girl.
Because of her premature fame and the wealth of her family, she wanted everything she wanted, and this big lady's temper was very "smelly".
Publishing houses throughout Hong Kong had to follow her, and the editor-in-chief reminded the editor:
Although we chase Miss Yi every day for a manuscript, you must not offend her, she is not old enough, and there is no need to pay for her life.
▲Jin Yong when he was young.
Later, Yi Shu, who had a "very hard waist", ignored the objections of her family and did not want to go to college. She said:
Anyway, the fee can feed me.
Yi Shu said this is not all nonsense. She's confident. After graduating from the preparatory department of He Dong Girls' Government High School (now known as He Dong Middle School), she was invited by her brother's friend Jin Yong to work as a reporter for Ming Pao, write news, interviews and entertainment news under the pseudonym "Yi Sha Bei", and also worked as an interviewer and editor for film magazines.
▲ Yi Shu and his brother Ni Kuang.
Because the quality of the works is high enough, and the "interpersonal relationships" are iron enough, Yi Shu has always been regarded as a big miss in Ming Pao, and the stars are pampered like the moon.
But it was also in Ming Pao that she met a man who would not revolve around her- Cai Haoquan.
▲On the left is Cai Haoquan.
Cai Haoquan is a painter. But the poor and depressed painter ignored her and did not revolve around her. This made Yi Shu have a strange feeling - this mortal actually ignored me?
Cai Yanpei said:
The more you ignore her, the more she wants to attract your attention.
The more he ignored it, the more intriguing he became. Yi Shu, who is very competitive, decides to conquer Cai Haoquan.
One is a 17-year-old lady and the other is a 19-year-old poor student.
The introverted but talented poor student meets the talented girl who takes the initiative to be beautiful, and the student is quickly defeated. The two quickly developed into boyfriend and girlfriend.
Although the two young people soon became "indispensable to him/her", the Ni family looked down on Cai Haoquan and felt that this poor painter was not worthy of their own baby princess.
But Yi shu has always been self-reliant, even if her family opposes, she still "flash marriage" with Cai Haoquan.
The two set up a table in Tsim Sha Tsui and invited a friend to a meal, even if they were married.
The following year, Yishu gave birth to a son, CaiBiancun.
Unfortunately, this story of talented people only lasted for a short period of 3 years.
After marriage, the two often had conflicts because of "money". Life after marriage is not only love, but also chai rice oil and salt.
Cai Haoquan is talented, but poor, after painting for 3 years, he is still poor, so he advocates frugality and simple life, and of course he can't afford to be rich. But Yi Shu could not accept that the Ni family's family was rich, and she had been accustomed to a rich life since she was a child, and she could not follow Cai Haoquan's simplicity.
As she wrote in "Xi Bao":
I want a lot of love. If there is no love, then it will take a lot of money...
Depressed, Yi Shu often drank, and when he drank, he would get drunk.
Under normal circumstances, Yi Shu often makes the editors of the magazine feel "afraid", let alone drunk.
Soon, Cai Haoquan couldn't stand Yi Shu's stinky temper.
In the third year, the marriage between the two came to an end, and the son Cai Biancun lived with his father Cai Haoquan.
▲ Caibian Village.
At first, Yishu would occasionally visit his son, but with Cai Haoquan's remarriage, Yishu also began to intervene in Zheng Peipei and Yue Hua.
In order to pursue a new "happiness", she simply cut off the entanglement with her ex-husband, and even her own son also cut off contact, completely deleting this "youth love" from her life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="139" > two: to pursue love and good girlfriend Zheng Peipei. </h1>
Speaking of "new happiness", we have to mention Yishu's good girlfriend Zheng Peipei.
Zheng Peipei has played roles such as Madame Hua in "Tang Bohu Dian Qiu Xiang".
▲ Zheng Peipei starred in "Lady Hua".
Zheng Peipei's dance skills are very good, so when she participated in martial arts films, she became a well-deserved sister of the Hong Kong film industry in the mid-to-late 1960s and early 1970s, the first dozen women in China, and was once named "Wuxia Film Queen" by the press.
When Zheng Peipei starred in the movie "Drunken Man", the two male actors Yue Hua and Chen Honglie both pursued her at first sight. At that time, she gave up the more flowery Chen Honglie and chose the considerate and gentle Yue Hua. The love affair between the two is envious of everyone, including Yi Shu.
Yishu and Zheng Peipei are good girlfriends, and when Zheng Peipei, who is very grinning, often brings Yishu, whose life is not going well, hoping that her happiness can infect her and change back into that lively and lovely girl.
At that time, Yue Hua was Shaw's most profitable actor, and he was very attractive to girls. At the beginning, Yi Shu was still in the failed marriage between himself and Cai Haoquan. After knowing Yue Hua, Yi Shu suddenly opened up, and men could still be so romantic, so considerate and gentle.
Zheng Peipei did succeed in enlightening Yishu, and Yue Hua made Yishu have the idea of divorcing and starting a new life.
▲Yue Hua and Yi Shu.
At the end of the date, Yue Hua will always send YiShu home first, and then send Zheng Peipei home. In order to increase the chance of being alone with Yue Hua, Yi Shu said that she had night blindness and was afraid of falling down when she went upstairs alone at night, so she asked Yue Hua to accompany her upstairs.
Undoubtedly, Zheng Peipei, who had him, urged her boyfriend to send Yishu safely to the door of the room.
Zheng Peipei's personality is very grinning, while Yue Hua's personality is very delicate, two people with opposite personalities often quarrel in getting along. After a long time, Zheng Peipei found that Yishu and Yue Hua got along better than himself and Yue Hua, but it was too late.
▲ Zheng Peipei and Yue Hua.
After the separation and merger, Zheng Peipei and Yue Hua ended the relationship that lasted for 5 years.
After that, Yi Shu, who had been divorced, justifiably launched a passionate pursuit of Yue Hua.
She wrote about Yuehua:
He's a good guy, a good guy's face, a good guy's character.
Everyone knows that taking advantage of Yue Hua will not have worries.
I can't look up Chinese dictionary, Yue Hua is my dictionary.
He was healthy and happy, a rare example in the world.
Yi Shu's two relationships are her active pursuit, and she must get them when she wants them.
With some effort, Yue Hua married her. Zheng Peipei also left the United States, married a wealthy businessman, and started his new life.
If this story ends here, it's not too bloody.
▲ After Yue Hua and Yi Shu broke up, they found a foreign girlfriend.
After getting married, Zheng Peipei's life was not satisfactory, and she wrote to Yue Hua to talk about it, after all, the two also had feelings for more than 5 years. However, she did not write any inappropriate words in the letter, but simply regarded Yue Hua as an old friend, seeking reference and comfort.
But this letter somehow fell into Yi Shu's hands, and she was furious.
The "Queen of Love" will never allow other women to appear in her marriage. Yishu handed the letter to the media, and later the letter was published, which directly affected Zheng Peipei's relationship with her husband.
▲ Zheng Peipei.
Not only that, when Yishu saw that there was a photo of Zheng Peipei and Yue Hua in the magazine, he had to tear up that page.
Yue Hua mentioned Zheng Peipei in an interview, and when he returned home, he found that his clothes had been cut into pieces by Yishu to vent his anger.
The most terrifying one was when Yi Shu inserted a dagger into the heart of Yue Hua's bed.
▲ Yue Hua reenacted the picture of Yi Shu inserting the knife on "Zhiyun Rice Bureau".
Years later, Yue Hua was interviewed by "Zhiyun Rice Bureau" and recalled that this scene was still palpitating, saying:
Whether she loves me or not, I don't quite know. Her character... More special, she is a rather special girl.
After Yishu published Zheng Peipei's letter in the magazine, Yue Hua's patience finally reached its limit, and he was determined to separate from Yishu.
Even if Yi Shu knelt down and begged for a reunion, Yue Hua did not look back.
And the relationship between Zheng Peipei and Yishu was also completely broken.
In Yi Shu's work "Brave New World", Yi Shu expressed his own views on love:
In the short decades of life, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others.
Obviously somewhat selfish.
Seeing that her second marriage was also irretrievable, she was also determined.
Years later, Yue Hua and Yi Shu both settled in Vancouver, Canada, and when they met in the supermarket, they only regarded each other as strangers, and even if they worked at the same TV station, they never paid attention to each other.
This style of "old and dead do not interact with each other" is very "yi shu".
Yi Shu, losing people can not lose posture, after all, she once said:
The most important thing to be a person is to look good.
After divorcing Yue Hua, Yi Shu lived alone for a long time, so readers gave her the title of "Shi Tai".
After the day of love, known as "Shi Tai"?
Am I mistaken? You have to hurry up and find "new happiness.".
However, the posture is still not very good.
Even though Yishu created countless independent modern female figures, she herself embarked on the road of blind date marriage at the age of 40 and married Mr. Liang, an intellectual.
After getting married, the two immigrated to Canada and gave birth to a daughter through artificial insemination.
In Canada, no one held her every day. The "Queen of Love" can only return to life. She got up at 5 o'clock to write, wrote until 7 or 8 o'clock, sent her daughter to school, and then learned to do housework and continue to write.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="515" > three: scolding with nephew Ni Zhen. </h1>
"Big Miss" Yishu has always loved to ridicule people, and several "talented women" and "beautiful women" have been counted by her in turn earlier.
▲ Li Jiaxin in his youth.
For example, when Ni Zhen and Li Jiaxin fell in love, she commented on Li Jiaxin and said:
Beauty is beautiful and soulless.
When the two were in love, she said:
Instead of going on for another 10 years and the problem is still there, break up.
▲Ni Zhen and Zhou Huimin.
After the two really broke up, she had to mend the knife again:
In another 10 years, the same will be true.
▲Lin Qingxia.
She also commented on The Qiongyao girl Lin Qingxia:
Even though she doesn't watch Dream of the Red Chamber, even though she's single-mindedly wanted to marry a Ph.D. student in the United States, and even though she's made a bunch of inexplicable movies, she's still the best in her genre.
This text seems to be praising Lin Qingxia, but in the end there is some "sincerity", please let the readers experience it for themselves.
▲ Qiong Yao in her youth.
As for the statement of others that "Taiwan has Qiong Yao, Hong Kong has Yi Shu", she dismissed it:
Qiong Yao was for the little girl to see, and it was superfluous to mention it.
▲Zhao Yazhi.
When Zhao Yazhi won the "Favorite Female Star of the HKU Vote", she also thought that the students were tasteless, saying:
Suddenly I felt that I couldn't enter HKU that year, which was simply a very lucky thing.
Zhang Aijia wanted to enter the world of directing, and she commented:
Female stars have two common diseases,
First, mistakenly believe that youth will always stay.
Second, I always want to pretend to be learned.
In addition, there are many people who have received her "criticism letters", and since then, those who should be offended have been offended. But everyone was afraid to contradict her because of her identity.
It is always difficult to quarrel with literati, especially a talented woman like Yishu, who can write about your doubts about life with a pen.
But there is one person who does not buy it.
- Ni Kuang's son Ni Zhen.
▲Zhou Huimin.
Ni Zhen also pursued Li Jiaxin before falling in love with Zhou Huimin. At that time, Yishu commented on Li Jiaxin.
Later, Yi Shu stood up in his prose and said that this nephew of his did not understand human sorrow and was a "happy new generation in Hong Kong":
Ni Zhen is also a literati, and seeing his aunt's "connotation" himself, he did not want to show weakness and wrote an article called "Yishu" in return:
For many years, the aunt has had the shadow of abandoning her son, worried that her son will come to the door to ask for money.
Ni Zhen also "connotation" Yishu plastic surgery, he wrote Yishu "cut meat and return mother":
He also sneered at Yi Shu's 40-year-old artificial conception daughter as an "old clam born pearl"...
Finally, I would like to summarize my aunt's "miserable life":
Since the poverty of the young family, the rebellion of the teenagers, the early marriage and childbirth, the divorce of the opposite eye, the lack of talent, all kinds of unsatisfactory, all of which are fiercely vented out with the shadow of the vines in the sky, turning into a blood stain of the nephew!
(In fact, Ni Zhen stole Yishu's seal, and Yishu beat him)
The two literati fought a pen battle, which led to a great increase in sales of newspapers and magazines, which can also be regarded as "killing two birds with one stone"...
Do you now know why female celebrities don't dare to fight with the literati?
Literati quarrel, never carry dirty words, but the words see blood.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="591" >4: "Old and dead" with family members. </h1>
By 2012, Ni Zhen's father, Ni Kuang, had also begun to show dissatisfaction with his sister, saying that he had not heard from Yishu for 20 years.
We have not heard from you for over 20 years. The last call was at the age of fifty.
▲ Ni Kuang.
The reason why there has been no contact is that Yishu always avoids seeing it. Every time you call, you will be automatically received to a voicemail.
And Ni Kuang's friend Cai Lan also said that he had not contacted Yishu for a long time. From the line between the lines, the reason why "old and dead do not interact with each other" is because Yishu unilaterally does not want to contact.
However, Yishu is very "fair", and her "old and dead do not interact" is not only aimed at her brothers, nephews, and old friends, but also at her sons and ex-husbands.
In her first marriage, Yishu had a son, Cai Biancun. However, since he and his ex-husband Cai Haoquan "died and did not interact with each other", his son Cai Biancun, who has a family bond, has not been able to build a emotional bridge between himself and his mother.
In 2013, the 44-year-old Cai Biancun made a documentary "Mother's Day", shouting to his mother in the air:
Hello, it's me, Cai Bian Village, your son, haven't seen you for a long time, can we meet?
This documentary, filmed in Vancouver, Berlin and Hong Kong, records the real experience of searching for a mother around the world in Cai Bian Village.
In the film, Cai Biancun tells the memory of his mother:
The last time I saw my mother was when I was eleven. The letters sent to her were never answered... That day my mother bought me a robot, watched the movie "007" together, and then never came back...
At the time of filming this film, Cai Biancun was 44 years old, but he felt that it was not too late:
At 44, it wasn't too late to look for my 65-year-old mother, because I had a bunch of questions to ask her.
Although the film does not specify who the mother you are looking for is, everyone actually knows it...
Yishu did not respond in a positive situation. However, she wrote a short story "Mom", first writing about the difficulty of giving birth to a son, and affirming her love for her son:
Later, he turned his pen sharply and wrote that "one is different and two wide":
Your father has wasted the first half of her life, and now you are going to waste the second half of her life?
Obviously, she did not want to have a relationship with Cai Bian village anymore, and said that she loved him very much...
What is "love"? Perhaps Yishu himself has not been able to understand, but he has written an article to teach young people how to "love"...
Fell in love at the age of 17, flashed marriage at the age of 18, had children at the age of 19, and divorced at the age of 20. Later, he went to rob his girlfriend's boyfriend and fell out with his girlfriend. Later, he divorced, quarreled with his nephew, drifted away from his relatives and friends, and finally did not even want his son.
The posture of "Shi Tai" is not necessarily good-looking.
Perhaps the more you lack something, the more you want to show something. Yi Shu's "Yi Shu Girl", those perfect personalities, only exist in the story.
Reality, on the other hand, is always a chicken feather.
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