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Lejia said: There is no one set of parenting methods that apply to all children!
Want to give the best love to the child, want to give the best material conditions to the child, and are afraid of spoiling the child!
I want to exercise my child's ability to be independent, and I want to make my child more self-reliant, but I am worried that my child will not have love in his heart when he grows up!
As a parent, there is always a contradiction, and I don't know that in such a contradictory mood, the child will slowly grow up!
For children, the most joyful thing is the time of the holiday, the holiday can be at home to play, you can play games at home, you can also enjoy the advanced treatment of parents.
However, recently there has been a set of pictures on the Internet, in which the little boy has an almost "self-help" lifestyle at home, setting an alarm clock every day to get up and cook, cleaning up the dishes after eating, and then packing his school bags to go to tutoring classes.
Once out of the door, walked to the door, the boy came back again, it turned out that he forgot to take the garbage, really a good child with a heart, go out and do not forget to take the garbage out!
It turned out that I had seen a paragraph on the Internet, the children of the past, lazy bed every morning, did not get up, the mother made breakfast, shouted that the child should not be, and finally the father shouted the child up to eat breakfast to go to school, and now the child, after getting up in the morning, the parents are still lying in the nest, and the parents will give the child a little money to let the child buy breakfast by himself.
I didn't expect that the paragraph is really from life, the boy in the online photo is only 10 years old, but this independence is already stronger than many adults.
Seeing the status of this little boy, netizens have left messages below:
Many children of this age can't even pack their school bags!
Some people also say that it may be that the parents are too lazy, and the children are diligent!
More supportive parental laziness: the "laziness" of parents is just right, and the achievement of children!
Some netizens also joked: This boy is so capable, there will be no shortage of girlfriends in the future!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > parents to be "lazy" and better for children</h1>
Before there was a little girl on the Internet on fire, her parents were doctors, the work was particularly busy, the little girl was out of school, her parents had not yet come home, and it was not healthy to eat takeaway, so the little girl decided to cook her own food.
Every day her parents give her 20 yuan to buy vegetables, the girl goes to the market after school to buy vegetables, and then goes home to cook, and when her parents return home, the girl has prepared a delicious meal.
Netizens are envious: other people's children!
In fact, every child's current behavior, habits, and personality are for a reason, just like the family environment of a little girl, her parents are busy and have no time, so the little girl becomes self-reliant and strong. However, those parents who are always uneasy about their children, parents who always have a big package, it is difficult to cultivate independent and excellent children!
Therefore, it is a good thing for parents to be "lazy" appropriately.
Until now, every time I watch "Soul Singer", little Charles falls to the ground, his hand mistakenly reaches into the fireplace, and shouts "Mom, help!" "And the scene where his mother silently shed tears next to him, I still cry."
Because Charles suddenly went blind, the mother knew that if she wanted her child to adapt to the darkness and survive, she had to let the child learn to live on his own.
We always say: most children are no bigger than their parents! But if parents are reluctant to let go, how can children grow up?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > character habits that benefit children for a lifetime</h1>
Every parent is very conflicted: seeing the child is very independent, very sensible, it will be very painful for the child! At this age, other people's children are spoiled in the arms of their parents!
But in families where the children are independent, when the children go out to college, when the children work in the field, the parents do not worry that the children will be hungry to themselves.
When parents get old one day, they will not worry that their children will not take care of themselves!
We often hope that our children will be excellent and successful in the future, what is excellent? I think that good habits and personality will benefit children for a lifetime.
There was a boy whose mother was a graduate student and whose father was a PhD student. But the boys' grades are not good, so the mother is very anxious, worried that the child will not be able to enter a good university, worried that the child will not have a good job in the future.
So the mother urged the child to go to various tutoring classes, the child is very cooperative, but the grades have not improved much, and then the mother is relieved: although the child is not studying well, but to report to him for the tutoring class, he never rejects, but also works hard to learn, in addition, he is very kind, very sensible, only in the second grade will already make a few dishes, and even cook for us, as long as he has been down-to-earth, there will definitely be a good result in the future.
Therefore, what the grades are secondary, the child's habits and personality are the most important, parents should know how to let go, let the child develop a good character, so that the child can go long in the future!
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