Speaking of Tang Li, I believe that many people will feel strange, but when it comes to his father Tang Guoqiang, I believe that no one does not know, from the "cream boy" of the film industry to the "imperial professional household", the old drama bones that exist like evergreen trees in the film world.
But compared with Tang Guoqiang's acting achievements, his married life has an indescribable scar.
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In 1952, Tang Guoqiang was born in an ordinary family in Qingdao, Shandong Province, and showed amazing talent in literature and art from an early age, becoming the leader of the school's children's art troupe in elementary school and serving as a member of the class in middle school.
After graduating from high school, he became a worker, but Tang Guoqiang knew that the road of workers was not a good way out, so he gave up the iron rice bowl that everyone envied and ran to the Qingdao Repertory Theatre to become an actor.
In the drama troupe, Tang Guoqiang has been working for 5 years, and his acting skills have also improved by leaps and bounds. Later, Tang Guoqiang became a temporary worker at the Bayi Film Studio, and successively starred in the movies "South China Sea Storm" and "Walking in front of the war", and gradually became less famous.
In 1977, Tang Guoqiang was introduced to his first wife, Sun Tao.
Sun Tao was born into a cadre family, his father was the deputy director of the Political Department of the Engineering Corps, and he was a cadre at the level of the regular army. After graduating from military medical university, Sun Tao became an assistant military doctor.
At this time, Tang Guoqiang was only a temporary worker seconded to the Bayi Factory.
Sun Tao fell in love with Tang Guoqiang at first sight, and after a period of dating, the two became lovers.
Later, Sun Tao used his father's connections to transform Tang Guoqiang from a temporary worker at the Bayi Film Studio into a formal actor.
In 1979, the two entered the marriage hall, this year Tang Guoqiang was 27 years old and Sun Tao was 24 years old.
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Tang Guoqiang, who is happily married, has also ushered in spring in his career.
In 1979, Tang Guoqiang's partners Chen Chong and Liu Xiaoqing starred in the movie "Little Flower", and once the movie was broadcast, it also allowed Tang Guoqiang to gradually occupy a place in the show business circle.
The so-called popularity is not much, Tang Guoqiang and Chen Chong spread a scandal, for this rumor Chen Chong said:
"I especially liked Tang Guoqiang at that time, he already had a fiancée at that time, and often called the guest house to find him, and we always deliberately teased his fiancée, saying that Tang Guoqiang was in Liu Xiaoqing's house." ...... I think Tang Guoqiang is particularly good, but after filming, he went home and got married, please let us all go, I am inexplicably sad. ”
After that, Tang Guoqiang has successively starred in movies such as "Tonight's Starry Night", "Peacock Princess", "Long Road", "Four Crossings of Red Water" and so on, and Tang Guoqiang has also become the darling of many directors.
In 1983, Sun Tao gave birth to Tang Guoqiang's daughter Tang Li, began to marry and teach his children, and carefully took care of Tang Guoqiang's life in life.
Even Sun Tao's mother said:
"She treats Tang Guoqiang better than me and her father, and she has paid too much for Tang Guoqiang."
The happy family of three is simply envious of others, and their happy life has been published by the magazine "Talent World", which can be called a model family.
In the seemingly happy life of outsiders, Tang Li did not feel happy in her young soul, because her father Tang Guoqiang spent too little time with him.
Once, Tang Guoqiang, who had not returned home for several days, rarely went home to eat, but he had to leave halfway through the meal, which made young Tang Li cry: "Daddy, how much can you earn in a day?" ”
Saying that, he took out 100 yuan from his pocket and said to Tang Guoqiang: "Dad, I will use 100 yuan to buy you for a day, and stay with me for a day?" ”
Hearing his daughter's words, Tang Guoqiang felt deeply guilty and would take time to go home to see his daughter in the days to come.
For Tang Li, this happiness did not last long.
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In 1989, Tang Guoqiang filed for divorce from Sun Tao, but what is even more tragic is that on Chinese New Year's Eve night in 1990, Sun Tao hanged himself in the bathroom of his parents' house, at the age of 35, leaving two suicide notes and Tang Li, who was only 7 years old.
Sun Tao's death left Sun Tao's parents washing their faces in tears all day, and he died three months later due to his father's excessive sadness, which led to a heart attack.
The death of his wife Sun Tao also pushed Tang Guoqiang to the cusp of public opinion, saying that he had an "extramarital affair" and insisting on divorcing Sun Tao led him to a dead end.
Tang Guoqiang, who could not bear public opinion, came forward to clarify:
"At the beginning, my divorce from Sun Tao was reviewed organizationally, and her psychiatric case was also a diagnosis report from the Qingdao Psychiatric Hospital, which was very clear in the organization, and it was not that I said it casually."
But for Tang Guoqiang, this statement was immediately refuted by Sun Tao's mother:
"The Tang family called to say that Xiao Tao was mentally ill, and we were very surprised when we received the call, and immediately notified the Bayi Factory, asking Tang Guoqiang to go to Qingdao to take Sun Tao back to Beijing, the Tang family to take Sun Tao home and not allow her to enter the house, Tang Guoqiang asked to send Sun Tao to a mental hospital, we said that she was not mentally ill at all, so we took her back to her home."
And Sun Tao's mother also made Sun Tao's suicide note public:
Tang Guoqiang, because of his lack of morality, lost his conscience, and in order to satisfy all his personal pursuits, he proposed to divorce me, causing me great spiritual pain and putting me to death.
I didn't live for him and began to be liberated, but my body was so weak that I almost lost the strength to speak. I agreed to the divorce.
For this suicide note, Tang Guoqiang also strongly denied: "It has been 14 years, and I cannot confirm whether this is true or false." ”
At the same time, Tang Li also stood up and spoke for her father:
"I have the ability to judge right and wrong, know right and wrong, my father is very bitter and bitter, when he was driven out of the Bayi factory, very miserable, even the drama can not be picked up, if my mother hanged herself at my house, he will never be able to turn over, he is not easy, pay a lot for this family, if there is no my father today, there is no my present."
My mother and father caused misunderstanding and distrust due to many reasons, the two people have a bad relationship, separation is not a bad thing, but my mother is very stressed psychologically, she is not a very open person, a little narrow-minded, something buried in the heart does not want to say, a moment of thought can not open the suicide. ”
And Tang Li's support also made the cause of Sun Tao's death a mystery, and the truth of the matter was only clear to the parties themselves.
The year after the death of his mother Sun Tao, his father Tang Guoqiang married Magnificent of English descent. Tang Li has always lived with her grandparents.
When Tang Li was in junior high school, she was picked up by Tang Guoqiang and sent her to study in the United States.
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With the passage of time, Tang Li has fallen out of the pavilion, and the magnificent ten years of getting along with her stepmother have also made Tang Li gradually accept this "mother".
"My stepmother helped my dad a lot, she gave up her career, it was not easy to maintain the family."
After graduating from college, Tang Li did not follow in her father's footsteps to become an actor, but chose to stay away from this chaotic entertainment circle and return to the plain.
Now Tang Li works at an advertising agency and has become a white-collar worker in the workplace, and this kind of ordinary life may be what her mother Sun Tao wants to see most.
Since Magnificent married Tang Guoqiang, she has lived the life of a husband and a godson at home, becoming the woman behind Tang Guoqiang, and the two often appear together in public, and they are very affectionate.
Today, Tang Guoqiang is 68 years old, and he has gradually withdrawn from the show business circle, with a successful career and a happy family, which can be described as a proper winner in life.
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