Confessions from the family, don't listen to them when you are homesick.
I am Selina Ren Jiaxuan, I am Ren Rongxuan.
The two of us want to write a letter to Dad Ren Mingting today.
Dear, versatile Mr. Ren Mingting, who always sprinkles dog food at home:
<h1>I'm Jiaxuan. </h1>
Rong Xuan and I sneaked out of the Mango TV program "Daughters in Love" today, just to surprise you before the Spring Festival and let you hear a letter from your daughters.
Dad, as a sister, I'll start with that. I joked on the show, how did I Selina get reduced to going on a blind date and coming to find a boyfriend?
But I really can't be blamed for this. For the daughter's concept of love, the biggest influence is the parents.
If the marriage of the parents is successful, the daughter will have more security about the marriage; the parents often quarrel, and the daughter will be more vigilant about the marriage.
And you and my mom have been married for 40 years! Alas, you will sprinkle dog food every day.
Sometimes I really envy both of you. You are college classmates, and you attend the training camp on the first day of admission.
At first glance, Dad said you were in love with your mother, saying, "I must marry her as a wife!"
When I heard you say this as a child, I thought you were bragging.
But after "the big day" found that it is likely to be the truth: you one " love, the first love becomes a couple.
This is simply a cheesy romance that no one in a romance novel dares to write! What kind of love has gone so smoothly!
Dad, inside our family, Rong Xuan's personality is more like you, and my personality follows my mother, more optimistic and romantic.
It is precisely because of this difference that I slowly understand why my mother chose to be with you.
Because, your romance is never in words, but in action.
On the gondola in Venice, you force your mother to kiss you for a photo, and you are particularly proud. You said that your mother is shy and never willing to show affection in public, so you have to create such an opportunity.
After I started working, the weekly schedule was densely packed.
It made me suddenly understand one thing: You're really a really great dad.
When we were young, you had to spend every weekend free to spend with your family. We go to Tamsui, we go to Yilan, we go to Yangming Mountain, we go up the mountain and go down to the water...
How exactly did you do that?
When he was thirty or forty years old, he was obviously the peak of a man's career and the age when he had no time
yes? Why Mr. Ren Mingting, you can always find time to accompany us?
Thank you, I still feel very sweet when I see those joyful pictures of my childhood.
Dad, the best gift a parent can give to their children, may not be what they have done for their daughters, but the way they behave in front of their children.
I, you, and Rong Xuan attended a show last year and played a word guessing game. You have to guess that "home is an eternal haven", and we just compared a house with our hands, and you guessed the answer.
A friend asked me, are you cheating? Such a complex sentence, how can you guess at once!
I wanted to cry and laugh because they didn't know how familiar the phrase was with us.
Ever since we were kids, you've been repeating this phrase: "Home is an eternal haven."
Every day at the dinner table, you and your mom will share what's happening at school and at work.
You say that we have to develop our ability to express ourselves, so you should lead by yourself and encourage your children to express the joys and sorrows in their hearts, sincerely and naturally.
So if you must ask me, Ren Jiaxuan, what do you most appreciate about your father?
I want to say, Dad, thank you, thank you for showing what a man should look like, showing what a husband and a father should look like.
Let me no matter when and where, I will not be disappointed in life and love.
We've gone through so many bumps, Dad, and I want to keep going with you.
<h1>Rong Xuan's confession</h1>
Sister, don't you always sensationalize, how do you let me answer the phone!
Dad, I am Rong Xuan, and I also want to talk to you. My sister just said, when I was a child, you took us with you
Went out on outings and took a lot of pictures.
But I know, she's actually jealous!
Because I saw in the film, Dad, you are filming me with all kinds of cameras!
Because I'm 7 years younger than my sister, it's even cuter! Wherever I run, whatever songs I sing, you're filming me. Then my sister shouted, "Daddy, you're eccentric!" Only shoot my sister, not me!"
Hahahahaha, I think it's quite funny when I think of this.
Sister just thanked you for setting a good example, I want to come and learn from her.
I want to thank Dad for your kindness because you never blamed us in the name of love, and you never kidnapped us in the name of love.
A's not right! Just once! This time in "Daughters in Love", you admitted it. If you didn't like my first love, you wouldn't give me a good look. Then you argue that this is human nature, and no father would like the first boyfriend brought by his daughter.
Hmmm, I don't listen anyway. But just forgive you this time.
But other than that, I've really thought about it, and you're really indulging us.
"Therefore, when parents do not control everything, they must give their children the space to grow up freely."
That's what you said and that's what you did.
You say, it's because I'm luckier. First, in your own childhood, your grandfather was a soldier and was more strict with you, so you hope that your daughters can have different choices; second, you discipline your sister more, and you are more doting on me.
But whatever the reason, I just want to say, thank you.
When I was in high school in china, my sister was particularly popular, but I had to bear the pressure of my classmates in school, because I was the sister of the "star sister". But when I get home, I can always feel your love. Can also make my sister eat a little more vinegar, hahahahaha! Now that I think about it, I'm still pretty happy.
So Dad, it's New Year's. My sister and I discussed with you in writing this letter.
I want to eat the Shanghai raw fried bun under the house before, you said that it was when you were a child, your grandfather carried you to eat, it was full of sesame seeds, and the bite was full of aroma.
Childhood memories will always accompany us throughout our lives.
Your raw fried bun is, and so am I.
In 2019, I hope that our family will be safe, healthy and all the best.
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