I really appreciate actor Tao Xinran more and more.
She is not sober in the world.
Tao Xinran's mother is relatively strong, which can be seen from the education of her daughter.
Tao's mother is a teacher, she almost never encourages her daughter, suppressing education, afraid that she will be proud and not work hard enough.
When a child scores 98 points in the test, most parents will praise it and then hope that the child will continue to work hard.
Tao's mother asked directly: How did you lose those two points, why not full marks?
Speaking of these, Tao Xinran's eyes were filled with tears, and in his small heart, he was rarely recognized by his mother.
In my mother's opinion, the teacher's child, you must be better than others, and it is a shame not to be at the top.
Growing up in such a harsh environment since childhood, Tao Xinran is more mature and stubborn than his peers.
When she grows up, she can finally control the direction of her life, for example, learning acting, but her mother disagrees, she prefers to take this path.
In the end, it worked.
Tao Xinran's brother got married, she understood her mother's character, so she did ideological work in advance: In my brother's family, there is only one hostess, that is, sister-in-law, mother, you are a guest.
She said: In the future, mothers can really only be guests in the family of their daughters or daughters-in-law.
She saw it thoroughly, the old man should not be involved in the small family of his children, and some things must not be managed, and he will become an enemy if he manages it.
We often see that there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, all because everyone lives under the same roof and the mother-in-law manages too much.
Young people have the way of life of young people, children need it, the old people just need to help, and when there is something about the family that needs to be decided, laugh and don't give a decisive opinion.
Whether it is mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or other relationships, even if everyone is a family, at some point, it is necessary to distinguish priorities and have a sense of boundaries.
Usually, the mother-in-law is reluctant to let go of her son after the establishment of a small family, and does not adapt to the fact that there is a new mistress in his small family.
If something happens to the son's family, the mother-in-law wants to take care of it, and if the daughter-in-law is in charge, she will feel uncomfortable.
It all requires an adaptation process.
Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, between two large and small hostesses, there are always various open and secret fights inadvertently, and the daughter-in-law will not let it go as it sits in the control of "rights", and large and small contradictions arise.
The mother-in-law is a traditional thinker, who regards her husband and son as heaven, and takes care of everything, and her son's family affairs are also her business.
The old man has good intentions, but on the contrary, he has caused others to be dissatisfied, thinking that you interfere too much, making life uncomfortable and uncomfortable.
Times are different, and young people have their own way.
For example, the daughter-in-law asked her son to pour her foot washing water, for example, the son did housework and took care of the baby, and for example, the daughter-in-law slept lazy, and so on.
You can just turn a blind eye. The marriage is theirs, and they have the final say.
It is very important for the whole family to have a sense of boundary between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you don't cross the line, everyone gets along well, and a happy life will naturally come.
Tao Xinran is very wise and can handle family relationships, and her life must be very happy.
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