With the rapid development of society, people's pace of life is getting faster and faster, more and more people because they are busy with work, busy with life, rarely spend time on visiting relatives, the phenomenon of "breaking relatives" is becoming more and more common, the so-called severance is less and less contact with relatives, unlike before, every New Year festival to go relatives, no matter what busy work will be pushed off, accompany family members to visit relatives.
But now it has changed, the Mid-Autumn Festival, the Spring Festival, there are fewer and fewer relatives to go, many people are reluctant to go relatives, so the relationship with relatives is becoming more and more cold, and even some young people do not even know which family is which.
So what causes more and more people to be reluctant to go to relatives, 4 reasons tell you, very realistic
1. Economic pressure
There is no doubt that economic stress is one of the main causes of family breakout. Although people's living standards are now better, but the pressure of life is also increasing, the price is now much higher than before, in the past only a few tens of yuan a day of food is enough, now 100 yuan is only enough for a family to eat a simple meal.
Many young people need money in all aspects because they have to support their families, such as children's milk powder money, tuition, parents' alimony, medical expenses, and have to repay mortgages and car loans.
Moreover, some young people will feel that it will cost a sum of money to visit relatives, and it will cost several hundred yuan to give gifts, and a few relatives will be thousands of yuan, not only have no money, but also work a few days less and receive a few days less salary.
2. Social competition is fierce, and more and more people pay attention to their own development.
There is no doubt that in this fast-paced era, more and more people pay attention to personal development, because the pressure of social competition is high, jobs are difficult to find, many young people face great competitive pressure, have to seek personal development, have to work harder to improve their abilities.
Therefore, many young people will put most of their energy into their personal development, neglecting the connection with relatives, and feel that connecting with relatives will waste their precious time.
3. Differences in values
With the changes of the times, people's values are also constantly changing, and many young people and relatives have inconsistent values, and even feel that there is a generation gap in communication.
Even in the face of some older relatives, to visit and chat can not talk together, and even more serious will cause some contradictions and conflicts, the most common is that some elders always like to ask young people's income and marriage situation, some young people will feel particularly uncomfortable, feel that the elders ask these questions are violating personal privacy.
But if you don't answer, you feel disrespectful to your elders, and you don't feel good when you answer yourself.
4. Social media
The rapid development of the Internet allows everyone to contact through the Internet, through WeChat messages, WeChat videos, which has brought great convenience to people's lives, but because of this, many people feel that they often keep in touch on their mobile phones, and there is no need to visit relatives.
Although mobile phone communication, WeChat can be more convenient for people to contact, but can not replace face-to-face communication, communication.
Because face-to-face communication can promote understanding of others, trust each other, increase the joy between people, and reduce barriers.
Summary:
Breaking off relatives is a very complex social phenomenon, which may develop with the times, and the phenomenon of family breaking will become more and more serious, but we do not have to worry too much, because the phenomenon of family breaking is an inevitable result of social development and the growth of young people.
We must bravely accept this phenomenon, and then we must also remind young people to pay more attention to the family, pay more attention to the contacts with relatives, and believe that with the joint efforts of individuals and society, the phenomenon of "breaking off relatives" can also be alleviated and society develops more harmoniously!