A bowl of porridge deceived a rich girl, and the first people who raised a rich daughter are already beginning to regret it
Text | Rice grain mother
How many sisters, like rice grain mothers, have chased the drama that caused countless controversies on the hot search?
How to say, the drama has not watched an episode, the plot has not fallen at all, and the anger is not less raw at all.
Watching the plot in the play every day in the hot search randomly scourges an industry.
Either playing with a fire extinguisher in the garage and putting it on romance, or threatening to steal anesthetics for love...
For a while, everyone in all industries was at risk, and some hospitals had begun to inventory narcotic drugs.
The most popular thing is Xu Qin, the adopted daughter of the love brain who makes Wang Baochuan, who digs wild vegetables, feel inferior.
Although she was adopted, she also lived a life of brocade clothes and jade food since she was a child in the Meng family.
Dad loves, brother pets, and although mom is strict, she actually pours a lot of effort into this adopted daughter.
She was completely according to the standards of a rich daughter, gave her the protection of her family, gave her a beautiful room, taught her manners and rules, and raised her according to the way of a famous lady.
When I grew up, my parents bought a house, my car broke down, and my brother sent a good car directly to my door without saying a word.
The wardrobe is full of brand-name bags, so you can just walk away if you want to study abroad.
When the clothes are dirty, they are sent directly to the dry cleaner, and they have never been troubled by firewood, rice, oil and salt and household chores.
After graduating, her adoptive mother tried to send her to the best hospital and study with the best senior doctors. He also personally made some interpersonal relationships for her and paved the way for her future.
As a result, turning around, this petite daughter, who has been cared for and pampered since she was a child, gave up her great future for a "little gangster" who was not admitted to college, and did not hesitate to break with her family.
The point is that this "punk" still opens his mouth and closes his mouth to her is a PUA.
Eating together was rubbing her off.
In order not to grind and eat quickly, Xu Qin stuffed a mouthful of food, and the male protagonist sharply commented on her "This age is not suitable for pretending to be cute anymore."
There are also two people who go out on a date to eat and only order one dish, and the male protagonist stuffs the chicken wings he gnawed to Xu Qin and asks her to eat more of this tumultuous operation...
What I can't understand even more is that Xu Qin has not been pampered since she was a child, at least she was raised without staining the sun and spring water, and as a result, the male protagonist just cleaned his own house in front of her and wiped the ground of his own house, and moved the female protagonist to tears in her eyes, feeling that the male protagonist was too good for her.
Too good for her...
The male protagonist finally showed it once, paid some practical actions, and cooked a bowl of white porridge for her, which is terrible, and directly let Xu Qin fall out with the family.
She expressed her passion to her adoptive mother, saying that she felt at home for the first time because of this bowl of white porridge.
She lives in the house bought by her adoptive father, drives the car picked by her brother who is not related by blood, enjoys the good job that her adoptive mother gives her, and falls in love with the male protagonist who often puabates her.
When I saw this, Mi Grain's mother was already about to have a heart attack, and sometimes it was really helpless to watch the drama alone.
Let's compare our hearts to our hearts, and the children who pay their hearts and financial resources to raise them are abducted by a bowl of porridge, and who can not be on top.
But from an old mother's point of view, what makes me most angry is Fu Wenying's nurturing concept of her adopted daughter Xu Qin.
She planned a route for Xu Qin and let her live step by step, but because of the strict protection and control, she was completely ignorant of human suffering.
She can resist for love, in fact, the gamble is that the family is reluctant to let her suffer.
This is also a pit that many families with rich daughters are very easy to step on.
When I was a child, I had a stage and felt that "I had a lot of drinking water".
The more the family opposes, the more they feel that they are true love for each other, and they decide that they will not marry in this life.
When I really grow up, I find that the long-term and stable happiness does not rely on blood and loneliness, and the people who truly love you will never bear to let you break with your closest family and fall into isolation.
I still remember an ancient Taiwan puppet "Fighting Fish", in which Bai Fumei Xiaoyanzi has a good family situation and education, and has a bright future planned for her by her parents, but she ran away with the little gangster Yu Hao for the so-called freedom and love.
Even in order to be with him, he did not hesitate to break off relations with his parents and gave up the opportunity to study abroad, but the entanglement for several years ended in tragedy.
This self-destructive so-called "love" is really shocking.
Perhaps in reality, it is not common to catch a horse like a TV series, but despite the opposition of the family, there are many girls who firmly believe that love is greater than the sky.
Mi Li's mother has a high school classmate, and when she married her husband more than ten years ago, her family never agreed, because the man not only had no house or car, but even needed to borrow money for the 50,000 bride price.
The reason why the girl's family does not agree is not that she is snobbish and loves the rich, but because the girl's family is relatively solid, her father is a university professor, and her mother is a retired cadre of a state-owned enterprise.
But what about boys, his father was not in good health and was always sick, so he never worked. The mother relied on setting up a stall and taking care of her father while providing the male protagonist to college.
Their family differences doom the run-in process between the two to be painful.
At a young age, the two have different living environments since childhood, and the living habits they have developed are also different, and at a large level, the way of thinking of the two people will be very different.
But the girl feels that love is greater than the sky, as long as the two individuals are good to each other, it doesn't matter if they borrow money to get married.
The family couldn't help her, so they had to agree, and who knew that her nightmare had also begun.
After getting married, my husband not only did not take a single cent of living expenses from the family, but hung up "if it weren't for marrying you" at every turn, asking her to take out her savings.
Even on the grounds that she needed to turn around in business, she forced her to find her mother's family to take money (note that she was taking, not borrowing), saying that she was all a family and would not help when she was in difficulty.
Her in-laws also often belittle her in front of outsiders, saying that other daughters-in-law will definitely not be like her.
She now regrets immensely, regretting that she did not listen to her parents, and regretting that she did not examine the other party's family properly before marrying in the first place.
She said: "Milk powder, diapers, everything is the cheapest, I can't afford the toys I want, I really feel sorry for the children." Coupled with the fact that I always quarrel with my husband and the family is not harmonious, let the children grow up in this environment, it is really better that they should not get married at that time! ”
It is said that daughters should be rich, but they only provide favorable conditions materially, help them pave the way, remove all obstacles, and may also raise their daughters into "stupid white sweets" who do not know the world.
Girls raised in this way, whether in the workplace or in the love field, are full of dangers.
Raising a daughter cannot just give her a rich and beautiful vacuum.
No matter what kind of family, let the child not talk about her own experience, at least understand the human suffering, know the real appearance of the world, and let her understand that the "Heart of the Virgin" cannot save the world.
Rice grain mother once read a story.
The founder of a pharmaceutical company left his lonely orphan on his deathbed and made a will to let his only daughter, Zhao Long, accept his equity.
But in 2017, while rummaging through the information, Zhao Long accidentally found that under the "operation" of the family lawyer entrusted by her father at that time, the beneficiary of this will was not her.
If this is an ordinary rich girl, not to mention the family business, even the daughter herself can gnaw the bone dregs left.
But Zhao Long is not a little flower in the greenhouse who was pampered and raised, and it can be seen from her name that her parents have high hopes for her.
She worked hard all the way, went to prestigious schools, studied law, and in the end, her efforts did not live up to her, and the law eventually became a weapon and reliance for her to defend her rights.
In order to regain actual control, Zhao Long decided to file a lawsuit with the Eastern Caribbean Supreme Court after reading a large number of legal texts.
After 4 years, she finally won the victory she belonged to.
This is not an isolated case.
Remember the story of Lin Shiling, the former "crown princess" of Samsung in South Korea, written by Mi Grain's mother?
She is also a wealthy South Korean chaebol from the deep-pocketed elephant group.
As a giant in the Korean food industry, Lin Shiling and the three-star prince can be described as a strong combination and a combination of pearls.
In fairy tales, the prince and princess have lived happily ever after, but in reality, the bloody plot has just begun.
Like all women who "enter a wealthy family as deep as the sea", although Lin Shiling herself is also from a wealthy family, she can't escape the fate of her husband and godson and see the face of her in-laws.
First of all, her mother-in-law forced her to drop out of school, her father-in-law had lung cancer, she had to accompany her throughout the process, go out to ask for instructions, and also serve her husband's life with low eyebrows, and she was scolded at every turn.
In the first half of her life, she was a little princess surrounded by nannies, married a wealthy family, and became a nanny herself...
What chilled her the most was that when her family business Elephant Group encountered difficulties, her father faced 20 years in prison, and the Li family did not pull her at all, but fell into the hole.
If you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore, this crown princess can't do it!
The divorced Lin Shiling was reborn and lived as the heroine of Shuangwen. Run the family business prosperously, have both children and daughters, and the Korean actor is in sweet love, it can't be more moisturizing!
If she can't stand on her own feet and still thinks about clinging to her wealthy in-laws, I'm afraid that what awaits her is depression.
So really, no matter what time it is, the first place to enrich your daughter is always to enrich the spirit.
Cultivate them to have the discernment to distinguish right from wrong, the sense of independence, the ability to control wealth, and the ability to see people's hearts.
Raising them to be resolute and intelligent, and girls who can stand on their own is more reliable than leaving them any gold and silver mountains.
With you.
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