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In his later years, why did Sima Yi dislike his wife, and where was Zhang Chunhua's "sin"?

Book of Jin: Empress Xuanmu Zhang, Xuan Chunhua, Hanoi Pinggao people also. Father Wang, Wei Su Yi Ling. Mother Hanoi Shan clan, Situ Taozhi from the zugu also. After rarely, he has virtue and is intellectually superior.

Sima Yi's wife, Zhang Chunhua, was born in a family of eunuchs, and his father was Wei Suyi Ling, who held the power of life and death in a county. Therefore, Zhang Chunhua's childhood can be regarded as rich, and therefore he has the opportunity to read. And this reading, the talent is not bad, by the neighbors one after another praised, for this history book feature "after rare virtue, intellectual knowledge."

Book of Jin: ... Emperor Shengjing, Emperor Wen, Wang Gan of Pingyuan, and Princess Nanyang.

In ancient times, "fertility" was used as a criterion for judging women's core values, and Zhang Chunhua performed very well in this regard, giving birth to Sima Shi, the Emperor of Jinjing, Sima Zhao, the Emperor of Jinwen, Sima Gan, the King of Pingyuan, and Princess Nanyang.

In Sima Yi's career, Zhang Chunhua also showed extraordinary calmness and decisiveness, not only the embroidered pillow that could only warm the husband's quilt, but also the left arm of the husband's officer, and truly achieved the husband singing with the woman.

"Jin Shu Xuan Emperor Ji": Han Jian'an six years, the county raised the ji tuan. Emperor Wu of Wei was a sikong and heard it, and the emperor knew that The Han Dynasty was weak, and did not want to bend the Cao clan, resigned to the wind, and could not live. Wei Wu sent people to the secret stab at night, and Emperor Jian lay still.

When Cao Cao was serving as Sikong, he wanted to ask Sima Yi to come out of the mountain as an official, and Sima Yi saw that the Han room had been emptied, and Sima Yi, who still had the heart of respecting Han in his heart, resolutely refused. Considering that to prevent Cao Cao from believing that he was "ignorant of good villains", Sima Yi thought of a bad trick - to pretend to be ill, or to pretend to be the kind of wind that he hated the most.

In terms of symptoms, rheumatism is the form of general paralysis, completely unable to walk on its own, and can only be bedridden. Faced with Sima Yi, who was suddenly paralyzed, Cao Cao did not believe it at first, and sent assassins late at night to pretend to assassinate, prompting Sima Yi to reveal his stuffing. But who ever thought that Sima Yi's personal psychological quality was good, and in the face of life and death, he was forced to remain motionless. In the end, Cao Cao could only believe it.

In his later years, why did Sima Yi dislike his wife, and where was Zhang Chunhua's "sin"?

"Book of Jin": Emperor Xuan first resigned wei Wu's order, entrusted himself with wind paralysis, tasted the violent book, encountered a rainstorm, and did not feel that he would reap it. Only one of the wives in the family saw it, but fearing that the matter would cause trouble, he killed him with his hands to extinguish his mouth, and personally carried out the task.

However, Sima Yi's action of pretending to be ill was not flawless, and he himself almost broke the big thing. One day, it suddenly rained heavily in the heavens, and Sima Yi, who loved books like his life, hurriedly got up to clean up, completely forgetting that he was paralyzed. And this scene was just seen by a maid.

Sima Yi was one of Cao Cao's key courtiers, and the entire Sima Mansion may be full of eyeliner. Sima Yi was paralyzed, but he was still able to walk freely and collect books on his own, and once it reached Cao Cao's ears, it was a "crime of deception".

Before Sima Yi could react, Zhang Chunhua was keenly aware of the difficulty of the situation and immediately decided to personally exterminate the maid. For the sake of her husband's life, Zhang Chunhua laid down her daughter's body and transformed into a demon in the male body.

Zhang Chunhua proved her love for Sima Yi with actions, and Sima Yi did not fail her, after which "the emperor is heavy".

In his later years, why did Sima Yi dislike his wife, and where was Zhang Chunhua's "sin"?

"Book of Jin": After that, Lady Bai had a favor, but later rarely saw it.

However, in his later years, especially after Sima Yi found the young and beautiful Lady Bai, Sima Yi began to distance himself from the original partner with all his strength, and Zhang Chunhua even looked at her husband, which seemed very difficult.

"Book of Jin": The emperor tasted the lying disease, and then went to the province to be sick. Emperor Yue: "Old things are abominable, why bother!" ”

What makes Zhang Chunhua even more desperate is that after learning that Sima Yi was bedridden again, Zhang Chunhua took the initiative to visit, and as a result, Sima Yi did not care about the insults of his hair - the old thing is really annoying.

Book of Jin: Hou Shu ([huì], hate; anger) does not eat, will commit suicide, and the sons will not eat.

After all, Zhang Chunhua is an official eunuch, after reading since childhood, her heart is her own pride, and she is so disgusted by her husband, Zhang Chunhua directly magnified the move, protested with the method of hunger strike, and still took her son and daughter. Zhang Chunhua tried to use everything he had to swear to Sima Yi and Lady Bai the sovereignty of his Sima family's mother.

"Book of Jin": The emperor was shocked and thanked, and then stopped. The emperor retreated and said to the people: "The old things are not enough to pity, worry about my good ears!"

Sima Yi faced Zhang Chunhua's death-destructive, did not argue, did not force Zhang Chunhua to retreat, but chose to apologize to end the dispute, but Sima Yi was still dissatisfied in his heart, and when he was outward, he still said with a look of disgust that his apology was for the sake of his children, and old things were not worth considering.

In his later years, why did Sima Yi dislike his wife, and where was Zhang Chunhua's "sin"?

In summary, it can be seen that Sima Yi has successively used old things to call his wife, and he does not shy away from disgusting Zhang Chunhua in front of outsiders. It is not difficult to speculate that Sima Yi really has no feelings for his wife.

As for why this happened, is it really all Sima Yi's fault? Is Sima Yi really weak and unrighteous?

From the nature of men, in fact, Zhang Chunhua, as a victim, also has done something inappropriate, that is, too strong. Zhang Chunhua faced her husband's scolding, and can suddenly pull her children together to force her to die, which shows that in daily life, Zhang Chunhua is also a strong woman like a wolf.

But men in the emotion, there are four major needs, namely to be respected, to be understood, to be recognized, to be adored, based on the needs, no matter how successful a man is, his consideration of his partner, most likely is also like a soft, sensible and virtuous woman.

However, like Zhang Chunhua, a female character who is forced by self-harm at every turn, it is often difficult to meet the four major needs of men, and if men are in this state for a long time, they fall in love with other women and the probability of alienating strong women is very high.

It is worth noting that female tenderness is not weakness, but to really understand the other half, and to talk and do things just right on the basis of taking into account his face. (That's what my family said.)

Finally, in his later years, why did Sima Yi hate his wife? I personally think this is the inevitable result of women being too aggressive.

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