If, by accident, there is an "extramarital affair", such a treatment will win

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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.

Roh Herrick said: "Fanatical love will never last. ”

Indeed, no matter how fanatical love is, it will eventually return to plainness, the more enthusiastic the surface, the easier it is to satisfy on the inside, and once the freshness is lost, the relationship will be indifferent.

Normal love is still like this, not to mention extramarital love, even if both parties love deeply, it is impossible to maintain it for a long time.

In reality, some men and women always think that they have found love and feel particularly passionate, but they forget that this kind of feeling that is not recognized by others can be called love?

A chance may bring a thrilling feeling, but it is not long-lasting and cannot stand the test.

Many men and women do not pay attention to proportion when interacting, resulting in many cases of unexpected extramarital affairs, which requires both parties to have correct cognition and do not fall into it.

In the beginning, this feeling will be very fanatical and sincere, but with the development of time, with the passage of feelings, one day it will face a state of coldness.

At that point, all the passions receded, the passions disappeared, and it may be the time when the relationship between the two sides collapsed.

Therefore, no matter what the reason for starting this relationship, even if two people accidentally have an intimate relationship, we must learn to solve it in time, and we must not let it develop, so as not to pay a painful price.

Therefore, if there is an unexpected "extramarital affair", such a treatment will win, and there are generally the following three methods:

First, romance is not true feelings, wake up in time

People, the most afraid is not sober, obviously know that it is a mistake, but they must be persistent, and they cannot retreat.

As the old saying goes, "You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep." ”

Those men and women who fall into extramarital love are not ignorant of this truth, but they blindly love, lose themselves, and become self-deceived.

They say it is love on the surface, but in their hearts they are very clear that this is not love at all, but they choose to be tacit.

After the relationship has developed deeply and there is an intimate relationship, they have begun to plan for themselves, how to retreat from the whole body, and then the best time has long been missed.

Once the relationship is revealed, it is followed by trouble, pain, entanglement, wandering, indifference, and ultimately a huge price.

Therefore, if two people with a family are in love, no matter how deeply they love each other, they cannot cling to it, and they must quit in time and wake up early.

If both parties pretend to be confused, or indulge in this kind of feeling and cannot extricate themselves, they will eventually affect their respective families and gain more than they lose.

Some feelings, accidents have occurred, there are still words, and perhaps they can still get forgiveness from their families, but they have not been willing to wake up, blindly falling into it, and they cannot be forgiven.

For men and women with families, both sides are adults, can not be too selfish, can not lose the responsibility of the body, if you are not sober, the last loss is a lifetime of happiness.

Therefore, for men and women who accidentally enter into extramarital love, we must have a clear understanding of this feeling, and the romance of the moment is really not true love and is not worth pestering.

Those things that seem to be beautiful may hide a lot of bad intentions, and in the end, there is no future for extramarital love, only to wake up in time and quit early, it is wise to do it.

Moreover, in the time to come, we must abide by our duties and adhere to loyalty, so that we will not make mistakes again and there will not be so many accidents.

Second, cut off contact with each other, and divide them thoroughly

In reality, when there is an unexpected relationship, men and women are people with families, and they certainly do not want to continue to entangle, then both sides must cut off contact, and the points must be thoroughly divided.

Any relationship, the most feared is entangled, if always broken, may not be able to block the relationship, will certainly bury a great hidden danger.

For married men and women, at this time, do not have a fluke mentality, once the relationship is not completely broken, it will eventually be exposed, and it will be too late to regret it.

Therefore, for unworthy feelings, we must be fierce, decisive, completely broken, and walk clean, which is the dignity that adults should have.

Men should not continue to disturb women, and women should not have illusions about men, since it is unrecognized love, there is no need to chase.

Therefore, the awareness of both sides is very important, and each side must not be entangled, not disturbed, and completely cut off contact, so as not to bring trouble.

An accident may not be deliberate, but many accidents, that is, deliberately, will never be forgiven.

In the final analysis, men and women must have the most basic understanding of extramarital love, and no matter how enthusiastic this feeling is, it cannot last forever, and one day it will fall apart.

The difference is that when the feelings germinate, the relationship is completely severed, and it will not bring trouble and impact to each other. If they are entangled with each other and immersed in them, they will end up with a tragic end.

At that time, you have lost too much to afford, why bother?

In this life, people do not seek great wealth and nobility, but ask for no shame, if you are ashamed of your family, ashamed of your partner, what qualifications do you have to talk about love again?

Born as a human being, at least have a conscience, but also more responsibility, adults must not be willful, otherwise, the end will be very tragic.

Third, let go of the past and shoulder the responsibilities of the family

Someone said, "The greatest wisdom in life is to let go." ”

Indeed, if you know how to put it down, you can go light and light, and you can manage your own happiness.

For people who accidentally fall into extramarital love, the most correct way is to let go of the past, say goodbye to the past completely, and not see it in this life.

You must know that no matter how beautiful the past is, it is just a romance of dew and joy, which is essentially just taking what you need, and it is not love after all, and it is not worth coveting.

At this time, letting go is the right way, abandoning everything in the past, you will be relieved, so that you will not be so distressed.

Some people, never the good people in your life, may just be a painful past, a passerby who may make you pay a terrible price.

Why should you covet such a person? Only by letting go can we find ourselves and let ourselves really grow.

Therefore, for men and women with families, if they fall in love unexpectedly, they need to wake up in time and put it down as soon as possible.

At this time, you must shoulder the responsibility of your body, run your family with your heart, and keep your happiness.

In the final analysis, the people around you are the people you really deserve to cherish, and the partner is the person who accompanies you to the old age, and it is the most important thing to be responsible for them.

For the rest of your life, put all your thoughts at home and strive to create the happiness of the family, which is the embodiment of responsibility and responsibility.

Both men and women must let go of the past, keep the happiness of the present with their hearts, maintain the feelings around them with their hearts, and cherish the people around them.

Perhaps, you think that the person in front of you is so incomprehensible, so unreasonable, and the life is so plain and trivial.

However, these are real, have a touchable texture, and will make you feel at ease and warmth.

If you indulge in the romance of extramarital affairs, wait until you re-experience these trivialities and blandness, you will be disappointed, because changing people will not be blue.

Ye Feifei yff emotional message:

Chen Daoming said: "Marriage will 'run away', but it mainly depends on whether you will put it into action and whether you have self-control. ”

Indeed, after any marriage has experienced blandness, it will run away from god, and only by adhering to the bottom line will there be no unexpected extramarital affairs.

Many times, true happiness, in fact, has never left, the talent around you is the person you really cherish, I hope that both men and women can understand.

To sum up, two men and women with a family are in love, you may wish to use these three methods to deal with, the heart will not hurt.

Men and women must understand that romance is not true love, wake up in time; cut off contact with each other, the division must be completely divided; let go of the past, shoulder the responsibility of the family.

Adults, at any time must be responsible, a moment of pleasure is romantic, but it is the wrong feeling, can not let go, there will be accidents.

Because, in all extramarital love, it is not possible to be happy with love, and if you lose your responsibility and moral bottom line, you will eventually get a tragic end.

I hope that men and women in reality, abide by loyalty, do not indulge in extramarital feelings, and keep the happiness within marriage, which is the real wisdom and pattern.

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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.