Diana's two beautiful mothers: her mother remarried and abandoned her, and her stepmother dared to love and hate Grace for a lifetime

It is said that parents are the best teachers for children, and the atmosphere and characteristics presented by the original family will often inadvertently shape the child's personality and even affect their life.

Although the late Princess Diana of England had excellent material conditions, the feelings between the original family members were far from complete happiness.

Her birth mother had been under the weight of "procreation" for years, and Diana and her sisters had fallen prey to that atmosphere.

After giving birth to a male heir, the birth mother left Diana when she was eight years old and re-formed a new family.

The new stepmother who joined the family was regarded as an "intruder" by the children, and the parent-child relationship was difficult to achieve harmony, and it could even be said that it was always bumpy.

However, no one expected that when Diana suffered a marriage change and her life fell into a low point, the blood-related birth mother did not give her any comfort, but the stepmother who was once regarded as an outsider gave her the most desired support.

Diana's birth mother was Francis Ruth, and her father was a baron, and she was married to John, the only son of the Spencer family.

Judging from the old photos of that year, Francis's facial features are soft and exquisite, the whole person looks elegant and sweet, and it seems that Diana's appearance also has a "gift" from her birth mother.

Although they seem to be a natural couple, diana's parents' married life has not continued to be happy and harmonious, and one of the major factors is the "heir cloud" hanging above their heads.

Diana's father, John Spencer, was the only one in the family for two generations, so soon after their marriage, the entire family was eager to give birth to a male heir.

But luck is often so elusive, and the more desperate you are to achieve something, the more difficult it is to achieve it overnight.

After the two married, they gave birth twice in succession, and the remaining children were daughters, and the man's family not only lacked love and warmth for Francis, who had been in a state of pregnancy and fertility for many years, but suspected that her physical function was wrong, and even forcibly sent her to undergo medical examination.

If according to the way of thinking of ordinary people, it is a matter of probability that they will not be able to give birth to a son, even if they want to check the body, they cannot only check the woman, which is too hurtful.

However, the Spencer family took this for granted, and even John Spencer, who was the husband, did not say a word, and completely stood by.

This incident caused a huge mental blow to Francis, and she began to realize that the marriage was not secure, and whether the man and his family really accepted her as a family member, or just as a reproductive machine?

Just when the feelings of the two sides were in jeopardy, the son who was late in coming was finally born. However, this son unfortunately had only ten hours of life and died shortly after birth.

By the time Diana was born, her parents' warmth for the family had almost fallen into the ice cellar.

Everyone waited for the newborn with the mentality of "this time it should be a healthy boy", and Diana's birth extinguished their hopes to the point that there was not even a hint of Mars left.

It wasn't until 1965, when Francis gave birth to his fifth child, that the Spencer family's coveted baby boy finally appeared.

With this child, she can really gain a foothold within the family, but the warmth and trust between husband and wife, within the family, have long been exhausted.

And diana, who was fashionable and young, has since become a child who grew up under the dual emotions of disappointment and neglect.

As an adult, Diana once gave an interview saying that when she was young, her parents did not talk about her tenderness or pay much attention, never said the word "love" to her daughter, and except for kissing the cheek, all other physical actions representing intimacy were underserved.

"No one loves me," Diana once said, "I am superfluous." "

Children who grow up in such a love-deprived environment are often prone to sensitivity, introversion, eagerness for love and recognition, and at the same time inevitably pleasing personality.

Some people may find it strange that her daughter's growing environment lacks warmth, can't her parents see it at all?

Although they finally gave birth to a male heir as they wished, john Spencer's relationship did not improve, but became more distant and cold.

For Francis, the birth of her son finally secured her status, but at the same time reminded her of the fact that she was a "reproductive tool."

The husband, John, actually had a different mind when his wife was under pressure and even emotionally unstable because of multiple births.

All of this finally broke out when Diana was about six years old.

At a party, Francis meets the mature and humorous Peter Shand Kidd, a businessman who is deeply interested in women and cares about women.

No one does not crave warmth and love, and Francis soon falls into this unexpected relationship.

As the gossip of the "Countess Affair" spread, her husband John became the object of secret ridicule. At the same time, he also met Renee, who was the wife of the husband at the time, and the intellectual intelligence and other advantages of this woman also fascinated him deeply.

Both parties are no longer nostalgic for this broken marriage, and at the same time they are indignant about the hurt they have suffered in their years of marriage. Coupled with the inevitable disputes over the division of property, child custody, etc. that must be experienced in the divorce process, the two completely turned against each other.

The lack of love at an early age and the subsequent breakdown of the family will inevitably have an impact on the growth of children.

At school, Diana and her brother were "different" from other classmates because in the context of the time, it was not particularly common for parents to divorce like them.

During her art class, Diana cried unconsciously, and the teachers and classmates all did not know, and finally found that each of her paintings was written with the words "Dedicated to Mommy and Daddy".

When she turned nine, her father sent her to boarding at a school farther away from home, which made her feel more and more "abandoned" in her heart.

In such a family atmosphere, the addition of "new member" Renee is not expected to be welcomed.

From the perspective of personality traits and personality style, stepmother Renee and Francis can be said to be two completely different kinds of women.

Unlike Francis's former resignation, Renee, who grew up under the meticulous upbringing of her printing master father and novelist mother, is full of confidence, dares to love and hate, and handles life problems very crisply and neatly.

Before meeting John Spencer, Renee was the Countess of Dartmouth.

She married the earl at the age of 19, and found that after the love faded, she did not bother much, but quickly left Dartmouth and fell into Spencer's arms.

After marriage, her activity and ability were also of great benefit to John Spencer.

Spencer is in a crisis of family property, and Renee fully supports and helps him solve his worries. She also creatively remodeled the old, gray castle, and even carved out less commonly used rooms for exhibition purposes.

These moves attracted a lot of popularity, but also added a lot to the impression of this ancient family in the public.

Two years after the marriage, Spencer unfortunately fell ill and suffered a stroke, and his physical condition was very bad. In this situation, Renee still gave her husband unparalleled patience and care.

Despite this, Renee still struggles to gain the approval and love of her children.

Stepmothers are difficult, which is probably a global guideline. Memories of motherhood are difficult to "replace" by another woman, and it is even easy to attract children's targeting and mischief.

Renee once received a book from Diana and several other children as Christmas gifts, and the book ended with the protagonist being beheaded. They had even pushed Renee down the stairs, and no one had even thought of inviting Her to Attend Diana's grand wedding.

Perhaps in the depths of Diana's heart, she has always been the little girl who longs for the warmth of the family, and Renee, of course, can never replace the position of her biological mother.

It wasn't until Diana and Charles's marriage was on the verge of rupture that she turned to her native family for warmth and support that she finally had the opportunity to re-understand the "stepmother."

In 1969, her birth mother, Francis, chose to divorce, relinquish custody of her four children and marry Peter, who was 11 years older, and the two traveled to Scotland to live in a low profile.

However, Francis, who had abandoned her family for love, turned to her daughter many years later, believing that her frequent search for a lover would lead to scandal.

In stark contrast is the "stepmother" Renee, who gives Diana what she really needs and tells her that others should live for themselves.

In contrast, Diana was finally able to face her stepmother with peace. Before her unfortunate death, her relationship with Renee was greatly relaxed, and the two got along like ordinary girlfriends, often shopping and eating together and spending time.

There are even gossip shows that Diana's rich second-generation boyfriend, Dody Feyd, was introduced to Diana by Renee through her own social network.

It is said that people living under the same roof, personality and way of thinking will more or less affect each other.

So, assuming that the relationship between Diana and Renee can be eased earlier, can it have some positive impact on Diana's life?

Of course, these can only stay at the level of assumptions.