In 1998, Wang Pengsheng successfully won custody of his daughter after divorcing his ex-wife.
In order for his daughter Wang Li to have a complete family life, Wang Pengsheng decided to marry for the second time.
Subsequently, Yuan Hua walked into their lives.
Wang Pengsheng originally thought that Yuan Hua would be a good mother.
However, what he did not expect was that in the following days, his life with his eldest daughter actually became suffocated.
Even when the eldest daughter lived in junior high school, the food fee was only 30 yuan.
Yuan Hua even shouted at Wang Pengsheng and his eldest daughter many times to drive the two of them out of the house.
What is it that makes this family gradually deteriorate? What is the contradiction between Yuan Hua and Wang Pengsheng's reorganized family?
The content of this issue will tell you the story behind Wang Pengsheng's second marriage.
01. Wang Pengsheng, who is married for the second time
In 1998, Yuan Hua originally had a good and sweet relationship.
Yuan Hua got an unprecedented experience in this relationship, and she gradually fell under the sweet attack of the object Li Xia.
Every time on a date, Li Xia would bring a bouquet of flowers, and even after the date, Li Xia watched Yuan Hua return home before leaving.
Every date, when Yuan Hua took the flowers handed by Li Xia, she became more and more determined in her heart to recognize Li Xia.
However, what she did not expect was that this Li Xia was actually just a liar, not only cheating his feelings, but also cheating his own money.
Before Li Xia disappeared, he also used the reason of working capital to defraud Yuan Hua of tens of thousands of yuan.
On a springy day, Yuan Hua picked up his mobile phone boredly, but found that his boyfriend had not heard a single message since the morning.
This made Yuan Hua feel very strange, in normal times, the two should be on the phone.
Today, however, there is not a single movement.
When Yuan Hua decided to call Li Xia, he heard "The user you dialed is busy, please dial later." ”
Yuan Hua listened to the busy voice on the other side, did not pay attention to it, she thought about calling Li Xia later.
However, one morning, Yuan Hua called over and got either the user was busy or could not be connected.
Even if Yuan Hua was stupid, he sensed that something was wrong.
After Yuan Hua returned home, he secretly dialed Li Xia's number with his parents' phone, but the results were the same.
At this time, Yuan Hua was completely confused, and even Yuan Hua's parents were confused.
Originally, Yuan Hua decided to introduce Li Xia to his parents in a few months, but now, Yuan Hua didn't even know where Li Xia was.
In the face of Li Xia's sudden disappearance, Yuan Hua had no way at all, at that time, Yuan Hua only knew about dating, and did not pay attention to Li Xia's personal information at all.
Yuan Hua knew only one piece of information, and that was the phone number that couldn't be called.
Yuan Hua did not want to face the reality at all, and when she gradually fell into this relationship, the other party regarded herself as a wronged head.
Although Yuan Hua was reluctant to accept Li Xia's departure, her parents hoped that she would be able to have a family of her own as soon as possible.
After Li Xia disappeared, Yuan Hua permanently closed the store he opened.
However, in order not to let her parents worry, she only has one requirement for the object of marriage, that is, as long as it is not too ugly.
In this way, Yuan Hua met Wang Pengsheng after the divorce.
Neither of them had any requirements for marriage, just wanted to have a complete home.
In the days just after they got married, the life of the two and their daughter Wang Li was indeed a happy and happy life.
However, when Wang Li entered the junior high school stage, everything changed dramatically.
02. Stepmother is also a mother
When Yuan Hua and Wang Pengsheng decided to marry, Wang Pengsheng confessed to Yuan Hua that he did not have the ability to support his family.
However, Yuan Hua did not care much about this, and even believed that Wang Pengsheng was too cautious.
However, after the marriage, Yuan Hua learned that Wang Pengsheng was not cautious, but honest.
The money he earned really couldn't support himself and his parents, and he could only barely support the three of them for a month.
Faced with this situation, Yuan Hua picked up his previous bad mood and regained his identity as a businessman.
Yuan Hua no longer set his sights on opening a store, but instead started the idea of an engineering contractor, commonly known as a contractor.
In those days, there were many new private enterprises, and there were also many chartered public charter wives, and being a contractor was indeed a smart choice.
However, for Yuan Hua, this job has great challenges.
In front of competitors, Yuan Hua, as a woman who has just entered the industry, quickly fell behind.
However, this dilemma is only a stepping stone to success for Yuan Hua.
Under the efforts of Yuan Hua, she quickly made a head in the contract foreman industry, and it is precisely because of her efforts that more workers choose to follow her.
Yuan Hua, who has achieved little success in his career, also has a certain position in the family.
However, she had a regret.
Before getting married, Wang Pengsheng once made a request to Yuan Hua, that is, Yuan Hua could not have his own children.
At first, Yuan Hua felt that there was nothing wrong with this, and even treated Wang Li as his own daughter.
However, as the marriage year grew, she also began to want her own biological children, and every time she saw Wang Li, the thought in her heart would become more violent.
Time passed quickly, and Wang Li had reached the stage of junior high school learning.
When Wang Li discussed the issue of food expenses with her parents, she got an extremely shocking result.
"30 yuan a month is enough, no more."
Yuan Hua already had her own careful thinking at that time, if she treated other people's children wholeheartedly, she felt that she could not draw it, not to mention, she would also have her own biological children in the future.
Wang Li was holding 30 yuan in her hand, and she knew that this 30 yuan alone could not solve the problem of food and clothing in school for 5 days.
However, when Wang Li secretly told her father about this incident, Wang Pengsheng only let Wang Li endure, for the harmony of this family.
Wang Li did not understand in her heart that yuan hua, as her stepmother, was normal not to be good to herself wholeheartedly, but her father also let himself swallow this grievance.
Wang Li had no choice but to go to school every week with 30 yuan, when she was just a 13-year-old child.
How many 13-year-old children are still in the love of their parents, growing up like delicate flowers, but Wang Li is like a semi-wild grass.
By the end of her first semester, Ms. Wang was already plagued by hunger, and at the age of 13 she began looking for summer jobs outside.
Despite the restrictions on child labor, In small towns, Wang Li still found a job that could subsidize her life.
What makes Wang Li feel fortunate is that all the wages she earns from her work are distributed by herself.
At the beginning of the first semester of junior high school, Wang Li relied on the salary saved during the holidays and no longer had an empty stomach.
Although Yuan Hua did not care much about Wang Li in terms of food expenses, in ordinary life, Yuan Hua was still a competent "mother".
However, this good times did not last long.
In 2007, Yuan Hua became pregnant, which means that she is about to have her own biological child.
In the same year, the youngest daughter Wang Qingqing was born.
The appearance of Wang Qingqing makes people happy and sad.
Yuan Hua and Wang Pengsheng were happy, but Wang Li had these two emotions.
As an older sister, Wang Li will naturally treat Qingqing as her own sister, and she seems to see her future.
Yuan Hua, who originally had some changes, will he still be wholeheartedly committed to himself in the future?
03. The stepmother is a strong woman
Wang Li, who has regarded Yuan Hua as her own biological mother since she was a child, has also fulfilled the role of a sister in front of Qingqing.
However, Wang Li's treatment at home plummeted.
From the only child in the family before, he became a transparent person who went unnoticed.
This gap made Wang Li unbearable, but she also had no way to change, whenever she saw the picture of Yuan Hua and Qingqing coexisting, she could not help but remember that the original picture also appeared on herself.
Two years after Qingqing's birth, Wang Pengsheng was laid off, and at this time, the family's financial resources were all on Yuan Hua's body.
Yuan Hua originally thought that after her husband was laid off, he would be more considerate of himself in life.
However, what Yuan Hua did not expect was that when he finished a day's work, he returned home and waited for him to be an endless chore.
What made Yuan Hua most angry was that Wang Pengsheng did not have any job anymore, and even Qingqing's birthday did not have any plans.
When Yuan Hua was out in a mess for competition, Wang Pengsheng urged her to hurry up and set up a hotel to celebrate her birthday.
Yuan Hua had no choice but to put down the work at hand, and after booking the hotel, he had no spare time to pay attention to Wang Pengsheng.
When Yuan Hua returned home from work, she was still sulking over her husband's inconsiderateness.
When Wang Pengsheng saw Yuan Hua coming home from work, he hurriedly asked Yuan Hua if he had managed the hotel' affairs, who could have imagined that Yuan Hua would ignore himself.
Wang Pengsheng followed Yuan Hua back to the room, and he called out to Yuan Hua a few times.
However, Yuan Hua still did not respond to Wang Pengsheng's question.
Wang Pengsheng, who did not get an answer, felt that his dignity had been trampled on several times, and with his previous dissatisfaction, he slapped Yuan Hua three times in a row.
At this moment, Yuan Hua was beaten by Wang Pengsheng's three slaps, and her brain was buzzing, and she turned around and picked up the slippers and threw them at Wang Pengsheng's hand.
But who would have thought that next, Wang Pengsheng actually made another punch in Yuan Hua's waist.
The reason why wang Pengsheng attacked Yuan Hua could not be simpler, just because Yuan Hua did not pay attention to himself, but he did not care at all about the reason why his wife was like this.
Yuan Hua, who is struggling outside, as long as he thinks of her husband who can only play with mobile phones, he feels angry, originally the man is the main person in charge of making money to support the family, to himself, not only to make money to support the family, but also to play the role of a nanny after returning home.
Even if Yuan Hua is a strong woman, she can't stand such a life.
04. The outbreak of contradictions
Wang Li has known the importance of a technique since she was a child, and after she really went out to social work, she chose the path of beauty.
Just this year, her mother Yuan Hua opened a physiotherapy center.
When Wang Li transformed from an apprentice to a beauty worker who could stand alone, she began to discuss something with her father.
Wang Li added a bed in the physiotherapy hall, and the other tools would be purchased by herself, just occupying a little place of her mother.
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However, the two did not inform Yuan Hua of their plan at all.
When Yuan Hua walked into the physiotherapy hall, he saw that the two working beds in his shop were pasted together, and there was a screen near the work bed.
Yuan Hua angrily bypassed the screen and saw that Wang Li was tattooing the guests' eyebrows, and she questioned Wang Li on the spot: "This is my shop, what are you doing?" ”
Wang Li heard her mother's questioning and protested quietly: "I told my father." ”
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However, Yuan Hua still complained mercilessly, this store was bought by her in full, and the house she lives in now is also bought with full payment, and she can completely drive Wang Pengsheng's parents out of the house.
When Wang Li heard this, she couldn't help but feel that there was a fire burning on her face, and since Qingqing was born, she had become someone else's child at home.
Whenever she received grievances, she could only endure, she herself felt that Yuan Hua, as her mother, would also support herself to do business in the physiotherapy hall.
However, Wang Li looked up to his position in Yuan Hua's heart.
When Yuan Hua faced Wang Pengsheng's questioning, she was not willing to fall into the inferior position, and the word divorce came out of her mouth.
However, Yuan Hua was reluctant to really divorce, and she knew in her heart that although she regarded Wang Li as her own child in the early days of marriage, she was not in her heart.
The stepmother is the stepmother after all, if Yuan Hua is really divorced, then Qingqing is not at ease with anyone, so the only one who maintains this marriage is Qingqing.
After this incident, the relationship between Yuan Hua and Wang Li went to a road of no return.
When Yuan Hua and Wang Pengsheng discussed Wang Li's dowry, the two sides obviously gave different answers.
Wang Pengsheng believes that Wang Lifu's family gave a dowry of 100,000 yuan plus a dowry of 100,000 yuan for his family, and a total of 200,000 Wang Li should be taken away.
However, Yuan Hua said that he was only willing to add tens of thousands of yuan, and Wang Li, who was 100,000 yuan, could take it all.
05. The true meaning of family
After watching Wang Li's new family life, I can't help but think, what is the meaning of home?
Did Yuan Hua treat Wang Li really badly?
In fact, if Yuan Hua is a cruel stepmother, then Wang Li can't take away a cent of the 100,000 dowry.
However, when Yuan Hua was in Wang Li's junior high school, he really treated her badly.
As a father, Wang Pengsheng offered to give his daughter a dowry of 200,000 yuan, but where did the money come from?
After Wang Pengsheng was laid off, the family's financial resources were all dependent on Yuan Hua, and even the house they lived in was bought by Yuan Hua in full.
If you think about it from another position, Yuan Hua asked Wang Pengsheng to take out 100,000 yuan for her and her ex-husband's children as a dowry, at that time, will Wang Pengsheng's attitude be the same as now?
Wang Pengsheng always felt that Yuan Hua was too strong, but Yuan Hua's career was to rely on strength, not to mention, from the beginning of marriage, Yuan Hua was more self-reliant, never asking Wang Pengsheng for money.
In fact, what Wang Pengsheng and Yuan Hua lack most is communication, to see how a family is, is not to see the feelings between husband and wife?
If there is not even the most basic communication between husband and wife, how can it be long?
There is a difficult scripture in the family, but this sutra can be seen through, but for some reason, it leads to worse results.
Blind tolerance and indulgence will not solve the problem.