Protect the healthy growth of minors! Wuxi's first family education order was issued

Modern Express News (reporter Zhu Whalen) "In accordance with the provisions of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education, you are ordered to go to the Wuxi Women's Federation for family education guidance at 8:30 a.m. on January 12, 2022. Recently, in the studio of Judge Damei of The Xinwu Court of Wuxi City, with the reading of Judge Damei (real name Gu Mei) to the parties to a dispute over the change of custody, the first family education order in Wuxi City was issued after the implementation of the Family Education Promotion Law of the People's Republic of China.

△ Wuxi's first family education order was issued Courtesy of the court

The issue of child custody is a contradiction

In June 2020, Zhang Cheng (pseudonym) and Wang Li (pseudonym) divorced, and the two sides agreed that their son Xiao Zhang would live with his mother, Wang Li. In August of the same year, the two sides agreed again that Zhang Cheng would support Xiao Zhang.

Wang Li originally thought that handing over the child to Zhang Chengdai could deepen contact and improve the relationship between the two sides. As a result, the child lived with Zhang Cheng, but his relationship with his ex-husband did not improve. Wang Li simply left Wuxi with Xiao Zhang, and did not have Zhang Cheng's consent before leaving, and she even sent excessive remarks to Zhang Cheng through WeChat many times.

And after leaving Wuxi, Wang Li did not send her children to school in time, depriving her children of their right to education, and her excessive remarks also caused certain psychological harm to the children. Wang Li's various behaviors made Zhang Cheng realize that she may not be suitable for raising children. As a father, Zhang Cheng sued the court and formally requested that Xiao Zhang be changed to be raised by himself.

During the lawsuit, Wang Li explained the matter: "Judge, what I said at that time was all angry words, and I have now realized my mistake and will not make it again. Also, about the child's reading, it was because I was suddenly walking at that time and a lot of things were not ready. Now that I've brought my kids back, they can go to school. "

Prepare a learning salon for guardians

On the basis of understanding the facts, in order to fully protect the rights and interests of the children and respect the children's choices, Judge Damei also had in-depth communication with Xiao Zhang. Facing the judge, Xiao Daniel Zhang dared to say: "Aunt Judge, I still want to be with my mother." "

In the end, under the auspices of the court, Wang Li and Zhang Cheng reached a mediation: it was determined that Xiao Zhang was raised by Wang Li. However, in response to Wang Li's inappropriate behavior in the early stage, according to relevant laws and regulations, the court issued a family education order to the guardian Wang Li.

Most mothers love their children, care about their children, and are willing to accompany their children to grow up together. But the first time you become a mother, it is inevitable that there will be times when you are at a loss. The child loves the mother as always, proving that you are only occasionally 'confused', in order to make you a strong and warm mother, we have prepared a 'wisdom parent' learning salon for you, looking forward to you to be inspired by it and create the warmest harbor for Xiao Zhang. "

The court made a ruling in accordance with law, requiring Wang Li to pay attention to Xiao Zhang's physical and psychological conditions, ensure That Xiao Zhang's legitimate right to education, and must not frequently change Xiao Zhang's study and living environment without legitimate reasons. Wang Li was asked not to use Xiao Zhang's health and safety as a threat to make inappropriate words and behaviors. At the same time, Wang Li was notified to go to the Wuxi Women's Federation at 8:30 a.m. on January 12, 2022 to receive family education guidance.

Changing "preaching" to "communicating"

Judge DaMei, the presiding judge of the case and "an advanced individual in safeguarding the rights and interests of women and children in the whole country," said: "The family is the first school in life, and parents are the first teachers of their children.

The Modern Express reporter learned that at present, Judge Damei Studio is also cooperating with the "Smart Parents" Salon of wuxi women's federation to combine family education and learning with the warm communication organized by the women's federation. The judge hopes to change "preaching" to "communication", and guide parents like Wang Li to learn to examine themselves, discover problems and correct mistakes through a more warm and down-to-earth way.

According to reports, in the future, the Xinwu Court of Wuxi City will continue to strengthen family trial work and juvenile trial work in the new era, and actively carry out social investigation, psychological counseling, family education, judicial aid, and other work according to the case situation, so as to provide legal guarantees for promoting the healthy growth and comprehensive development of minors.