Wen/Ge Lord
Original Emotional Beauty Series
Many people say that middle-aged women have seen too many love tragedies, have already seen through the essence of marriage, and will no longer easily believe in love.
But is this really the case? I don't think so. For middle-aged women, at this age, they are still single, for two reasons.
Either they were hurt by love when they were young, and took the initiative to shrink themselves into a ball, making it difficult to approach; or they were particularly cautious about love, holding an attitude of intransigence, waiting for the appearance of people who were related.
But in fact, whether it is the former or the latter, there are still illusions about feelings in the heart.
As it is said in Romantic Love: "What woman doesn't want to have an unforgettable love?" "It's just that too many times, I don't meet the right person.
So no matter at any age, a woman's vision of love is only increasing.
It's just that when women reach middle age, they will be very cautious about feelings, and they will not be as impulsive as when they were young, but they will appear a little afraid. Unless it is really moved, it will take the initiative to signal and hint.
Usually, middle-aged women who are intentionally caught by you will often send out three signals to hint at you, don't understand.
Allow you to cross the line verbally
In daily life, good communication will make people get rid of loneliness and can make people feel happy.
For two people who like each other, chatting is a bridge to bring each other closer, but for the unfamiliar opposite sex, women usually keep their distance, rarely chat with them, and will not allow each other to cross the line verbally.
And when a woman allows you to make some ambiguous jokes when you are chatting, and does not show discomfort, she will even jokingly reply: "This kind of joke can not be made" and "it is responsible to tell it"...
Seemingly rejecting, is actually a signal of intentional conquest by you, and the middle-aged woman accepts your ambiguous jokes, which means that she wants to go further with your relationship.
Allow you to physically cross the line
We all know that girls' attitudes towards feelings are reserved with a little subtlety, very measured in the intimate scale between men and women, and will consciously keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex.
Especially for middle-aged women, they are more afraid of being talked about.
Unless it is someone you really like, you will never give the other party a chance to get closer.
If a woman allows you to physically cross the line, such as shoulder to shoulder, arm, head touch, or even hug...
And in the first time, it did not stop your behavior immediately, which means that the woman is deliberately letting you succeed, is hinting at you, taking the initiative to signal, to persuade you not to be too straight.
Allow you to cross the line in the way you get along
When a woman reaches middle age, although she is old, her heart is not old, even if she sees the vicissitudes of the world, she still lives in her heart with a lovely princess.
Therefore, it will often be sentimental, and the heart is also very fragile, and it also needs someone to accompany and someone to talk to.
But she is also very clear that there are some things that no one can talk about, some things that can be made public, but more often, they don't want to be known.
Although women are very emotional when they are sad, the brain will remain rational. Especially for middle-aged women, they will not easily confide in others, especially friends of the opposite sex, and will be more cautious.
If a woman is willing to share her joys and sorrows with you, it shows that she trusts you, she knows that you will keep secrets for her, and at the same time can bring her comfort and provide emotional value.
The physical and verbal transgression is nothing, then the psychological transgression is enough to show her heart for you.
In fact, middle-aged women seem complicated, but in fact, they are simple. Once emotional, it will also be difficult to help yourself, will allow you to be ambiguous in speech, will allow you to make physical contact, and will allow you to cross the line psychologically.
A middle-aged woman who wants to develop a relationship with you will allow you to cross the line in three ways.