Many pregnant mothers are grumpy about the "opening of the bone seam" during childbirth, and feel that this situation must be a painful feeling. But when pregnant mothers are about to give birth, how painful is it to "open the bone seam"?
Steamed bun mother: When I opened the bone slit, that feeling was really very painful, the pain was so painful that I didn't think about the tea and rice, it was difficult to even sleep, and it was even difficult to sleep during that time, and I even felt that life was hopeless during that time, all with the belief that the baby was about to come.
When I was actually able to give birth, I felt like the whole person had died a hundred times and lived, and I really didn't want to have a baby at that time. However, when I see the innocence and cuteness of the baby after the smooth birth, I think it is all worth it.
Snow Rice Ma Ma: I really don't want to mention this matter again, and I feel uncomfortable when I mention this matter. At that time, when I was opening the bone slit, I felt like I was about to die, and at that time I felt that the whole world was not good, and even felt that I was really going to become Ah Piao.
At that time, I felt like I was being split, but after giving birth, this feeling was all gone, in exchange for a very pleasant feeling, especially when I saw the baby, I felt that even if it hurt again, it didn't matter, after all, I was able to survive.
Jue Jue and the mother queen of the ass pocket: When there is no bone slit, it is often possible to hear people say that the bone slit is particularly painful, and the pain is so great that it hurts to die and live.
But when I opened the bone seam, I didn't have a very strong feeling, and the birth of the child was also very smooth.
Now that I have given birth to my second child, both pregnancies and deliveries, neither of which is very difficult, it feels very smooth, and there is no particularly painful stage.
Why does it hurt for some people to open the bone seams, but some people are not so painful?
Opening the bone suture is a challenge for most pregnant mothers, and it is a very difficult part of the birth process. However, this is not to say that all pregnant mothers will die of pain and live.
According to each pregnant mother's different birth experience, different physique, different emotions, different degrees of health, different coping methods, etc., when opening the bone suture, the pain generated is also different.
Before, I watched a video on the Internet, a pregnant mother is walking on the street, and as a result, she accidentally gave birth to a child, and after the owner and family of the nearby auto repair factory saw it, they hurriedly sent a blanket to wrap the child and send it to the hospital, and finally the mother and child were safe, and everyone was happy.
From the monitoring, we can see that the pregnant mother's appearance is normal, and she can walk freely, so she can feel that her pain is not strong, and the whole delivery process can be said to be very fast, so the pregnant mother's birth of the child is basically not painful to die and live.
Of course, this situation is very uncommon, and most pregnant mothers are still more painful when they give birth.
Why does it hurt most people to open the bone seam?
The pain of opening the bone suture is actually related to the process of opening the bone suture. Opening the bone seam is actually the opening of the uterine opening, is a process of gradual opening and enlarging of the uterine opening, in the initial time, the uterine opening is generally only about one centimeter in size, and it takes about eight hours to open the uterine opening to 3 centimeters during childbirth, from three males to ten centimeters it takes about four hours, and when the uterine opening is opened to ten centimeters, it can begin to give birth.
Hold the 1 cm opening open to 10 cm, how much do you say it hurts?
This pain also has a strong radiation, pregnant mothers will feel their abdomen, waist, back, sacrum, etc. are pain one after another, and some pregnant mothers will also radiate to the whole body.
However, when the pregnant mother died of pain and came back to life, the fetus was not idle.
What is the fetus doing when the pregnant mother opens the bone suture? Knowing the answer, it feels heartwarming
In the beginning, the fetus has begun to participate in the operation of opening the bone slit. The fetus will gradually move downward with the onset of contractions, thus reaching the pelvic stage.
After that, the fetus did not stop, but continued to move downward with the contractions, gradually came to the cervical position, and began to help the pregnant mother open the uterine opening together.
As the saying goes, "mother and child are connected to the heart, and their profits are broken", this process needs to be completed by the mother and the fetus together, and finally, when the bone seam is opened to 10 centimeters, it is time for the baby to prepare to come.
When giving birth, the mother should pay attention to these problems and have a collection in need
It was hard to open the bone slit, and the pregnant mother must make this pain worth it. Therefore, in the process of childbirth, you also need to pay attention to some problems, so that the baby can be born smoothly, rather than because of some of their own wrong practices that lead to a prolonged delivery time or produce a difficult birth.
So, what problems do women need to pay attention to when giving birth?
In fact, there is only one reason, that is, to follow the doctor's instructions, to use force, and to believe in the doctor. Here, there are two main mistakes that women often make, namely shouting during childbirth and making the wrong effort.
Don't shout: After many women go to the delivery link, there may be some yelling situations due to emotional reasons, but this situation is completely unhelpful to childbirth. Shouting can lead to breathing disturbances, biased breathing rhythms, tension and fatigue, and sympathetic nervousness, making the delivery process more difficult.
Don't be blind: when giving birth, how to exert force is a science and the most critical factor in the delivery process. The situations in which pregnant women often use force blindly include, but are not limited to: excessive force when the pain comes, holding the breath hard, using the face hard, and exerting force when the pain is not coming.
As for how to use force, the mother must listen to the doctor's command, the doctor can more accurately grasp the timing of the force, so that the baby can be born smoothly.
Parenting message
Opening the bone seam is indeed a very sinful thing, but if the pregnant mother thinks of the pain she has experienced, she will feel endlessly relieved that she can finally exchange it for a healthy and cute baby. All this pain, at that moment, seemed to have completely disappeared.
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