Regret having a baby? There is no such thing, every day I feel that being a mother is worth it

After becoming a mother, I found that all my weaknesses were children. Which moment makes you feel that the hard work is worth it?

Let's listen to the story of the mother @dengli85 of the Lilac Mother Planet.

First of all, I originally didn't like children, before I got married, I had to take a detour when I saw children, and when I was crying when I saw children crying, I covered my ears and trotted away. I don't like it, or I'm afraid to take responsibility for facing a whole new life. And I really hate bear kids! It drives me crazy to the point where I want to get started.

But what I didn't expect was that when I accidentally had a baby, she was so "angelic" in all aspects.

Angels from pregnancy to birth

My husband and I are far away, and I didn't think about having a baby, but the little angel still appeared unexpectedly. How many angels, is pregnant obstetric examination once, do not vomit no nausea, eat chicken king brush American drama, want to sleep closed eyes until dawn.

After being born, in addition to eating, I love to sleep. I like that too. Life is so tired, we sleep together. Babies who can eat and sleep without being picky are tall.

Language Angels

When the language input is enough, it is output. After learning to speak, children will say "Mom, I love you so much", "I miss you so much", "I like you so much". I can talk about various emotional guides, and every day I can feel that I love me wholeheartedly.

Now in kindergarten, the first thing I say when I open my eyes every day is "Mom, I love you too much", and I wrap my arms around my neck tightly, feeling so satisfied.

Angels of Action

When I was more than 2 years old, my baby would pour me water and drink it. Lately, there have been many meetings at home, and every time I finish muting, she will run up to me and ask, "Mom, do you want to drink water?" I'll pour you water to drink." If it was daytime she would ask me, "Mom, do you need coffee?" When buying vegetables, he said that he wanted to buy me peppers (Sichuan people are not spicy and happy), and when he went out to play in the mountains to pick vegetables on the farm and eat outside, he would remember to pick peppers for his mother to eat. I think she is the one who loves me the most in this world besides my dog. whole-heartedly.

Share angels

Some time ago, Dalian cherry just came down, more than a hundred pounds, really can't get off the hand. Wa said she wanted to eat, I bought a few, spent 50 yuan, and then counted, 10! 5 bucks a piece. A few cherries were washed and poor Baba stayed in the basket. I asked the baby to eat, she gave me the first one, and then she greeted me to eat while eating, and I said Mom eats oranges, you eat. When there were 2 left, Eva forcibly stuffed 1 more. Although I didn't say it was expensive, I was very satisfied that she was willing to share her small and favorite food with me.

Be considerate of angels who take care of others

In January this year, due to the epidemic, only me and her and the dog were locked up at home, and I was too tired to stare at the group every day to grab vegetables, do nucleic acid, cook and clean. Then one day it was particularly uncomfortable, dizzy and nauseous, I couldn't stand after eating for her in the morning, I explained that she played by herself, and her mother was uncomfortable to take a break, she quietly played with blocks, track models, etc. next to her, alone quietly. When I was sleeping dazed, she went to the toilet and came back to get a small quilt to cover me (in fact, there was a heating in the house that was not cold), and I fell asleep and did not respond. Later, when my father sent her a video at noon, I was woken up to find that I was covered with a quilt and heard her telling my father that my mother was uncomfortable and asleep. After reading the first sentence when I woke up, I asked, "Mom, are you still uncomfortable?" Want to drink water?" I was happy and sad at that moment. The happy thing is that she cares about me and loves me, and the sad thing is that she has grown up so fast! I'm afraid to separate from her too quickly.....

Reasonable little angels

I'm a logical and sane mom, so my communication with her has always been guided, and I've found that she's receptive to this pattern, with almost 99% of the good engagements.

Last year, she just turned 2 years old and wanted to play with water and sand, and the old mother did not say a word to drive to Shandong, clearly remembering that she bought lollipops on the road, because she had already eaten one, her father said that he had to go to the beach to eat, while playing with water while eating lollipops. She literally walked around with a lollipop for two days. I didn't ask for a lollipop along the way, so I thought I was going to the beach to eat it.

In daily life, too, it is agreed to play for 10 minutes to take a shower, and when it is time, you can go to the toilet by yourself and start undressing. Go out to buy something and say that you can only buy a snack, never want much, no matter how much you like it, you will only choose the same. The same goes for blind boxes. On the contrary, I sometimes can't help but buy several..... So I have never experienced the trouble of throwing around and not going to buy things and not going home. It's so angelic. Writing I felt like I had a Versailles smile

After having a baby

Every day is worth it

Too many surprises and emotions in life are given to me by the cubs. When I was a child, I patiently taught my children the emotions that lacked guidance, and the feeling was also a process of self-redemption and healing. I don't want children to have the same screw-up personality as I do. Speaking of this to praise dad, I have a strong and twisted personality, and I am afraid of not saying a word, but my father cares for me as always. Although most of the time it seems to be very dog-legged, but I know that he is doing his best to take care of me, and I am satisfied. So the baby video will also say that I love dad and miss you.....

With the baby, I still don't understand and don't like bear children, but I can accept the behavior and play of most children. Science guides the care of children to make us have a better and healthier parent-child relationship, I feel worth it every day after I became a mother, and I am very grateful to the daughter of the angel to come to me. Mom will always be your strong backing and love you!