When getting married, women will always care about how much the bride price is given by the man, and always ask the man to give how much the bride price, because this can prove how much the man loves himself.
And we always hear women choose to break up before marriage because they are dissatisfied with the bride price, but we rarely hear of men asking women for dowry, and even less do we hear men choose to quit marriage before marriage because women have too few dowries.
Do men not say that the problem of women marrying is because they don't care? Or is it that I actually care in my heart, but I am embarrassed to express it?
I remember watching such a video some time ago, the content is a man and a woman to discuss marriage, the woman asked the man for a part of the bride price, the man felt a lot, so the two people had a discussion, and finally finalized a number that everyone can accept.
Then the man began to ask the woman how much to marry, will not return the gift, the woman said that it should not, and then the man said that according to the custom, there should be a dowry, there is a gift, your family can not only receive the bride price, do not give the dowry bar, the two people because of this time quarreled, and finally the man compromised, saying that there is no need to marry, but also use the gift, this matter is counted as an end.
So when men get married, do they really care whether women have a dowry? And will it be said? Let's hear what these men have to say.
Mr. Wei, of course, cared, but was embarrassed to say it
I am concerned about the matter of women's dowry anyway, to know that when a woman wants a bride price, it is not ambiguous at all, since I can promise her to give her the bride price that should be given, women feel that the bride price given by men is more sincere.
So why can't men think that women have a dowry and are sincere? Besides, I don't want much dowry, nor do I have a clear price, but women should also bring some dowry to show sincerity, otherwise they can't say it. It's just that sometimes it's not good to say it because of the face, and it seems that it seems that you are a bit cheap.
Mr. Liu, I care, and I think a woman's dowry should be equivalent to a bride price
Don't I think we're all shouting about equality between men and women now? Isn't it true that men and women should be the same? So since a woman can ask a man for a high dowry, then why can't a man ask a woman to marry, and you must know that some men marry and put all their savings into it, so why should they be sent to the woman's home in vain?
Women not only have to give the dowry, but also to be equated with the bride price, so that it is the real equality between men and women, besides, the dowry brought by the woman still belongs to the husband and wife in the end, if there is no dowry, the bride price is also left in the woman's home, then the husband and wife two people want to drink the northwest wind after marriage?
Mr. Tree, don't care, it was my pleasure to marry my wife
When my wife and I got married, my wife did not give a dowry, the family conditions of our two families were similar, when I got married, my wife only needed a little bride price to be too burdened, and when my wife married, she did not bring a dowry, and I did not think about the matter of dowry.
It is already my honor to have such a good wife, there is no need to marry at all, my wife is the best dowry.
In fact, looking down, I think that men do not care about the dowry or related to the bride price, and also related to women, those who are willing to think about men, do not want so colorful gifts, and finally are also understood by men, do not care about dowry, those who care about dowry, are also because the bride price that women want is too high, so they want women to marry.
Therefore, when getting married, women should not ask men for too high a bride price, combined with the actual situation of men, although women can not say no bride price, but also can not ask for a price.
As for how much the dowry and dowry should be given, it is necessary for the two people to discuss it themselves, but I hope that these will not hurt your feelings and marriage.