There was a boy under the age of three in the former landlord's family who did not eat every day at dinner as long as there was nothing on the table that he liked to eat. His mother would lash out at him every time, and the scolding continued for a long time. The boy seems to be used to it, no matter how his mother scolds him and begs him, he does not cry or make trouble, that is, he does not eat.
At a glance, others know that they don't blame the children for this, and the family is spoiled by themselves. He was honest after a few meals of hunger, and he was not hungry anyway. Of course, no one dares to say this idea, after all, it is people's baby knots.
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There are two cousins in the hometown, one is an only child, and the other is the older sister in the brother-sister combination. Every time the family dinner, the grandparents often praise the sister for not being picky eaters, and the only daughter is picky eaters. The praised sister had never seen joy, but had only silently bowed her head to eat; the only daughter who had been counted down was dismissive of this and still went her own way.
Needless to say, the only daughter eats and wears according to her preferences; the sister is different, the conditions at home are not bad, but she lives like a beggar, dressed shabbily, pale, and malnourished for many years.
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To tell the truth, there are indeed people who are not picky eaters, and they can eat everything they can; some people who come from a bitter background are not too picky eaters, but that is because people have no choice, and when he has the conditions, you see how he chooses; most people will have their own favorite foods.
Some people eat out or go to other people's homes as guests, in order to take care of the feelings of most people, they will not show their "picky eating" side, which is a good cultivation. If this is still the case with his family at home, it can be somewhat indicative that the family has not trusted him, and no one cares what he likes to eat or what he does not like.
Some people have ordinary economic conditions, and each meal is only three or four dishes. If the tastes of the family are not the same, the cooker will only meet the tastes of one or two people in order to avoid trouble or to please and take care of someone else, and the others can only do it.
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Don't say that everything is a family, what you want to eat can be said directly, can the family still do it? It is an indisputable fact that people in the same family are also in a high or low position, some people are flattered and taken care of, and some people are ignored or even mean. Economically independent people can also go out to buy and eat, and people without financial ability, especially children, in addition to patience or patience.
Only those who are favored will have no fear, and those who are not favored have fought for their rights and interests at the beginning, but most of the time they end in failure, and over time they understand that the dispute will be in vain, and they will not argue.
A post I saw on the Internet a long time ago: A mother accused her child of being picky eaters and not eating in front of outsiders. The child retorted: Every time you cook, you only make your own favorite food, I don't like to eat, I say I am picky eater, are you not willing to eat?
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In general, many people will accuse this child of not understanding things, if this child is still an only child, it will be scolded even more fiercely: this child is too ignorant, love to eat is definitely not nutritious, parents are picked, they are reluctant to eat to him.
No matter whether his choice is correct or not, does this child dare to confront his parents?
Some people think that praising a person who is not picky eaters is praising others, but sometimes the people who are praised are really helpless and sad, and no one knows why he is not picky eaters, and no one cares.
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Some parents have good intentions, not to love their children, but to correct their children's bad habits, such as not allowing picky eating often to avoid malnutrition of children.
Some parents have a particularly strong desire to control, what children eat, wear, and play is up to them, even if the children grow up, they cannot have their own preferences, unless this preference is what they agree with.
Some parents really don't care about this child, there are a few parents in the world who are not biased, this matter has no solution, and they can only think that they are unlucky when they encounter it.