Someone said, "Love doesn't know the end, it passes away suddenly." ”
In fact, this is not the case, and the extinction of dependent arising and extinction is actually a sign.
And these can't be hidden.
It's just that many times, people are used to self-deception.
Think that as long as you pretend to be stupid, you can keep each other.
As everyone knows, people who don't love you have eaten the scales and want to leave with an iron heart.
Even if he doesn't say anything on his lips, his attitude towards you is obvious.
Such a love that is obtained by seeking perfection by bending over backwards cannot last at all.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, there will be these 3 signs before the end of the fate, don't be foolish not to know.
Not tolerant, trivial matters are also calculated
I've seen a sentence like this:
"Men and women get along day and night, if they can't be honest with each other and tolerate each other, how can they withstand the grind of time?"
Deeply.
Inclusion is synonymous with love.
Each person has his own growth environment, creating his or her own temper and disposition.
Two different people living together, there will always be some friction.
These are the norms between couples, and people who love you will make concessions for love and know how to tolerate and accept.
In front of him, you can eat meat in large bites, you can also be plain, and he will not feel that there is anything wrong with this.
But once he doesn't love you anymore, those innocuous little flaws will be infinitely magnified, or even made out of nothing.
He used to think you were cute when you gulped down meat, but now he hates you for not being elegant and not Sven.
He used to think that you were also very good-looking, but now he hates that you don't know how to dress yourself.
But obviously before, these small shortcomings of yours were all advantages in his eyes;
Now that he doesn't love, it has become his reason and excuse for rejecting you.
At this time, you should be vigilant, he may really not love.
But any man who loves you will not worry about you in these small things.
Unwillingness to communicate, even quarrels have become luxury
I have seen such a sentence before, and I don't understand it:
"Be sure to cherish the man who is willing to argue with you."
Once lost, it can never be found again. ”
Later, after experiencing some things, I gradually understood that this sentence really made sense.
A person is also willing to argue with you, indicating that he still has feelings for you.
And once a person is too lazy to argue with you, then he really has no feelings for you.
Because you don't care, so no matter how you cry in front of him, no matter how you shout at him;
He won't give you any reaction at all, it's like a farce on your own.
And he became the one who watched the play.
When there is a contradiction between two people, do not communicate, do not repair,
Then, in the end, the fate of the two people is already fragmented and cannot be repaired.
After all, communication is crucial to a relationship.
Once there is no communication between two people, it is not far from the dispersal field.
If the feelings between you have become like this, then forget it.
Love does not rely on the support of one person to go on.
Love that goes in both directions makes sense.
Once the other person is unwilling to communicate with you, no matter how hard you try, it is useless.
Because his insincere was already obvious.
At this time, stop foolishly making excuses for the other party to deceive yourself.
Refuse to have physical contact with you
Baby Anne said:
"As I grow older, I wish I could have what remained of the faith,
It's just that when you wake up in the morning, you patiently listen to my gossip and give me a quiet and long hug. ”
For those who love each other, hugging is an earthly reward.
When you are full of exhaustion, he hugs you, which can make you instantly full of blood and resurrection, full of energy;
When you are sad and unhappy, as long as he hugs you, you will not feel so sad.
His embrace, full of strength, can give you a full sense of security.
But, all of a sudden, he began to refuse physical contact with you.
Don't let you hold him anymore, you think he's tired or in a bad mood.
He didn't take it seriously, and even tried his best to enlighten him, hoping that he would be happy.
It wasn't until he instinctively avoided physical contact with you that you realized where he was tired and where he was in a bad mood.
He really doesn't want to have physical contact with you.
At this time, you should be sober.
He really doesn't love you anymore.
Everyone is an adult, and some things really don't have to be too blunt.
His attitude toward you says it all.
Two people together, there will be the above three signs, it is time to be vigilant.
Miyazaki said:
"There are people you have to let go, not because you don't care, but because they don't."
You're good and worth it, and you're bound to meet someone who really loves you and cares about you.