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Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

Author |" Pan Mubai"

Header |" Anthracene - Suzhou"

Speaking of ancient talents and beauties, we can't help but think of Xiao Shi and NongYu, Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun, Lu You and Tang Wan, as well as Su Dongpo and Chaoyun.

Su Dongpo had three partners in his lifetime, namely His wife Wang Fu, the successor Wang Yanzhi, and the concubine Wang Chaoyun. Su Dongpo was sincere with them.

As a great talent, Su Dongpo is naturally indispensable to the configuration of the bean fan sister. Su Dongpo and their stories, from time to time on a hot search, dominate the screen headlines, to meet the wishes of Po fans to be a melon eating masses. But Po Xian is Po Xian in the end, he is not an amorous prince, leaving incense everywhere.

Su Dongpo's fan sister, written in the notes of the ancients, or in the current biographical masterpieces, whether it is obsessed with love or trapped by love, it makes people feel a lot and deeply moving. It's just that there is only one Suzhou woman, we don't know her name, but she is Su Dongpo's Zhangmen beauty and confidant in life.

Her "parting" with Su Dongpo is lingering and mournful, and the mourning is low, which makes people sigh and sad, and asks people not to be a taste in their hearts. Su Dongpo wrote only a few love poems in his life, all of which are related to his life partner. There are many farewell poems, almost all of which are gifts to relatives and friends. It is rare to give away other women, and there should be only one Zhangmen beauty.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye
Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

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The Song Dynasty Wang Shu included the story of a Fan Girl of Dongpo in his "Wild Guest Series". It is said that a woman surnamed Wen in Huizhou, sixteen years old, has always refused to marry, because he greatly appreciates Su Dongpo's talent. It also happened that Su Dongpo was degraded to Huizhou, how unbearable the fate was, but the little Wen girl was ecstatic, as if she had picked up a treasure, and everyone said: "This son-in-law is also." ”

Because he admired him to the extreme, Xiao Wen climbed over the wall to listen to him chant poetry under the window of Su Dongpo, and wandered outside the window refusing to leave. Su Dongpo felt that there was someone outside the window, and when he pushed the window to see, Xiao Wen climbed over the wall and left. Later, after Su Dongpo knew the thoughts of The Little Wen girl, he said to her: "I am ready to find a good husband for you and achieve a beautiful marriage." ”

Immediately afterward, Su Dongpo was degraded again and left Huizhou, and the matter was so settled. Po Xian owes the girl a husband!

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye
Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

@Anthracene-Suzhou ▲

The story of Su Dongpo and his fan sister is most widely spread in a section of him and Qin Cao. This story takes place during Su Dongpo's second appearance in Hangzhou. Su Dongpo and Qincao first met, and Qincao played a song for Dongpo, which according to the Buddhist seal present at the time, was "rare to hear in a hundred years".

Later, Su Dongpo redeemed himself for Qincao, and Qincao also moved his heart for Su Dongpo. But Su Dongpo already had Chaoyun, and it was one thing for him to appreciate the piano exercises, and as for the concubines, he had never thought about it at all, he was not an obsessive prodigal son.

In the Song Ren's notebook "The Record of Being Able to Change the Fast", Su Dongpo and Qin Cao toured the West Lake and had a dialogue about the Zen machine. Because of this dialogue, there is an allusion to "Qin cao sanzong". Su Dongpo took advantage of the Zen machine to express his intention to refuse, and Qin Cao suddenly realized that he was not long after, he cut his hair as a nunnery in a small nunnery in Linglong Mountain. On weekdays, I study Buddhism, write down my experience, and send it to Su Dongpo in Hangzhou City.

Eight years after Ju Linglong Mountain, when he heard Dao Qian say that Su Dongpo had been relegated to Hainan, the land of "death penalty", Qin Cao was suddenly dazed and his mood was weak. She knew what it meant for Su Dongpo to be degraded to Hainan this time. I am not afraid that the ends of the world will not see anyone, and I am afraid that there will be no Su Dongpo in the world.

All kinds of worries, worries, a thousand kinds of worries, lingering nostalgia, within a few months, the piano exercises were depressed, when they were only twenty-four years old.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

@Anthracene-Suzhou ▲

And the encounter between this lady and Su Dongpo, but there is no historical poetry to pass on to future generations. We can't see the moving picture of the beautiful person meeting the great talent he admires, is it the talented child "the horse proudly steps on the flowers, the whip blows straight to the five cloud car", and she "smiles at the beaded foil, remotely pointing out that the Red Chamber is a concubine"? Obviously not, but she wished she could show her love boldly.

Nature is not in the garden of "Zi Yan Red Open Everywhere", "Yuan Qing Silk Blowing idle garden, swaying spring like a line", or the small red pavilion, in the shadow of green poplars. But she must be longing for the same as the talented beauty in literary works, "Once the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless victories in the world", and Su Dongpo has the most beautiful and moving opening.

But they met at a banquet. There is no poetry, no touching adventures. After seeing Su Dongpo, she sang and danced with her, just to make him drink. We can imagine that her song is "just like the sound of the warbler", and her dance, "a thousand yuanna, all beautiful, like a weeping willow before the evening wind".

She's a singer.

Her first encounter with Su Dongpo, there is no story, no legend, even if because of Su Dongpo, she left a mark in history, but it is only a slight lan, not into the eyes of the world. But for her, meeting Su Dongpo was the terrifying waves of her life. Since then, before the weeping willows in the evening wind, it is the most difficult to complain.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye
Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

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In March of the seventh year of Xi Ning (1074), she met Su Dongpo for the first time. She is a singer in the Wangyun Pavilion in Zhangmen, and she may feel great satisfaction in being in the official pavilion, because she has the opportunity to meet Su Dongpo.

Su Dongpo came to Suzhou for the second time, and perhaps she began to be grateful to Wang Zhizhou's father in Suzhou, because Wang Zhi's father's warm hospitality to Su Dongpo gave her the opportunity to see Su Dongpo again.

Don't start looking forward to it, just look forward to October. Su Dongpo came, the wine was drunk, and the song was strong, but the news that Su Dongpo was going to transfer to Mizhou (present-day Zhucheng, Shandong) came out of his mouth, and immediately made her fall into the ice cellar. Then he panicked and did not know when Su Dongpo would meet again after this trip. She pondered in her heart, guessing bitterly. It's really sad - two or three times when you meet, and there are thousands of strands of sorrow.

She still couldn't help but ask if she could get together again, and when she asked this question, what did Su Dongpo see her like? Su Dongpo used the phrase "its color is miserable" in the small preface to the gift words given to her later, which shows how deeply she was in love at that time.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

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Wang Zhi's father must have been touched by this move of hers, and he praised it one after another, so he told Su Dongpo to write a lyric. So there is this one:

"Nguyen Lang Gui"

Three times a year through sutai, Kiyotaru is open.

The beauty asked each other bitterly, this did not come back.

The love is not over, the old first urge. Life is really good.

He was a peach Li A who planted, Liu Lang's sideburns declined.

The upper piece of the word tells Su Dongpo that he came to Su three times this year, and Wang Zhifu set up a feast each time. This time, because they were going to Mizhou, the beautiful people listened to it and bitterly guessed when they would be able to get together again, and couldn't help but ask each other sadly.

The three words of "bitter guessing" portray the inner activities of this beautiful person into three points. Because he heard that Su Dongpo was going to Mizhou, he knew that it would be more difficult to get together from now on, and his heart was inevitably miserable, and the more bitter he was, the more unwilling he was, and he could not avoid speculating about the opportunity to get together. The word "bitter" sees affection, so it can be "guessed" from "bitter"; the word "guess" is seen in the heart, so the more "guess" the more "bitter".

Su Dongpo mentioned in the small preface of the word that the beauty at this time was "miserable", which was a direct reaction to this "bitterness" and "guessing".

In the next piece of the word, in the face of "beautiful people asking each other and guessing bitterly", Su Dongpo can't help but sigh with emotions, and the love affair with the beauty is not exhausted, but time urges people to grow old, and can't help but sigh that life is full of too much helplessness. Finally, Liu Yuxi's poem "The peach trees in the Xuandu Temple, all of which are planted after Liu Lang goes", indicating that this farewell does not know the return date, even if he can return one day, I am afraid that he has already white sideburns.

Carefully tasting, the beauty of the "asking each other bitterly guessing", mournful and poignant, the taste is timeless. Su Dongpo's gift, friendship is sincere, there is pity, there is also a sigh of loneliness.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye
Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

@Anthracene-Suzhou ▲

Parting from sorrow is the most heart-wrenching. A few days later, Su Dongpo was going to leave for Suzhou and go to Mizhou.

The encounter has not entered the eyes of the world, but the difference is shocking to the world. The lady of the gate came to send off Su Dongpo, this "parting", the love is as deep as the sea, the soft intestines are an inch of sorrow, and the amazing heart. Su Dongpo wrote another poem to give:

"Drunken and Lost, Suzhou Zhangmen Farewell"

When will the mountain be decided?

The old and the new nobles are not good, but the beautiful people are as kind as a farewell.

Leaving the pavilion to go to the song to swallow, Xiao Xiao drizzle cool blowing cheeks.

Teardrops do not use the scarf, play on the shirt, the picture said when seeing.

The gist of the word is that I have an old face, white hair, and A plan to return to my hometown, but I don't know when it will come true. Old friends and new friends have broken off contact, only you are attentive to send me off. Long pavilion farewell, you want to sing another song for me, open the mouth before the song is miserable, only the cold rain blows on the cheeks with the cool wind. Don't wipe your tears with a handkerchief, just let it sprinkle all over your clothes, and when we meet again, it will be the proof of our acquaintance.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye
Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

@Anthracene-Suzhou ▲

When the beauty was saying goodbye, why did Su Dongpo mention his old age, and then said that he had always planned to return to his hometown, and cut off the news with his old friends and new friends?

The beautiful person's farewell, the true feelings, deeply touched Su Dongpo's inner world. Su Dongpo thought that he had always had the dream of returning to the countryside, but now he still had to continue to run for the so-called great future, just as he later said, "Life is like a reverse journey, I am also a pedestrian", it is impossible to stop, so the heart is both old and old, but also a little bitter and helpless. As for the "old and new nobles and books", it is not a reality, but a contrast in the state of mind to the beauty's "attentive farewell" out of true feelings. No matter the old or the new upstart, at that moment, it is not as considerate and intimate as this beautiful person. Su Dongpo regards the beauty as his confidant in life.

Therefore, the word "attentive" is simply a stroke of God, which exhausts the deep affection of the lady of The Gate, is gentle in technique, and sincere and deep in expression.

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

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Generally speaking, the pen parting is nothing more than a "love" word, in the expression, either directly lyrical chest, let people have a sense of miserable and tragic affection, or bend the wonderful pen, borrowing scenery to express the gentle thoughts.

For example, the Qing Dynasty Naran Sex De's "One Is Different, Falling Pear Blossom Moon and West", the front writes love, "red tears are hanging, full of spring breeze and Pepsi", and finally the scenery ends, with the scenery lining the feelings, reading to taste endlessly, it is really infinite parting sorrow can not be said.

For example, Wu Wenying's "Where to synthesize sorrow." Departing from people's hearts in autumn", the sorrow of parting will be skillfully analyzed, and then said that "basho does not rain and flutters" "The weather is cool in the evening, there is a bright moon, afraid of going upstairs", the most helpless to say goodbye to worries.

Su Dongpo's parting pen on "courtesy" is unexpected and wonderful. A love, if modified by courtesy, has the meaning of flattery, and the love of flattery is mostly hurtful to oneself and is sad.

However, Su Dongpo's use of "courtesy" here does not make people feel that the beauty has the meaning of "pleasing", on the contrary, it is inexplicably touching.

They met only three times, one encounter, two acquaintances, and three separations.

The rest of the time, only a glass of wine remains, a song that sings endless acacia, and a look at the weeping willow in front of the evening wind. She knew, that's why her farewell was so "attentive."

Because of his affection, so attentive, Su Dongpo and The Lady of Zhangmen were shocked to say goodbye

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Think about the word "courtesy", it is indeed used to surprise and have just the right meaning, first, it is a straightforward expression, but it is gentle to express the deep affection of the beauty, and second, this word can see that Su Dongpo understands the heart of the beauty best. The most beautiful love in the world is a word of "understanding".

Therefore, when the beauty did not sing first, Su Dongpo felt that "Xiao Xiao drizzled and cooled the cheeks", seeing the teardrop bomb of the beauty, he could say such a thoughtful word, why should the tears be wiped, played in the Luo shirt, and left to see each other later is the proof. The journey is long, destined to drift, when tears are spilled to part, I hope that there will be a period later, Su Dongpo is comforting the beauty, but also comforting himself.

The "parting" between the Chamon Lady and Su Dongpo does not complain about the death, and does not see the grievances. Two of them, one is attentive because he is affectionate, and the other is compassionate because he understands. This parting is really lingering, deeply touching, making people feel irrepressible and uneasy...

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