There is a girl who loves a man who does not love her, pays a lot for the other party, but is never treated kindly, and finally she is completely dead hearted and decides to give up.
So she asked me: Will a man regret it later if he misses a woman who is good to him? This is a particularly heart-wrenching question, and everyone's answer is different.
In my experience, the answer is no. Because to be good to a person, it is not what you give him, but to see what the other person needs? So this kind of goodness of yours is not the same as being good in the eyes of men.
Many women will question themselves again and again after breaking up, will men regret giving up on themselves?
In fact, I hope that men regret it, which means that the woman herself has not put it down, if the man will regret it, he will not treat you badly in the first place.
I think the woman who asks this question is wrong. Why do I say that?
First, obsess over a man who doesn't love you.
Second, after not being cherished, it is not possible to stop the loss in time.
So you say missed you and he'll regret it? He won't, because he'll miss you, which means he never had a heart for you at the time.
I think after a breakup, whether you will regret it depends on these two points:
First, are you more beautiful than before, whether there is a better opposite sex around him than him, are you richer than before, but you will not regret your kindness.
Second, he is not happy after leaving you, and he has not met a better girl than you, if he meets a bad girl after breaking up, he will naturally think of you.
The reason why men don't value a woman who is good to him is that he feels he deserves something better.
When you were with him, you gave him all the tenderness, all the love, and he began to swell, and in his heart he never thought that it was because you loved him that you would be good to him.
After the loss, the man will occasionally remember that you once gave him love, such as taking care of him when he was sick, helping him clean up, and so on.
And what makes a man remember is the woman he has been moved, especially the woman who has spent money to pursue hard, but has not gotten, which is the woman he can't forget the most.
People sometimes like to compete with themselves, and when you are let down, you will doubt yourself for a long time, have to compete with your ex, and affirm your value with him that he will regret.
In fact, not to love is not to love, just like the line in the story of the movie McDougall, "Originally there are some things that are not there, no is not ok, no fish balls, no rough noodles." We all understand these simple truths, but we still can't get past our own hurdles.
In the presence of someone who doesn't love you, all you do, including being nice to him, is in vain.
Many times we toss and turn, secretly competing, not because of old feelings, but because of the pain of the untreated self.
In a relationship, in the face of a woman's departure, if the man appears to regret it. It shows that this man once loved this woman, because they loved each other, so many memories and experiences will become particularly precious in the future days.
Therefore, women should know that the moment most men take the initiative to let go, there is no love in their hearts, then there is no regret, and men who really do not love will not fall into pain, but will only not interfere with each other and be okay with each other.
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