If there is any domestic drama worth recommending in April, it is the reality of "Dear Child".
On the night of the launch of the central eighth channel, the drama set a rating record and won the first place in the same period of drama.
By the evening of the 15th, the ratings had only increased, firmly holding the top position in the national ratings list.
Speaking of which, this drama is the second real-life drama of this year after "The World of Man".
However, some people say that the reason why this drama has such a big hit is not how well-made it is, but the naked trafficking anxiety that has aroused national attention.
In the end, whether this drama has sold anxiety and friends who do not want to see it in person, can be judged by the following points, whether it makes you feel rejected.
Before "Dear Child" was not broadcast, it was originally thought to be a suspense drama, because the production team of the drama came from the domestic network drama "The Hidden Corner" that exploded two years ago.
After reading it, I found that the ambition of the producer was not small, and it was intended to create the second "Hidden Corner" in the realistic theme.
The drama tells the story of the male and female protagonists Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo, the divorced parents, after reorganizing the family, in order to save their daughter who is suffering from leukemia, what kind of choices should be made.
But today I will only talk about the most controversial part, that is, whether the opening man and woman are facing the reality of marriage and parenting, and whether it is enough to make the audience feel anxious?
The opening scene is the big scene of giving birth to a child, and the heroine works hard to completely separate the child in her belly from herself.
I saw that the heroine was plain and straight, her face was covered with melasma, and her skin was yellow.
She is in a good period of female age, but I see an unsightly haggard look on her face.
Unlike the twinkling fertility scenes of other dramas, this drama uses a large number of shots at the beginning to show the difficult process of female fertility.
The big belly woman screamed madly, and the green tendons burst out, making the women watching the drama across the screen feel empathy.
Immediately after giving birth to the child, the heroine did not see her husband for the first time.
It turned out that the other party was busy taking the placenta to give to the mother-in-law, and the other party was anxious to eat for the second son to supplement the body.
The placenta this thing can be said to be as fresh as possible, the heroine's husband is entrusted by the mother-in-law, does not dare to be sloppy, signs and takes it and leaves.
Just this one detail makes people feel real in an instant.
Because in real life, there is no drama that describes having a child as simple as that.
Eating placenta to supplement the body sounds so ridiculous, but it is real.
After the heroine gives birth to the child, the family members are generally concerned about the arrival of the newborn, thus ignoring the mother itself, which is even more important.
In addition, from the play, you can also see several details where the heroine has been ignored.
After giving birth, the heroine faces the embarrassing dilemma of incontinence and wearing adult diapers.
The heroine of her own cleanliness really dislikes herself every minute, and she is also worried that her husband will dislike her.
In fact, this is just a normal postpartum physiological phenomenon, and the heroine can relax her heart.
However, when the heroine is trying to let go, the husband has gone from verbally not abandoning to helping deal with the mess, but showing a disgusted expression and frequently washing his hands.
After the heroine returned home from the hospital, she still did not get key care during the nursing period, and the whole family still circled around the child.
No one noticed that in the remote corner of the house, the heroine was leaning over, trying to reach the water cup at the head of the bed.
In addition to the neglect of the heroine, the plot of the old man with the baby also overlaps with real life.
The male mother-in-law helped to go out to take the baby for a walk, but she played cards in the middle of the way, so she ignored the child next to her.
The child accidentally slid down the slope of the stroller and fell to the ground.
If it is not discovered in time, it may cause greater disasters.
As a result, new mothers are prone to postpartum depression when their families are not understood as postpartum difficulties.
The heroine of the play is so inclined, and the personality before pregnancy is itself a strong and grumpy type.
After pregnancy, due to excessive attention to children, and the different patterns of family and individuals with babies, they became more anxious.
Every time a husband and wife quarrel over the problem of children, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fight, and it will always make the family chickens and dogs restless.
From the above, it can be found that these are all the real details of the portrayal of marriage and fertility that are rare in the previous domestic life dramas.
Another point has to be mentioned that the bridge section of the husband and wife room in the play is also extremely realistic.
The female protagonist was emotionally nervous and anxious after giving birth, and put all her energy on the child, and did not see the male protagonist who was also ignored.
Until the child is one year old, the heroine is still very resistant to living a conjugal life.
At first, the male protagonist understood that the reason why the daughter-in-law's personality was getting worse and worse was nothing more than a complex problem between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and he simply did not bother to go home to act as a mediator.
As a result, because of this, his relationship with the heroine tended to be strange, and he did not hold back, and in the case of drunkenness, he had a relationship with a girl.
It seems that the male protagonist's cheating is the fuse of the marriage between the two.
In fact, even if the male protagonist is not out of line, this marriage has reached the point of fragility, and it is only a matter of time before it collapses.
Now, watching the classic passages of the first few episodes of "Dear Kids", do you feel anxious?
In fact, on the contrary, all the details depict the real situation in real life, especially suitable for young people to see the essence of marriage and parenting.
Unlike love, marriage and child-rearing are full of hardships, and you need to be prepared to have the courage to face unknown difficulties.
People who do not have responsibility, cannot bear the pressure of life, and lack a sense of responsibility for the family should not try to enter into marriage, otherwise they will definitely harm the family.
However, in the current situation of such a low fertility rate in the mainland, this "Dear Child" will inevitably make people feel disgusted and anxious.
We are under enough pressure, and we have seen too many marriages in our lives, so that we are afraid of marriage and do not want to have children.
But in fact, there are also a very small number of parts in real life that are doing well, and it can only be said that the majority obeys the minority, which is the inevitable choice in life.
In fact, if you chase down "Dear Child" completely, you will find that the drama is purely a warning.
That is to say, it advocates that if we can't find the heart and the person in charge, it is indeed better to live alone.
And in the marriage that will be settled, the woman is the biggest victim.
After watching this drama, do you feel empathy for this? Is there an increase in sentiment towards marriage fear? Or do you think that a happy marriage is about choosing someone, not just escaping?