Presumably, pregnant mothers have heard a lot of statements about childbirth, especially in the process of labor, "while pulling and giving birth", many pregnant women's first reaction is to feel very embarrassed. After all, in such a torturous moment, there is still such a show, doctors and nurses still have to deal with this unexpected situation, and some pregnant women say that they want to find a hole to drill into.
In fact, there are indeed many embarrassing things during labor, but "pulling while giving birth" is definitely not the most embarrassing, and there is one thing that is actually more embarrassing, and some doctors feel that they cannot look directly.
01 During the labor process, the mother felt embarrassed and the doctor could not look at it directly
Ms. Lin is relatively timid and shy by nature, and on the day of giving birth, she was afraid of the situation of "pulling and giving birth" during labor, so she defecated in advance. I thought there was no problem, but when it came time to prepare the skin, I was still embarrassed for a while.
This is not a big deal, the real embarrassment is that after entering the second stage of labor, during the delivery process, the doctor in charge of delivery needs to observe the situation under the mother from time to time, for fear of difficult labor or tearing. But Ms. Lin feels very embarrassed, especially every time the doctor stares at it, she will feel very nervous, the whole process is "twisted and pinched", every time the doctor looks, she is still in the state of strength, may be relaxed, can't help but want to escape.
Doctors have been reminded many times, but people's psychology is so, once they start to care, and nervous, it is difficult to adjust the mentality in a short period of time, the doctor can not lose his temper, afraid of making Ms. Lin's mood more chaotic, but seeing Ms. Lin's grinding style, it is really helpless, as a doctor, it is really impossible to look directly at this irrational mother, after all, this is taking the safety of themselves and the fetus at risk.
02 How risky is "twisting and pinching" during labor?
Many women are difficult to let go during the delivery process, and they will feel embarrassed when the birth doctor is a woman, let alone meet a male doctor, and they will only feel more embarrassed.
Of course, the performance of the mother in the face of these situations is not intentional, mostly due to the influence of psychological factors, under the influence of nervous psychology, the body will unconsciously resist and reject, so in the face of this part of the mother, most doctors can show understanding and give comfort, otherwise the impatient emotions will make them more nervous.
If you show "twisting" because of tension during labor, it will actually increase the risk in many ways. The first is that for the mother, the mother may not be able to exert labor force because of tension, which will lengthen the labor time and may aggravate the pain. Because people are more sensitive to pain in stressful situations, the pain of childbirth will be more serious than normal, and under the "negative cycle", the mother will be more nervous, increasing the probability of dystocia.
For the fetus, if the time of labor is extended, then the risk of hypoxia and suffocation in the birth canal is also very large, and it is likely that the birth canal will be squeezed too much because of the excessive tension of the mother, resulting in certain risks such as fractures.
03 How should pregnant women adjust their mindset?
The first thing that should be noted is that pregnant women should pay more attention to the adjustment of mentality during pregnancy, usually relax the mentality, if there are problems such as depression during pregnancy, then it also has a greater impact on childbirth. At the same time, during pregnancy, we must also learn more about the relevant knowledge of childbirth, after all, some women are nervous during labor because of the fear of the unknown, if you can understand the specific situation, then it will not be so nervous.
Secondly, when it comes to childbirth, if the mother wants to be less nervous, then try to learn to divert attention, because only by shifting the attention to how to give birth or how to give birth to the baby quickly, or how to breathe and exert force correctly, then the attention will naturally not stay on the pain or embarrassment, so it will not be so nervous.
Finally, pregnant women should also ensure a good sleep schedule in the third trimester, because the quality of sleep has become better, the body's hormone balance will be more stable, and the mental state will be better, so that it will not be so nervous when giving birth. In addition, you can also put a little effort into the diet, and you can also eat some chocolate during childbirth, which can not only replenish physical strength, but also help relieve uneasy emotions.
Of course, the family members should also give comfort, encouragement and support to the mothers, which will also alleviate their nervous and uneasy emotions. Conversely, if they sit idly by or have no one to accompany them, they will feel more nervous and afraid.
Conclusion: I also hope that women can adjust their emotions as much as possible, reduce the chance of embarrassing situations during labor, ensure the safe birth of newborns, and make themselves less guilty during the whole process.