A plot in South Korea restores the whole process of a mother-to-be giving birth. Every time you give birth, a new mother feels differently. After watching this plot, it really feels like you are still you before giving birth to a child. However, in the process of having children, you have changed from a human being to an animal, and you have lost the basic dignity and shame of being a human being.
The first stage of labour: shame.
In the first phase, the girl had just been hospitalized and was waiting to give birth. While waiting for production, make some preparations for prenatal work. For example, enemas. The plot says that the girl needs to endure for 10 minutes before going to the toilet. However, the girl simply couldn't stand it. In less than 10 minutes, I ran to the toilet. The girl was also particularly worried, asking the nurse, if she did not endure 10 minutes, would she pull it out when giving birth? As a result, the nurse replied unceremoniously: Possibly.
Originally, the girl thought it was a very shy thing. As a result, the nurse did not pay any attention to it, with a strange expression. The nurse said: Next we are ready to shave.
Girls feel that they have been "stabbed and cut", and they feel very humiliated. Unexpectedly, in the next 6 hours of childbirth, the girl experienced that humiliation is a very luxurious feeling for a pregnant woman.
Second stage of labour: the animal stage.
The second stage of labor has entered a period of labor pain, the kind of pain that opens the finger, who experiences who knows. The Internet says that the pain of opening the finger is like breaking a bone. Where is it that simple? If it is broken at once, it is also the most painful. However, the pain of the open finger is persistent and irregular. At this time, I really have to give in to the pain. At this time, it is also the most regrettable, regretting to have a child.
Many people recommend that at this stage, the "Ramazer breathing method" be used, inspiring for 3 seconds and exhaling for 8 seconds. However, if it really hurts, it really doesn't work.
The most important thing is still "internal diagnosis". What male doctor is not at all what you need to consider? Pain really makes you give up your dignity as a human being compared to humiliation.
Third stage of labour: the painless kingdom of heaven.
4 hours before delivery, if the beating is painless, you will actually have a period of comfort. It was as if I had gone through hellish torment and entered heaven. At this stage, you can read books, chase dramas, and reply to greetings from friends. The gentle, sweet girl is back.
However, this comfort will not last long. Because, soon, you will enter the fourth stage of labor. At this stage, don't feel how fast. Because, when you can't wait for a second in pain, you will hear the phrase "I'll see my child in an hour." This "one hour" makes you feel hopeless.
Fourth stage of labor: the frenzied party period.
This process is a great migration of animals. Because, you have to use your whole body to bear the pain. The comfort of painlessness has long since disappeared. And, everybody will tell you to work hard. As a first-born mother, I don't know what "hard work" means.
Contractions are like a feeling of stool oppression, but many new mothers are habitually tolerant. However, the doctor tells you to work hard, as hard as you stool. This "hard" process, you may have to adapt and find a feeling for a long time. Because, you will find, you will not be born.
In the process of exertion, it is commonly known as "unloading". It's not so painful, you may have exhausted all your strength and it has no effect. When you don't have any strength, you will also hear a sound of urging "hard"! "Do it again"!
The most touching thing is that you hear a cry. At that moment, you feel like you're finally relaxed. But is that the end of it? No, because you will find that the child you have worked so hard to give birth to is particularly ugly!
This short film, though, is a bit of an exaggeration. However, it is also a restoration. In fact, being a mother is really not great at all. And moms, not superhuman, they are really helpless and hard, have to take on their roles.