To Brown said: "The silent melody played by Eros is far more pleasant than the sound of an instrument. ”
After the god of eros descends on a person, it will make a great change in the person, whether it is personality, habits, or the mentality of love will change a lot. Moreover, these changes are often invisible, and even in the beginning, even the owner is difficult to detect, and is changed little by little by Eros.
When the opposite sex gets along, once a woman has a good feeling for a man, or feels some unusual changes in men, the woman's heart often wonders whether the other party also has a good feeling for her, or whether these behaviors are because of a crush on her.
However, some women do not know how to distinguish men's minds, and it is easy to be deceived by some deliberate behaviors of men. If a woman only knows how to look at the things on the man's surface, it is like sweet talk, or often invite her to dinner, buy her gifts, and finally it is easy to let her own sincerity pay the wrong person.
Women should understand a truth, if a man is really in love with you, it will be manifested in a lot of involuntary things, maybe those are just some details, but it is enough to see the man's mind. It's not something that a man can control, or something that seems to be good to you.
Emerson once said, "In the end, love is a reflection of one's self-worth in others." ”
A person who loves you will definitely worry about you and think of you in his heart. This love will affect a man's emotions, change a man's habits, and even make a man do something out of control and make him become no longer like him.
Knowing this, women should understand that a man who truly loves you will appear in these four manifestations, which cannot be pretended.
01 When he sees that you are having a good time with other members of the opposite sex, he will be emotionally disturbed and inexplicably angry with you.
As long as you have loved someone in your heart, such feelings will often be experienced. When we see each other getting along with other people of the opposite sex, our hearts will be very uncomfortable, even if they are simply chatting, it is difficult for us to accept. Especially when we see each other talking happily with others, we will be inexplicably angry, we will become very angry, and even deliberately say something that is not very nice.
In our impression, we tend to think that men are very atmospheric and will not be angry about a little thing. But in the matter of love, in fact, men are the same, and they can't stand the women they like to get along with other people of the opposite sex very happily.
As long as a man truly loves a woman in his heart, when he sees a woman with other members of the opposite sex, his heart will naturally be angry, and his emotions will easily become very abnormal. Women see a man behave like this, don't think he's angry because he just loves you and cares about you.
02 When you encounter difficulties, instead of blindly comforting you with words, you will take the initiative to help you.
Swedenborg said: "Love exists in the desire to give, and regards the pleasure of the lover as one's own." ”
Men fall in love with a person, they will use their own strength to help women and escort women. Even if it is just some simple behavior, just to help women, to make women feel happy, men will be willing to do it.
In life, we will often see such men, when they are ambiguous with a woman, hear that the other party has encountered difficulties, will give each other a lot of comfort, will say some beautiful words, but they will not have any practical action at all. Such a man is not really sincere with women, but just wants to use these superficial goodness to confuse women's hearts.
Men who really love you must not only say nice things, but also do things that will help you. When he knows that you are in trouble, he may not say too many words of comfort, but he will try to help you and try to solve those troubles for you.
03 When you are sad and painful, they will accompany you silently and will not take advantage of the danger of others.
In fact, in life, we can often see that some lovers are not together for a long time, for others it is still a hot love period, but for them it has reached the point of breaking up. This situation occurs because their love process is very confused, and they did not think about it at the beginning and rushed together.
If a man does not love a woman and just wants to play with feelings, he will not consider the woman's feelings, but only knows how to care about his own thoughts. When women are sad and sad, they will show their goodness and let women mistakenly think that they are sincere, thus starting a relationship.
In such a situation, women must understand that a man who will only take advantage of people's dangers will not be serious about you. When they get tired, they will just leave in a dashing manner and will not think about your feelings. Only the man who truly loves you will be reluctant to hurt you when you are most vulnerable, and want to protect you well.
The state of love is what Shakespeare said: "Love is a smoke blown by a sigh; there is its purified Mars in the eyes of a lover; the tears of a lover are the waves it stirs up." It is also the most intelligent madness, the bitter taste of choking throats, the honey that cannot be eaten by the mouth. ”
Men who truly love you will definitely care about you from the heart, protect you, and consider your feelings. When getting along with you, maybe he won't say nice things or use some confusing routines, but in front of you, he will definitely appear these performances, which cannot be pretended.