In real life, people have a common characteristic, in the face of love, never be able to maintain a clear mind, in the face of people they like, there will be a kind of confusion, do not know whether the other party really loves themselves, or is really worth cherishing.
Because of this, many people often make mistakes, always work hard for people who are not worthy, and even lose the best self, thinking that the other party treats themselves wholeheartedly, in fact, it is just an illusion.
Whether a person is worth cherishing, whether it is worth your efforts, in fact, many times you already have a clear answer in your heart, after all, the way the other party loves you, the feeling that you bring to you often determines everything.
People who like you will always use various ways to hurt you, to love you, to give you the most desired sense of security and happiness, and a person who does not like you, for your attitude and way of loving you naturally has a "no matter" characteristic.
What kind of people should be cherished, what kind of people should be deleted earlier, break the relationship, if you still don't understand, or have been immersed in the ocean of love can not extricate themselves, then may wish to come to see such a person who likes you, just delete it as soon as possible!
01, always ask you "do you want to, like it or not" or "do you want it"
I have received many private messages from readers saying that I don't know why, and I always like to say the opposite in front of the object, such as when my boyfriend asks: "Do you want a birthday present?" The answer is always no.
There is such a person in love, very sensible, and always do empathetic thinking, always thinking about the person he likes, such as the other party wants to buy him a gift, will think a lot, considering the other party's economic tension will say: "As long as you and me, it is my biggest gift."
Such people are actually the most cherished, after all, knowing how to understand, understand, and not to give up is also the most precious thing in a relationship, some people say that they are stupid, in fact, just because they have not met the right person.
Of course, some people will say that the boyfriend always likes to say whether to say yes or no, like it or not, can it be, etc. A series of rhetorical questions, if the answer is affirmative, it will appear that they are somewhat material and realistic, but if they deny, they only want to receive gifts from the people they like, which is actually not material, but a manifestation of happiness and security.
It will also make people feel a kind of hypocrisy, this kind of love is actually easy to make people misunderstand, but also easy to make people not understand, can only say that a person who likes you, will not always ask you back, what you want, in fact, will not hesitate to give it to you, but will not always ask your opinion.
When the other party is always a person who likes to ask you opinions and does not know how to take the initiative, you should consider whether there is a problem with the relationship between you, think about how the other party behaves towards you, or the reason for the other party's personality.
02, people who say they love you, but have no actual action
We often say that "practice is the only criterion for testing truth", which is enough to illustrate the importance of action, and the same is true in love, many times not just lip service, but to express their love for a certain person through action.
I don't know if you are experiencing such a thing today, the person you like always says I love you every day, I miss you, or I want to see you, want to hold you, etc., but it is always just lip service, so that people have to feel a perfunctory love.
Sometimes two people who are obviously very close to each other have unconsciously become the "long-distance love" on the lips of others, and they can see the people they want to see in ten minutes, but they always just say that they are busy and have no time, in fact, it is just that the action is inconsistent with what is said on the lips.
People who like you will never just say that they want to see you, without a little action, to know that there are many people who like you, and the people you like may still be innumerable, but in the end there is only one person who can accompany you throughout your life.
Like a person is actionable, if only lip service, there is never anything substantive, then it is better to think about whether the other party really loves you, whether it is really worth cherishing you, if it is just hypocrisy, then delete it earlier!
03, always give you "big pie" people
Nowadays, there is a network term "painting the big cake" circulating on the Internet, the so-called big cake is actually very simple, that is, a person who likes you on the surface will never be down-to-earth to live with you in front of you, but will always give you to say what happens later, giving people the feeling that there is not enough security.
In the past, we may think that a person who really likes you will take the initiative to talk to you about the future, and will also take the initiative to plan your love life with each other, which has produced a lot of planning ideas, and in today's era, this is actually a kind of "painting a big pie".
In fact, love is very simple, sometimes we always think of it very complicated, two people simply together, living the life they want to live, love the people they want to love, in fact, it is also a kind of love happiness.
When your object is always planning your future, but never considering your current emotional state, such an object is actually the embodiment of a big pie, only care about the future, and everything in front of you is always not put into your own eyes, such an object, you should also consider whether it is really worth cherishing.
Love is a very beautiful thing, but many people have lost that yearning for love because of the frustration of love, and they will also think that love is dispensable for themselves, etc., but no matter what, when you really start a relationship, you should know how to love well, how to really manage the feelings between you.
Whether a person loves you or not is worth cherishing is actually obvious, after all, the other party's attitude towards another person depends entirely on whether he really likes this person and whether he really loves whom.
At the end of the article, I sincerely wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents!
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