Text/Wei Chen
In the New Book of Tang and the First Biography of Lu Xiang, it is written: "There is nothing in the world, and the mediocre people disturb themselves." ”
People who can't live with themselves really can't do it.
Life is alive, there are many troubles, and if you don't pick it up, you don't have it.
No one can be happy forever in their lives, and the existence of troubles is as natural as when we are hungry and want to eat.
It's just that some people pay too much attention to their troubles, which leads to being trapped in them and having nowhere to escape.
Only when a person does not seek trouble for himself can he live happily.
There are too many people in life who like to find trouble for themselves, because they are too worried about things getting bad, so they are always worried when doing things.
The reality is that it is afraid of what is coming, and the more you worry about the emergence of bad conditions, the more difficult it is to avoid its appearance.
People always can't see the real world when they are troubled. When complaining becomes a habit, life slowly becomes the bad thing you complain about.
At the end of the day, as far as the world is concerned, we are just passing by. Come empty-handed, walk empty-handed, and at the end of life is a wasteland.
There are too many people in this life who live only for responsibility. Because there are too many things to put down, I am tired.
Disturbing emotions are strange, and the more you think about it, the more it becomes.
Since some things are destined to be impossible to change, we must learn to persuade ourselves to go with the flow.
Open-minded talents are free, and the stage is as big as the heart is, and the world is as big as it is.
Life is alive, it is rare to be confused. The more awake a person lives, the more painful the life becomes.
The troubles in life are as many as cattle hair, everywhere. If you care too much, life will become meaningless, and if you don't care, your troubles will naturally be meaningless.
Don't let yourself get emotionally trapped. In this world, there are things that are good and there are opposites, and there are advantages and disadvantages, which is a common sense.
Half of man's destiny is predestined in heaven and half in his own hands. So in the limited time of our lives, we should not let the voices of the outside world dictate our own decisions.
Haruki Murakami said: "There is no right choice in the world, all we can do is to try to make the original choice right, there is no perfect life in the world, all we can do is to make ourselves happy." ”
People's happiness and troubles in this life are mixed, and people, only by allowing themselves to settle down, can they make more favorable choices for themselves.
The troubles are always there, not born or destroyed. As for whether your life will be disturbed by annoyances, it depends on personal choice.
As the saying goes, there is nothing in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
You can choose to consider or not consider everything that happens in this world, and if you think too much about it, it will be infinitely magnified.
In interpersonal communication, if you can't take care of everyone, you can only think about yourself.
There's nothing wrong with being selfish.
Too many people subconsciously believe that a reluctance to give selflessly is not kindness enough.
As a result, their whole lives were kidnapped by the so-called "goodness".
If after you tolerate it, the other party is more unscrupulous, there is no need to continue to endure.
This society has always been very realistic, and the more you talk, the easier you are to be bullied.
If indifference can make your life better, why bother yourself?
While kindness is a virtue, sometimes being too kind is not a good thing.
In the process of interpersonal communication, there is no need to take too much care, be the most authentic self, within the scope of social rules, do not make a fuss, how to be comfortable.
There's no need to pay too much attention to what other people think of you. Everyone can have their own opinion, but not everyone's point of view is correct.
Sanmao said in "Simple": "Excessive concern is nosy, when others reject us, we are hurt, but we do not know that this has not gone, it is really self-seeking." ”
Don't be bored with yourself, rejected, and don't be depressed.
You know, rights are equal. The other person rejected you, and you can also reject the other person.
Smart people understand that they don't have to worry too much about other people's affairs, and they don't point fingers.
Respecting others is also respecting yourself.
People, don't think too much. Things in this world will not be satisfactory, and those who should be rejected will be rejected, and there is no need to invite everyone into life.
Once people have more worries, their troubles will also increase. People who are good to you are also good to him, and people who are not good to you are simply ignored.
Don't worry about others, don't worry about yourself, and don't worry about fate.
This society is changing rapidly, as long as you don't ask for trouble, you can encounter beauty at any time.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.