Silence is the highest state of being a human being, and the same is true of marriage
The fiery release time of ice cubes: 2022-04-1218:16 Creators in the emotional field pay attention to the preface: As the saying goes, "disaster comes out of the mouth, more words will be lost," for people to deal with things without showing off, not ostentatious, down-to-earth, low-key and introverted is the most basic thing to be a person. Some people, who have no ability, always like to show off in front of the crowd, just exposing their own useless shortcomings, clear-eyed people look at it, they know what kind of person you are. People who are really capable are often very low-key and introverted in front of people, no matter what they do, they are obscure, and they understand the truth that "silence is gold".
1] Silence is the gold someone said, "Silence is the most precious thing, but also a weapon of self-protection, so that others can not guess your mind, so that people who are not good for you, can not start." 」 "Silence is also a science, to understand the exchange and communication between people, to do, not to reveal the shortcomings, not to be able to do, to control their mouths, but also to accumulate contacts and credibility for themselves." How many people have not managed their mouths well, how many people have offended, do not know how many losses they have suffered, how many fools they have been fooled, it is because of their own mouths, how many opportunities have been lost, the friendship relationship is frozen, and the emotional problems have reached the brink of rupture. It is best to be silent, not to say what should not be said, not to ask, not to see through and not to say, to see through the truth of not to be debunked, to learn to shut up, to be appropriately silent, is the most precious thing, but also a mature performance. The same is true in marriage, when the two sides quarrel, men must let women, control the situation, learn to be silent on the woman's anger, give women a feeling of willingness to bow to the wind, so that quarrels can never be quarreled, but also give women a sense of superiority, women who understand you, will be worthy of your tolerance and pity.
2] Silence also has the benefit of everyone more or less will have physical and mental bed trauma, because of their own youth and madness, care about other people's thoughts and opinions, will be because of a little thing to argue to justify, bring themselves psychological comfort and good heart, with age, more understanding of the principles of life, and some people to experience and temper, will understand that there is too much helplessness and helplessness in life. Sometimes, the words they have said, the more they explain, the more unclear they are, there will be new problems, see many people clearly, understand a lot of things, understand all aspects, say more wrong, sometimes it is better not to say, go with the flow, do not stretch, do not make noise, at this time, people play the head bird, silence is the most important, things will gradually fade with time. In marriage, it is the same, they are arguing for themselves, ignoring themselves, focusing only on the results, but forgetting the original intention, ignoring each other's feelings, not paying attention to each other's feelings, arguing for their own disguise, may also be a white lie. As the saying goes, "Time proves everything, facts speak louder than words," and silence is precious and a precious language that can be laughed at by some people and certain things.
Summary: In the environment where the water is very deep, do not understand the situation, keep silent, talented, keep silent, it is likely that you will say a word and let yourself fall into trouble. Don't let you feel, to make you sure, to feel that it is always intuition does not represent affirmation, let yourself adapt to the environment, adapt to the crowd, adapt to the lightness and weight of the words, do not look down on any one person. Whether in life or marriage, adaptation is the most important, in the right people and things, say the right words, give yourself a choice of silence, your own path will go better, more calm.
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