He Suohuan, a writer of gender-emotional psychology, writes sentient stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
To some extent, people also have "energy conservation".
Something is good in one aspect, and something is necessarily short in another.
No one is perfect, and no one is going to win all the time.
The same is true for people, wealth.
The main factors that affect a person's wealth accumulation are: birth, marriage, effort and luck.
In fact, birth is greater than effort; effort is greater than marriage, and marriage requires luck.
When a person has no way to choose his origin, how to achieve wealth accumulation and increase his own fortune?
Only hard work, luck and marriage can change.
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A good birth is a determinant of fortune
A clichéd topic:
Some people are born with a golden spoon, and from birth they have conditions that others do not have, family environment, primitive accumulation.
They have won the starting line from the beginning, how can a person with an ordinary family, average parental conditions, and a poor accumulation of his original family be compared to others?
A young man born in a small town, without the help of his parents, the original family conditions are average, how can he achieve the leap and change of his life?
Most people's choices are:
Study, study, get into a good university, and choose a good career after graduation; or, after graduation, go to graduate school, then read a doctorate, and use your academic qualifications to achieve changes in the second half of your life.
But this is, after all, a minority.
The phenomena of most small-town youth are:
Going out to work very early, putting in more effort and physical strength, in exchange for not so much return.
A man's origin and family determine his fortune.
I have a friend next to me, a small-town youth, who is particularly inspirational.
After graduating from high school, he dropped out of school to work, and later learned to cook and open a restaurant, with an annual income of more than 400,000 yuan.
He has a good plan for the future: he hopes to buy a house and a car and get married in a few years.
But this good situation only lasted for 2 years, the family was sick, coupled with the bad market, the money saved was not left.
Family members got sick and spent hundreds of thousands; the market was not good, and the business was getting worse and worse.
A man, without the help of a family, needs more factors to accumulate wealth on his own.
So, the first step a person wants to change their fortunes: family health.
There is a passage on the Internet: several disasters in life.
Serious illness, encountering people unladylike, suddenly encountering accidents, divorcing and fighting for property, lending money to others.
The safety and health of your family can make you worry-free, let you let go of your hands and feet to go on a rampage, and work hard for your career.
If your family is not in good health, not only can not provide you with any help, but also always drag their feet, then it is difficult for you to achieve wealth accumulation.
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Marriage is the way some people change their destiny
From "marrying into the rich" to "I don't want to work hard", the change in the middle is the change in the concept of marriage and love between men and women.
Old Mr. Mu Xin said:
"Once upon a time, I was slow, and I only had enough to love one person in my life."
But in today's environment, marriage has become a springboard for a person to change his destiny.
Girls want to marry into the rich, change their origins and change their destiny through marriage.
Men want to find a virtuous helper, but also want to find a rich woman, the rest of their lives are not willing to work harder.
But in fact, there are very few people who change their fate through marriage.
After all, the accumulation of wealth by the giants is the product of the joint efforts of generations of ancestors.
Even if you successfully fall in love with a partner with a particularly well-off family and marry the other person.
But after getting married, you will only be looked down upon by the other party and rejected by the other party's family.
Why?
Because of your own value, you can't match it.
A person can eat as much as he has the ability, and when you don't have the ability, no matter how many meals are placed in front of you, you can only look at it with your eyes.
In other words: Do you think that if you marry a rich man and marry a rich woman, you don't need to work hard?
They put in the effort, you just don't see it.
Man's desires are endless, and if you want to have something, you have to pay some price for it.
Many things in this world have long been secretly marked with prices, without exception.
If a girl wants to marry into a rich family, she must be strict with herself.
Not to mention that she is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, at least her appearance should be good, her emotional intelligence should be high, she can write and fight, and she can go to the hall and the kitchen.
Do you think it's easy to do that? It's not simple.
In the same way, if a man wants to change his fate through marriage, he must also have his own means, right?
Otherwise, even if the other person is willing, the parents behind the other party will not accept you.
For ordinary people, if you want to change your fate through marriage, you must learn to analyze.
What kind of partner is right for you?
What kind of partner do you want to choose and accompany you through the rest of your life?
How can you maximize your benefits through marriage?
In essence, marriage is an exchange of benefits and a union of complementary values.
Ordinary people get married, and finding a person who is consistent in three views, positive and self-motivated, and has a reliable character is already the greatest luck.
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Hard work can make your fortune continue
Someone said:
A person's success, 1 point depends on hard work, 9 points rely on luck.
In fact, the real success should be 9 points of effort and 1 point of luck.
I have a story of hard work and a story of luck around me.
I have a friend by my side who is particularly bold.
Before the house price rose, he used all his savings to buy 2 houses, and almost divorced his wife because of the purchase of the house.
The wife thinks: "The family has a hard time saving this little money, and in the future, they must pave the way for their children, and they can't buy a house so hastily."
But he insisted on his opinion and bought two houses in the new district.
2 years later, several times, he decisively shot a set and accumulated a part of his wealth.
Do you say it's luck or effort?
Another friend, especially hard.
Opened a steamed bun shop, got up early and went dark, worked for 10 years, and the business is getting better and better.
Although it will not be rich and expensive, at least the income is also very good.
One is hard work and one is luck.
But in fact, who will always be lucky? Isn't continuous good luck also a manifestation of hard work?
And the friend who bought the house also had a very hard time before buying a house; the couple saved money and lived a poor life, and only then did they accumulate the initial wealth.
Therefore, people should never be "so high and far away, hands high and eyes low."
Without working hard, the opportunity is in front of you and cannot be seized.
To use a clichéd quote from success:
"Opportunities are always left to those who are prepared."
"A person, the harder you work, the luckier you get."
In fact, it is.
On the right path, choose the way of life that suits you, and with a little more effort than the people around you, you will live better and better.
What is Fortune?
It's resources, value and financing.
Resources are the foundation, value is the road, financing is the ability.
Today's Topic:
How do you think ordinary people grow their fortunes?
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