My husband said that he gave me 6,000 yuan a month, and I should take care of my mother-in-law if I took the money, otherwise he would deduct the money

1

I was eating with friends outside, and Li Zhi called: "You are eating a big meal outside, my mother can't even eat cold steamed buns at home, she hasn't eaten in a day." In order to eat, she almost lost her life. ”

Li Zhi's voice was obviously suppressed with anger, and I heard it inexplicably. Just when he wanted to ask, he hung up the phone, and when he called again, he wouldn't answer.

I had to say goodbye to my friends and hurry home.

The original mother-in-law's community, due to the epidemic control, all people are isolated at home, and all items should be purchased and distributed by the group.

The mother-in-law is old and can't use a smartphone, so she doesn't know how to buy it. After eating the family's hoards for the first two days, there was no food later.

The mother-in-law was very hungry, and when she went out, one accidentally fell down the stairs and broke her bones.

The mother-in-law called Li Zhi in pain and asked him to quickly find a way. The whole urban area where the mother-in-law lived was sealed, and she couldn't go in or out for a while, Li Zhi belonged to the concern and chaos, and for a while he had no idea, so he called me.

After I reminded him, Li Zhi reacted to the police. Later, with the help of the police, he sent his mother-in-law to the hospital.

My mother-in-law was hospitalized and needed someone to accompany me, and I thought Li Zhi would not hesitate to accompany the bed. I didn't expect Li Zhi to actually let me go. His reasoning was that my salary was less than his, and it was more cost-effective for me to go with the escort. Besides, I am the same woman as my mother-in-law, and I will not be embarrassed.

The mother-in-law is Li Zhi's mother-in-law, what is there to be embarrassed about? My mother-in-law and I are not familiar with each other, and the embarrassment should be me okay?

Li Zhi saw that I was not happy, and then said: "This matter is completely your responsibility, you should accompany the bed." If you hadn't been willing to live with my mother, she wouldn't have gone home to live by herself. It is not so that you will not be unable to eat and fall down the stairs hungry. You should be fully responsible for this. ”

I would not have predicted how I would have expected my mother-in-law to be sealed in the community alone.

Moreover, why I didn't want to live with my mother-in-law, Li Zhi knew very well in his heart. At that time, he acquiesced, and now that something has happened, he has come to blame me.

2

Li Zhi and I made an appointment before we got married, and we didn't live with the elderly after marriage. But the world is unpredictable, we were married for more than half a year, and my father-in-law fell ill and died.

At that time, I had just been pregnant for a long time, and I was in the period of pregnancy, and I couldn't smell the smell of oil smoke and couldn't cook. Li Zhi consulted with me and took his mother-in-law to live with him.

First, in order to take care of her mother-in-law's emotions, so that she would not be touched by the scene at home, she felt sad. Second, it is also to take care of me, and it is not healthy to eat takeout when pregnant.

Although there was a pre-marriage agreement, but the situation at that time forced me, I had to agree to take my mother-in-law over.

I didn't expect that my mother-in-law's living habits were completely different, I was not spicy, and my mother-in-law's diet was light. Every time the mother-in-law cooks, she only cooks what she likes to eat. I originally had a bad appetite during pregnancy, and I didn't have an appetite, and I didn't like to eat.

Li Zhi also told her mother-in-law to let her take care of my taste. The mother-in-law had tears in her eyes: "Old man, when you leave, why don't you take me away with you, leave me alone, how to live, make a meal and be disliked." ”

At the sight of this, Li Zhi and I instantly stopped talking. Li Zhi asked me to point out, my father-in-law had just left, and my mother-in-law's heart had not yet adjusted.

I thought that with my mother-in-law, I could go to work normally after my maternity leave. Unexpectedly, before I went to work, my mother-in-law made her daughter cry, and she had to hold her to coax her, and she was definitely late for work every time.

When I go to work, my mother-in-law calls eight times a day, either the child is hungry or thirsty, even if the diaper is not wet, the mother-in-law also said that she is old and will not change.

After this tossing and turning, no company wanted to use me, so I had to resign and take my own children. Every time I had a conflict with my mother-in-law, Li Zhi pretended not to hear and let us quarrel.

The mother-in-law is afraid of being talked about, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are both at home with children, and will say that she is not contributing as a mother-in-law, so she offers to move back to her own home.

For this matter, Li Zhi had quarreled with me before, saying that I could not tolerate my mother-in-law and would not let her live here, so I drove her away. Later, when I saw that my mother-in-law's life was still good, this matter was over.

Unexpectedly, now that the mother-in-law has an accident this time, Li Zhi mentioned this stubble again. During the epidemic, hospitalization and escort can not be replaced, and when I think of spending so long with my mother-in-law, my scalp is numb.

3

Just when I hesitated, Li Zhi told me another news, his company is going to lay off employees recently, and if he does a good job, he may still have the possibility of staying. If he had taken ten days and half a month's leave, it is estimated that he would not be able to keep his job.

Li Zhi told me before that several of his colleagues had just been dismissed some time ago, and the remaining employees were all at their own risk.

I quickly calculated in my mind that my daughter's after-school class was about to be renewed, and the insurance was about to expire. If Li Zhi has no income, my salary alone will certainly not be enough.

Now no matter how much prejudice I have against my mother-in-law, it is not the time for me to lose my temper. After all, it takes money to live a life.

I thought that staying with the bed for a week at most would be about the same, so I only took a week off. I didn't expect my mother-in-law's situation to be much more serious than I thought. She was older and had a lot to consider for surgery, and the doctor said her mother-in-law was badly injured, so she had to stay longer.

But the doctor couldn't say how long it would take, so I asked my boss for leave, which changed from one week to ten days, and then to half a month. The boss was angry and told me that if I didn't go to work again next Monday, let me go straight to home and don't go.

I called Li Zhi and cried: "This is good, in order to keep your job, my job is going to be gone." ”

Li Zhi comforted me: "It's okay, as long as you earn those two dates, it doesn't work." If your boss doesn't want you, you can take care of my mom in the hospital with peace of mind. Besides, even if you don't quit now, when my mother is discharged from the hospital, you still have to quit, otherwise who will take care of my mother at home. ”

Li Zhi said that even if the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital and returned home, she could not get out of bed and act, and someone had to take care of her.

But I also know that women have no income, and this backbone is not straight. I have a lot of stay-at-home moms who are simply not valued at home, and the dedication to the family is taken for granted.

In case I encounter a project that needs to spend money, if Li Zhi does not approve and does not give me money, then I am not very passive? Isn't it time to look at people's faces and act?

4

Li Zhi was a little impatient: "Then what do you want to do?" ”

I said, "You pay me a salary, give me six thousand a month, pay on time." In this way, I have a bottom in my heart. ”

Li Zhi felt that my previous salary was only four thousand, and now I dare to open my mouth to ask for six thousand, which is clearly blackmail.

I said, "If you think it's inappropriate, hire a caregiver, and I'll go on earning my four thousand." You don't want to think, we are a family, saying that we are paying me a salary, and the money is just taken from the left pocket to the right pocket, and you don't lose anything. I just want a comfort in my heart, so that you can see my efforts. ”

In the end, Li Zhi agreed, and the money was given on time for the first month. The next month after I reminded, Li Zhicai gave. In the third month, I wanted money, Li Zhi said that this month to buy car insurance, but also paid the mother-in-law the money for the rehabilitation center, there is not so much in hand.

In fact, I don't have to, it's just that I have money in my hand to make a sense of security. Li Zhi, this person I understand, he is not a person who spends money indiscriminately, a pair of shoes for twenty yuan, still wear. The socks are worn out and can still be worn. I spend a lot of money, find a complementary partner, and change my problem.

Since there is no one this month, let's do it together next month.

On Wednesday morning, I took my daughter to school and then took my mother-in-law to the hospital rehabilitation center for training.

The rehabilitation center has a lot of people, and there is an orthopedic specialist, who is notoriously powerful, and only sits there on Wednesdays. So everyone made an appointment in advance, wanted to let the experts see, a few pointers, just catch up with our usual training for a long time.

I also made an appointment to my mother-in-law half a month in advance, and I couldn't get a place that was hard to grab.

Just as it was our turn, my dad called me and said my mom was suddenly sick and was on her way to the hospital.

I suddenly saw the darkness in front of my eyes, and I wanted to run outside when I heard my mother-in-law's name called on the radio, and asked my mother-in-law to go to the doctor. My feet stopped in mid-air, and I didn't walk, nor did I stay.

If I leave, I can't leave my mother-in-law here alone, but I have to take her with me. It is not easy to take my mother-in-law out of the door, and every time I help her out, I sweat. Tired point or secondary, the key is to delay time. Rushing back with her, I was afraid it was too late.

Besides, the experts who had a hard time dating, missed the appointment and wanted to make another appointment, I don't know how long to wait.

If I stay, what about my mother's side?

5

Anyway, I have already come, and it is my mother-in-law's turn, so let's see my mother-in-law first.

I called Li Zhi and asked him to go to the hospital to see my mother first. Here I took my mother-in-law to check it out, and I rushed over.

The expert is worthy of being an expert, listened to the mother-in-law's condition, gave a few massages, and then stabbed two stitches, and then taught me a few massage techniques, the mother-in-law tried to say that it was much more comfortable, not so painful as before.

During the check-up, my dad called me and asked me if I had any money in my hand, and the hospital let me pay the fee, saying that I would pay the deposit first. He went out in a hurry, didn't take that much money, and asked me to hurry up and send the money.

I estimated that Li Zhi was on the road and had not yet arrived at the hospital, so I asked him to transfer some money to me first and pay the fee first.

When my mother-in-law finished checking, I wanted to take her away. The mother-in-law does not do it, and she has to take advantage of her physical comfort and finish training here before leaving.

I explained to my mother-in-law that my mother was sick and that I had to go back and see her tomorrow, and that tomorrow I would bring her to do training.

The mother-in-law did not forgive, crying and making a lot of noise, saying that the doctor had said that if it felt good, it was best to keep up with the training, so that the recovery effect would be better.

I had to train here with my mother-in-law and call my dad to ask about my mom.

My dad said that my mom wasn't in a very optimistic situation, as if she had to have surgery, and the time of the operation was undecided.

At this time, I learned that from the time I told Li Zhi that my mother was sick, it had been four or five hours now, and he had not even been to the hospital.

I called Li Zhi and he said, "I'm busy with work here, and I'll be over when I'm done." ”

I couldn't help but raise my voice: "Li Zhi, I am here to accompany your mother to do rehabilitation training." My mom is hospitalized, let you go over and see, you tell me to go back after work! ”

Li Zhi said: "I have given all the money, there are doctors in the hospital, and I can't treat the disease, what is the use in the past." ”

My dad was alone, and he couldn't be busy in the hospital, so if something happened, someone might as well come up with an idea. Li Zhi actually told me that it was useless for him to go.

6

I was really chilled, Li Zhi, as my husband, did not come forward when I needed it most, and actually found a reason to escape.

The hospital did have doctors, and he couldn't help much. But my mother was sick and hospitalized, and Li Zhi, as a son-in-law, should have been present.

Besides, I was still training with my mother outside, and I couldn't go back for a while. Shouldn't he have rushed to the hospital right away and guarded my mother?

He was still weighing the pros and cons, thinking that work was more important than my mother.

At the beginning, my mother introduced Li Zhi to this company, if it were not for my mother, Li Zhi would not even have the qualifications to enter this company. The company first looks at the academic qualifications, if the academic qualifications are not up to standard, there is only a profession, and even the company's first round of interviews cannot pass.

Through the relationship, my mother contacted a person in charge of the company, and the other party saw that Li Zhi was professional and excellent, and only then did he break the rules.

My daughter is more than one year old, my mother-in-law returns to her home, or my mother comes to help watch the children, let me find a job to work, and the pressure on Li Zhi's shoulders is lighter. The money spent by the father-in-law's illness can only be repaid within a year or two.

Li Zhi actually didn't know gratitude at all, and he was not ashamed to say that he had already paid for it, and people still used it?

I rushed directly to the training area and said to my mother-in-law, "No more practice, go home." "My mother-in-law still doesn't want to leave, and I don't want to break up with her, so I just threw her down and said that I would let Li Zhi pick her up later, and then I left."

I rushed to the hospital, and just as my mom was preparing for the operation, I took my mom into the operating room, and I was waiting at the door.

By the time my mother's surgery was completed, it was almost dark, but fortunately my mother was in no big trouble. The doctor said that at that time, it looked dangerous, but fortunately, my mother was usually in good shape, which turned the crisis into safety.

The rehabilitation center called me and asked me when I was going to pick up my mother-in-law, who was almost out of work.

7

Hearing the word mother-in-law, the joy in my heart was instantly reduced by half. Li Zhi didn't even pick up his mother.

Li Zhi said that I am his daughter-in-law, and it is natural to take care of my mother-in-law. Not to mention that it is my job to accompany my mother-in-law, and he pays me every month. If I get paid, I should do my job well, so whether I have anything to do or not, I have to go and get my mother-in-law back.

I was stunned by Li Zhi's bizarre theory. His mother was out there alone, he wasn't worried at all, and there was still time for me to theorize.

In the end, my father persuaded me that he was in the hospital to take care of me and let me go and get my mother-in-law back first. After all, I left my mother-in-law there, and if something happened to her, I would have a troubled conscience for the rest of my life.

When I got home, I consulted with Li Zhi and asked him to prepare money in advance, so that he could pay my mother when the time came.

Li Zhi took out the calculator, snapped it, and muttered in his mouth: "Your mother is sick and hospitalized, and I gave thirteen thousand." Of them, a thousand, were my intentions as a son-in-law to buy some supplements for your mother. The remaining twelve thousand, six thousand is your salary for the previous month, and the six thousand is for you to advance the next month's salary.

You threw my mother in the rehabilitation center, sneaked to the hospital to take care of your mother, and for your first time, I will not deduct the money for your absence from work.

During the days when your mother is sick, you can also go to the hospital to accompany you, but under the premise that you complete your job, I will not deduct your salary. ”

My head was confused: "I and you Li Zhi are husband and wife, not superior and subordinate employment relationship." The money you give me is the joint property of the husband and wife, the cost of living, not the salary. ”

But Li Zhi did not think so, when I first offered to ask for a salary, then taking care of my mother-in-law is my job. I asked him, if I don't raise my salary, won't I have to take care of my mother-in-law?

Li Zhi's answer is obviously not, I don't mention salary, serving my mother-in-law is my business, because I am his daughter-in-law.

Only now did I find that for such a long time, Li Zhi had been pushing the responsibility on me. My mother's injury was my responsibility because I didn't live with my mother-in-law. It's still my responsibility if my mom is sick, because that's my mom.

As a son, as a husband, as a son-in-law, he has no responsibility at all.

8

Why have I been sacrificing? My mother-in-law is hospitalized, I earn less, I should take care of it! My mother lives in the courtyard, and Li Zhi doesn't even show his face! I am waiting for my mother-in-law here, and I still have to take time to take care of my mother, not to deduct wages, and Li Zhi to have the final say!

That night, I divorced Li Zhi, and the marriage I wanted was for the husband and wife to work together and bear the problems together.

Instead of one party making more money, one party will dictate to the other party and completely use money to measure the other party's efforts.

Li Zhi didn't want to leave at first, but I still dragged him to the Civil Affairs Bureau. At the moment, we are in the cooling-off period for divorce.

And my job wasn't lost, my mom was watching over there. As for my mother-in-law's side, I can't take care of that much. She had her own son anyway.

As for the property, I deserve it, and I want to get it for a lot. The child also followed me, and Li Zhi gave maintenance every month.

I am currently looking for a job and I believe my future will be better.