The more independent a woman, the more "good life"

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01. Preface

In life, at every age stage, there are different exams, and everyone is working hard to answer the papers, looking forward to being able to be ashamed when they turn in their papers in their twilight years.

What kind of life a person lives and what kind of answers he gives depends on himself.

For a woman, her life is easily swayed by marriage. In ancient times, there was the idea of "following the father at home and marrying from the husband", which led many women to give up on themselves and live dependent on their husbands after getting married.

Miyazaki said: "Don't rely on a person easily, it will become your habit, when the separation comes, you lose not a certain person, but your spiritual pillar." ”

In fact, in life, the more independent a woman is, the more "good life".

Women learn to be independent in order to live with confidence and dignity. Use your own strength to fight for a future of your own, in order to get a real sense of security.

There is only one kind of woman who can really make men look up, and that is the "independent" woman.

02, independence, is a woman's umbrella

When a woman learns to be independent, she has the ability to love herself.

Independence is the umbrella in the hands of women. When the wind strikes, it blocks the wind, and when the rain comes, it blocks the rain.

Luo Zijun in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", after getting married, became a full-time wife and was very satisfied with the married life of relying on her husband.

She feels that her happiness is given by her husband Chen Junsheng, and thinks that her husband will love her deeply for the rest of his life.

However, reality soon dealt her a heavy blow.

Her husband changed his mind and insisted on divorcing her. She had lost her big house, she had lost her dependence, and even if she did not have the dignity to ask him to turn back, she did not get a single response from her husband.

After being in a desperate situation, Luo Zijun began to work hard and learn to rely on himself.

After that, she worked hard to find a job, constantly learning, constantly proving and improving her strength.

Slowly, she learned to be independent, and gradually stood up from the quagmire of life. She began to live confidently and confidently. Not only does it give the child a better life, but it also makes his life more attractive.

In life, no one can rely on themselves, only on their own.

Women, learning to be independent, are learning to protect themselves and protect the people they love. Women, the best love for themselves, is to remain independent and insist on being themselves.

The more independent a woman is, the more confident she can live, the more confident she will live, and the more men will cherish you.

03, independent women, live with confidence

A woman who lives independently has the right to choose her destiny. Only a woman who lives independently has the right to make independent life choices.

Women learn to be independent in order to choose to live as they like.

Andy in "Ode to Joy" is a workplace elite, a woman who lives very independently. Not only can she strategize at work, but she also has emotional initiative.

Because of her independence, she has enough capital to choose the people and things she loves. Because of her independence, she has enough confidence to face gains and losses.

When she and Bao Yifan are together, they can have the courage to help him fight against his family and protect his lover domineeringly.

Independent women, not only live a dashing life, but also have a backbone. It is not easy to compromise with life. Instead, live your own excitement with your heart.

Women are independent, able to maintain their own dignity, do not have to bow their heads for anything, and live calmly and freely.

Independence allows women to have the capital to love a person purely; independence, so that women in life, have the courage to choose their own love of life to live.

Women, the more independent they are, the more capable they are to control their own lives.

04, independence, is a charm

Independence is a proof of ability. A truly independent woman, living confidently and attractively.

Su Qian said: "It is better to please men than to please themselves, and women who only please themselves are destined to fall for the world." ”

Women learn to be independent, then the opportunity to experience themselves will increase, not only can make the mind more mature, but also let a woman live more transparent and wise.

In this world, all experiences are irreplaceable "values" in life.

Only by living independently can we have the ability to love ourselves. What you like, you don't have to pray to anyone to give, but you can use your own strength to fight.

Women who live independently have the right to choose their own lives, do not easily live as others like, and do not humblely please others.

Independence is the best undertone for a woman.

Independent woman, after experiencing the tests of life and the polishing of wind and rain, she will become more calm, stronger, and more confident.

In the face of life, independent women have more confidence, more elegance, and more confidence.

The more independent a woman is, the more confident she will be in her life, and there will be an undisguised glow on her body. The more independent a woman is, the easier it is to be favored by excellent people.

05. Summary

Women, please learn to be independent. At any time, don't forget to run yourself.

On the road of life, no matter what kind of state you are in, women please do not easily give up the initiative to run life. Don't disrupt your own pace of progress, and don't give up your dreams and pursuits for anyone.

Although women look weak as willows, it does not mean that women do not have strength.

Live tenaciously, like bamboo, not falling against the wind; like a plum blossom, facing the cold winter. Learn to strengthen yourself,

Live on your own strength to be a great look.

Women, no matter how much they love someone, no matter how superior the family conditions are, please learn to make yourself independent.

The more independent a woman is, the more "good life" she will be. Independence is a skill, but also a manifestation of ability.

Women, only if they shine more, can they have a better life.

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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.