Hello everyone, I'm Lady Bird.
It was discovered a long time ago that men really have no idea about the weight of girls.
A few years ago, I went out shopping with my boyfriend, saw a beautiful woman who was about 180 years tall and particularly thin, I whispered "how many pounds do you guess her", the boyfriend looked up and down at the beautiful woman, confidently told me "just 90 pounds", I really excuse me on the spot?? Seriously???
The same as a 170+ high sister, I know that more than 175 girls, even if thin to the skin and bones is difficult to be less than 100 pounds, only the bones plus the internal organs are almost more than this number, in the end how to predict 90 pounds?!
Later, it was found that men's cognition of girls' weight is bounded by 100 pounds.
If a girl looks a little fat, it is more than 100 pounds; if a girl looks thin, even if she is 170+ in height, it is less than 100 pounds. It's a completely nonsensical judgment mechanism.
What is even more outrageous is that I brushed the little red book two days ago and found that the "thinness" of boys to girls really does not have a healthy standard.
A girl said that every time she sent a circle of friends, she had to be said by her boyfriend "so fat you", at first I thought how serious the fat was, but I clicked in to take a look and found that the sister was finished! whole! No! fat!
Maybe big data felt my anger and pushed me a series of "boyfriends think I'm fat" posts.
Some people with a height of 172 and a weight of 118 are considered fat, and some are also considered fat with a height of 165 and a weight of 105.
Seriously, as a girl, at a glance, you really can't see where they are fat, most of the girls who are disliked by their boyfriends are actually just normal body shape, not fat and not thin, don't they look very healthy?
Do you have to make the girls skinny to be skinny?!
Not only is there no concept of thinness, but also no concept of boys and girls' fat.
For example, my girlfriend complained to me that her boyfriend likes to evaluate the figure of the girls in his circle of friends.
Once he showed his girlfriend a circle of friends sent by a fitness girl, and the girl sent two photos, one was a photo of herself training, and the other was a photo of the scale showing 65kg.
According to the girlfriend's description, while pointing at the photo, he complained to the girlfriend and said, "130 pounds, oh my God, you must not become like this!" ”。
However, my girlfriend showed me a picture of the girl, she can be said to have no extra flesh, 130 pounds are muscles, and the whole person exudes a sense of healthy and beautiful atmosphere.
On the other hand, my girlfriend's boyfriend is already 180 pounds, although he is very tall, but the extra flesh on his stomach can hold up his clothes tightly every time, and we are both wondering how he can be so strict with the law and be lenient with himself.
In particular, I find it strange that men think that as long as their weight does not exceed 200 pounds, it is not a problem, even if there is extra meat, at most it will only be said to be "strong".
But once the perspective changes to boys looking at girls, the standard will immediately become very strict, even if the normal weight is "fat", and the existence of extra flesh is not allowed.
I myself am already relatively thin, but there is still a little meat on my stomach, sometimes I eat a little more, when I sit, my pants will pull out a circle of small meat, and a few times I have been seen by boys in the summer, and I have been ridiculed for growing my meat in "places that shouldn't be long".
Please boys, it's really a bit of common sense!! Girls have a little belly, or sit down the stomach will be strangled out of the fold is how normal ah, relaxed state of the thin girl will have a belly ah!
Really advise the boys to stop deifying the body standards of girls, everyone is an ordinary person, and it is normal to have a little fat on the body. Can't have their own stomach is normal, to the girl began to double standard Oh ~ ~
Then again, as a girl, I really understand the hearts of girls who want to be thinner and more beautiful even with a standard weight, who doesn't want to be better looking?
But at the same time, I'm always wary of this "better-looking" aesthetic, because it's such a perfect standard that it's likely to come at the expense of health.
Fast forward to summer again, and I know that many sisters are trying to lose weight for the summer, and I understand that no amount of persuasion is useless. I just hope that whether it is girls who are losing weight, or boys who like the size of the girl who likes the size of the girl, they can realize that -
The world is either thin or fat, and there is a standard called "normal weight".
Head image / Arren Aaren
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