In the face of major events, we must be quiet, in times of distress we must change, in case of bad things, we must leave, and in the face of smooth things, we must be quiet

A writer once said:

"In a person's first reaction to an incident, he hides his knowledge, insight, character, and cultivation.

And this reaction also determines his quality of life. ”

Whether a person has a good life or not depends on the ability to deal with things, and more importantly, in the mentality of facing problems.

Life is always live, and no one knows what will happen in the next second.

But the angle from which you look at things affects the temperature of your life and also determines the height of your life.

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In case of major events, "quiet"

The late Qing dynasty politician Weng Tonggong wrote such a couplet: "Every time there is a big event, there is calmness, and I do not believe that there are no ancient sages in this day." ”

Whenever a major event is encountered, we must think in meditation, brake quietly, first be quiet and then plan, first plan and then move, the problem can be solved and the risk can be successfully solved.

Quiet can overcome the impatience in the human body and avoid being affected and controlled by emotions.

Because under the deception of emotions, even small things can be magnified into big things that can pry the earth.

Quiet, in order to open the appearance of the eyes, quickly find the root of the problem and the key to breaking the situation.

Only by being calm can we make decisions, only by planning can we do things, and only when we are calm can we accomplish things.

Keeping quiet is the basis for a person to sharpen his will and cultivate his self-cultivation.

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Things that are killed must be "changed"

Two sentences that are often heard: don't hit the south wall, don't look back. A road that goes to black.

This kind of persistence makes people admire, but sometimes it is too persistent and does not know how to be flexible, and it will also harm itself.

Many things in this world are often tortuous and cyclical. In life, there are fewer times when there is a horse and a river, and there are more times when there are twists and turns.

If you enter a "dead end", you may wish to observe the exit next to it, and also look at the forks in the left and right, but if it is not a "wrong road" or a "last road", then you can consider stepping on it and continue to move forward.

As the saying goes, "All roads lead to Rome." "As long as the original intention remains unchanged and unswerving, then look at the results more and stick less to the process."

If this road does not work, he will find another way; if he does not pass, he will create a new way.

People who are flexible and flexible can often sprout dead wood and thrive, while people who are dull and do not know how to change often waste great opportunities.

Only by learning to be flexible can we have fewer difficulties, more vitality, and better walking.

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In case of bad things to "leave"

There is a saying in the "Wise Man": "When the break is continuous, it is chaotic." ”

The rotten things in life seem to have their own magnetic field and attract each other. Gradually, you will lose more energy and make room for serious things.

The story of "broken nothing" is similar to the Western proverb "Don't cry over spilled milk."

Repeatedly asking for trouble for annoying things and irreparable things is tantamount to self-masochism.

Obsessing over the mess can neither turn back the clock nor change the status quo.

Instead of letting yourself sink into deep sorrow, it is better to walk out of the predicament with your head held high.

You have to believe that the best way to avoid falling into the abyss is to stay away from the abyss.

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In case of good things, we must "collect"

There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people. People with a large pattern, the more proud they are, the more introverted they are.

Zeng Guofan was promoted year after year during the Daoguang years, and within ten years, he was promoted to ten levels in a row.

After he was promoted to the rank of Sanpin, according to the regulations, it was necessary to change from blue palanquin to green, and two additional car lifters could be added.

Soon he was promoted to erpin senior officer, and according to the Qing Dynasty system, he could take the eight-lift car.

However, Zeng Guofan still kept riding in the previous blue palanquin, in addition to the guards around him had to add two, in front of his palanquin, there was neither a guide officer nor a person to support the palanquin.

Zeng Guofan remembered the official truth: no publicity, no ostentation.

Wood shows in the forest, and the wind will destroy it; the deeds are higher than the people, and the multitudes will not do it.

The more people with a large pattern, the more they understand the humble and low-key attitude towards life, seek high with low, and maintain themselves with humility, because they are humble and courteous, and treat others with an open heart, so they win a good reputation and get support, so as to achieve their own achievements.

Only by being low-key and not ostentatious can we go far in a down-to-earth manner.

In this life, people will encounter all kinds of things.

We can't influence the development of things, but we can adjust our mentality.

When encountering major events, you should calmly brake and calmly deal with them;

When encountering difficulties, it is necessary to turn in time and be flexible;

In case of bad things, you may wish to wave your sleeves and continue on the road;

When encountering smooth things, we must also be introverted and low-key, and be humble to others.

Only by changing your attitude towards things can you change the height of your life.

Maintain a higher mentality than life, in order to meet a better self, a more beautiful scenery.

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